
Originally Posted by
zxcire
ShellyBelly I'm so sorry this happened to you.
You know what? To anyone who thinks it couldn't happen to them? It happened to me too. Luckily his penis didn't make it into my body, but let me tell you, things can happen fast fast fast and you never know how you will react in a situation until it actually happens to you.
A hard swift thrust of an erect penis can and will penetrate a woman's vagina, lubricated or not, with or without tearing, blood and pain. Don't think that it's not possible---because it absolutely is.
In my case, I was giving a dance, and I was turned around with my back to him and going to settle onto his lap, and he had undone his pants while I was turned around and pulled my thongs off to the side as I was bending down. I was not drunk. I was also not expecting to be the victim of an attempted rape at that very second. I do know it was NOT my fault that he took advantage of my nearness and my nudity.
I don't approach every man at work with the mindset that he could take advantage of me. It would be too emotionally exhausting and I would not be effective at my job. Being off my guard for a second almost cost me dearly. Still...it wasn't my fault, just as it wasn't Shelly's.
I also didn't file charges. It was a personal choice I made in the midst of a personal trauma.
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