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    Default I can fuck some strange but i can't kiss him

    That is the major rule my husband had given me in our marriage.

    I can fuck other guys (or girls) by myself but not in our house if he isn't there.

    He can't kiss girls or fuck them with out me period lol, thats my rules for him. But i'm open to him fucking other women with me there. We just haven't done it yet.

    I have the ultimate say in a mfm 3 some but he is allowed to make suggestions and request i find another guy to fuck me with him. We've only done this once so far, but it was super hot.

    We will both always use protection every time, no question.


    I know some of you are in open relationships and i'm wondering what your rules are for each other?
    Do you feel like kissing is more intimate then sex?
    My husband would prefer to see someone elses cock in my mouth rather then tounge. lol
    Is it weird that he suggests that other men fuck me? I feel like i'm living in some dream world LOL



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    Default Re: I can fuck some strange but i can't kiss him

    It's not weird at all, it could be a fetish, or it could be what's called "compersion" - that is, he loves you so much that seeing you enjoying yourself makes him happy. It's the basis for most poly relationships, actually.

    I do know what he means about kissing - when I have threesomes with my Husband we don't kiss the girls unless we're dating them. So random fucks - no kisses. Girlfriends, yes kisses.

    So yeah I follow.

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    ^ I knew you would
    I think you and i could possibly be kindred spirits



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    Default Re: I can fuck some strange but i can't kiss him

    My BF and I agreed upon a kinda open relationship. We are allowed to fool around a little BUT with discretion. What you don't know will not hurt you.

    The agreement is two/sided but at the moment I'm not really into fooling around but that might change ?? Makes me feel very diabolic

    I'm also working the thought of we trying out some 3/some. MFF - that is !! I wouldnt feel comforterable in a MFM !!

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    I'm jealous. My husband loves to consider our marriage "open" in that he'll allow me to persue other women (but only approves of the ones that HE finds attractive himself). He refuses to agree to any kind of MFM-action, however, and would never let me see another man on my own. I really don't want to sleep with anyone else but I've never made it with two dudes! I have no desire to persue women (dyking out just bores me) and I have the most vicious crush on one of his buddies who just came out as bi to him!! AARRGGHH!! Just when I thought the world couldn't get any more cruel.
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    Default Re: I can fuck some strange but i can't kiss him

    Quote Originally Posted by Nini Nieb View Post
    My BF and I agreed upon a kinda open relationship. We are allowed to fool around a little BUT with discretion. What you don't know will not hurt you.

    The agreement is two/sided but at the moment I'm not really into fooling around but that might change ?? Makes me feel very diabolic

    I'm also working the thought of we trying out some 3/some. MFF - that is !! I wouldnt feel comforterable in a MFM !!
    I prefer to know. STDs and all that. They kinda hurt.


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    Default Re: I can fuck some strange but i can't kiss him

    My DH and I have an open marriage, rules are pretty simple:
    Use protection.
    Enjoy yourself.
    No sneaking. If you're gonna do it, just TELL me.

    Beyond that, it's pretty much a case by case basis. If he finds someone I'm attracted to attractive also (or viceversa), we'll broach the idea of a threesome. Otherwise, it's a kiss goodbye and we're off to the races!
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    Default Re: I can fuck some strange but i can't kiss him

    My man has no problem seeing me fool around with another girl as long as he is okay with the girl and I tell him about it.

    I don't know... at one point I had no problem with him fooling around with other girls but now because I love him so much I don't know if I could handle seeing him fuck another girl...

    I do know one thing though I would never want to see him kiss another girl... kissing to me is very intimate and has meaning. A fuck is a fuck.

    Bah I can't make sense of what im saying now lol. I've been awake for like 48 hours

    Bed time I think...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    I prefer to know. STDs and all that. They kinda hurt.
    Don't you worry !!

    We have agreed upon a very strict and explicit formulated STD/policy.

    Thank you for your concern

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    Default Re: I can fuck some strange but i can't kiss him

    PV, I think we might well be kindred spirits. Let's have some threeways!

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    I have always thought that kissing was more intimate than sex. I think maybe it's because when I was younger I was somewhat promiscuous so I learned to almost dissassociate (sp) myself with sex. I have never kissed anyone except for boyfriends, but I have had fuckbuddies, which I refused to kiss. Your husband's desire for you to not kiss but only have sex with other men also makes sense, because a lot of people connect kissing with emotions, but they don't always connect sex with emotions, hence the reason that a lot of escorts will have sex, but will refuse to kiss.

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    Philly, you're a lucky gal! Run with it!
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    Default Re: I can fuck some strange but i can't kiss him

    I don't think it's weird but then again my guy loves to watch me fuck other men. Of course I love watching him fuck other women so it's all good.

    Our rules are pretty simple.
    We are both always present, both hold veto right so if one isn't into it we don't do it.

    He's the only one that gets to fuck me in the ass.



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    Quote Originally Posted by cherry_sin View Post
    PV, I think we might well be kindred spirits. Let's have some threeways!
    Can I play too??

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    *sigh*

    jealous.

    and here's me having conversations with my man about his decreasing sex drive...

    I struggle with monogamy enough as it is, now I get LESS sex??? bad bad bad...


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