I have been dancing almost 5 years now. I danced in north jersey at 3 diff smaller clubs, then south jersey at 2 diff clubs. I am the type that gets along with all the staff and dancers.
So my last club i left for a number of reasons, but the main one was the clientèle coming into the club were complete scumbags, as in expecting WAY too much for $1. My last night there, a dude was waiving $1 in my face taunting me "what are u going to do for this?" and i laughed at him, he pushed that dirty dollar into my face and i then slapped him and took the hat off his head and walked away. My manager at that time came stormin in the dressing room and said "you cant treat the customers that way" i quit that night. he took a scumbag customers side over mine!! i cried that nite it takes alot to make me cry but that was IT.
so now im at a new club, its upscale, and hard to get hired here
the customers are actually somewhat nice and they seem to like me there, so the $$ is good.
Now the downfall (always seems to be one in this business?)
*all* of the girls there hate me and are talking bad about me. they want me to leave! they talk bad about me to the customers too. and cut throat and come up while im sitting with someone and take the customers attention off of me and completely ignore me.
it sucks, it really does.
Even all the bullshit i went thru at my last bar, the one good thing was that the dancers and staff (besides the main manager) were like a close family.
everyone tells me, its not about making friends, its about making $$. Im the type where if i feel like everyone hates me it really dampers my mood. i am known to double team the custies with my fellow dancers. i look out for the fellow dancers, i tell them, avoid this one, he is an asshole.
the point is, if we can get along we can all actually make more $$
I HATE being the new girl. and i always thru out my dance life, made it a point to be nice to the newbies. why are the vet dancers always so mean to them? do they not know how nerve wrecking it is for her to be the newbie as it is?
just a vent i guess, thanks for listening.![]()




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I agree with the others. This behavior will most likely past. They will see that all of their negativity isn't putting a dent with you making money so they will either give up or move on to a new target.

i am about to go in again tonight... i am getting bubble guts like its my first time ever dancing. isnt that strange? i really miss my old club, the few custies i had, the girls, the staff 
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