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    Default Has sw gone to "mommy"

    THIS IS NOT MENT IN ANYWAY TO BRING DRAMA I JUST WANT TO TALK ABOUT THIS.

    Lolas post has got me to thinking do alot of ppl think this site is getting to mommy. I feel badly cause i am guess i am part of the problem if it is a probelm. I like coming to this bord for advice and support because i find the women here are alot like me and i am comfortable here but maybe that is not what we should be doing here. I am not currently stripping but this place feeds my inner stripper i need that. I still post in sg from time to time when i revelvent advice or comments i have been there and i will dance agine.

    I am going to refrain from posteing partenting issues for now on atleast i will try.

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    Default Re: Has sw gone to "mommy"

    A board dominated by women of child bearing age is bound to get mommy-ish at times. Why would you refrain from mentioning parenting issues ESPECIALLY if you are dancing or will soon? Plenty of dancers have child care issues or even other parenting issues relating to their schedule or job I see no reason to avoid talking about it.


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    I totally agree that its bound to happen. I have no problems with it even though I'm not cut out for childbirth myself. This is first and foremost a forum for strippers though. It does seem though that like most other aspects of our lives stripping may come into play in regards to rearing children, whether through other people's negative assumptions or dealing with working and children.

    Perhaps a Mommy sub-forum could be made where working moms could discuss how they handle things? Ladies Only seems to be more relationships from a womans perspective and sex chat.

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    I'm definitely one of the guilty parties too, obviously. I'm never quite sure whether to post some stuff in the Lounge, Ladies Only, or Body Biz. This is one of the reasons I :::wish::: we could have one more forum for such things - that way, anyone who's not interested doesn't have to read about mucus plugs and potty training and how to pump milk in the dressing room between stage sets.
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    Default Re: Has sw gone to "mommy"

    Just continue being yourself krchab.
    And DO NOT GET SPELLCHECKER.
    I love your crazy spelling.

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    Default Re: Has sw gone to "mommy"

    Not to pry or seem prickish, but what does krchab's spelling have to do with anything?

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    I don't have kids, but it doesn't bother me one bit. Yes a sub-forum would be nice, but we have to make due with what we have. As long as its not in SG, chat away mommies

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    I'm not a mom and SW going "mommy" hasn't bothered me, but in general I wish the topics were still at least loosely based around stripping. Seeing a thread about weird hours and their children, pumping breast milk in the DR stuff like that is what is more appropriate in stripperweb world. I think straying too far from that is whats causing a lot of our problems...

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    I don't mind the mommy stuff. If something doesn't interest me, I don't read it. I do like to read the baby stuff though. It increases my chances of seeing cute baby pics.

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    If it bothers anybody, I say we should cut it out. I've been guilty of posting mommy stuff, only because this is the only place I have where I get to be a stripper and a mommy and that's really comforting. I wouldn't feel as open if I were on a "regular" (non-stripper) mommy board.

    A sub-forum would be cool, but if it is too off topic from SW, then I understand that too. Maybe a poll?
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    I am childfree by choice fo' life. And it doesn't bother me one bit. "Of topic" means just that--discuss what ye will. Geez...doesn't seem so difficult to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LilyLove View Post
    I don't mind the mommy stuff. If something doesn't interest me, I don't read it.
    Word. Am I missing something? Is someone offended by the kid/mom threads?

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    It doesn't bother me either and I have no plans on having kids. If I don't want to read a thread, I won't but it really doesn't bother me. It's a part of your life. I'm pretty sure there are threads on all aspects of people's lives and not all of these topics are going to be relevant to everyone.
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    Quote Originally Posted by hockeybobby View Post
    Just continue being yourself krchab.
    And DO NOT GET SPELLCHECKER.
    I love your crazy spelling.
    hehe you made me smile so your thread jack is forgiven. lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap View Post
    Not to pry or seem prickish, but what does krchab's spelling have to do with anything?
    It has everything to do with the many reasons I love to see her posts, and imploring her not to change a thing. I was not being sarcastic.
    I'm gently teasing a friend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by holiday View Post
    If it bothers anybody, I say we should cut it out.

    A sub-forum would be cool, but if it is too off topic from SW, then I understand that too. Maybe a poll?

    Mind you this is NO offense to you personally at all, more of an observation in general.

    But I think the overly PC bullshit like your post above is the damn problem. Years ago if someone posted something that you (general you) didn't like or care about, you overlook it/don't open it, and move on.

    Nowadays, it's all about making sure no one's toes are stepped on, and no one is butt hurt. BAH, whatever.


    It's this simple guys/girls; if there is a topic or poster you don't care about, then DON'T read it/ignore it.

    We can't make everyone happy all the time, and for as many girls/guys that would vote no more mummy talk, there would be JUST AS MANY that would vote for it to stay.

    It's gotten too political in this board lately to the point where you can't even voice your opinion or tell a good dirty/mean joke w/o bing told you are out of line or take it to PM's.
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    Quote Originally Posted by seraya View Post
    that is why we have 2 seperate sections.

    if you read the forum definitions you will see;

    For topics about exotic dancing and the industry.

    For discussing non-stripping related topics.
    I stand corrected, even though I don't think it makes a difference in my point.

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    I'm a mother and I don't mind the Mommy topics. It would be nice to have a Mommy/Childcare section to put the parenting-related topics, but I don't feel that it is completely necessary.

    OTOH, it seems as though the parenting topics often seem to implode...

    I think if you don't find a thread interesting, then move on to the next. That's what I do!
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    I am a man and I changed after I had kids. I didn't think I would, but fact is I did. My priorities became very much centered around what I thought was best for my kids vs previously what I thought was best for me. To be honest... I think it is inevitable human nature. Unless you are sociopath, chances are, kids will change most people even if it is subtle.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kitana View Post
    Mind you this is NO offense to you personally at all, more of an observation in general.

    But I think the overly PC bullshit like your post above is the damn problem.

    I guess I'm just not as invested in SW and don't care really one way or another - it's probably more blase than PC.

    Quote Originally Posted by kitana View Post
    Years ago if someone posted something that you (general you) didn't like or care about, you overlook it/don't open it, and move on.
    And that's pretty much my philosophy now ^.
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    Quote Originally Posted by holiday View Post
    If it bothers anybody, I say we should cut it out. I've been guilty of posting mommy stuff, only because this is the only place I have where I get to be a stripper and a mommy and that's really comforting. I wouldn't feel as open if I were on a "regular" (non-stripper) mommy board.

    A sub-forum would be cool, but if it is too off topic from SW, then I understand that too. Maybe a poll?

    Awww, I dont think anyone should stop anyone (or you) from posting mommy things. I DO agree about a sub forum though, so that all mommy/daddy things can be in one section and posts dont get lost in the shuffle.


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    Personally I don't have any children but I don't see any problem with the "parenting" threads on here. I was under the influence that was a site for dancers and the adult community to deal with their business issues and also anything that we deal with in our personal lives. I guess that's why there are so many different rooms to post in.

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    krchab, why would you even mention this? did someone actually say something to you or are you just being self-conscious about what you post? because unless someone said something, then it seems like 99% of the people on this site either like the discussions or simply don't care. Kids are a part of life for many. Removing parenting threads would be like removing threads about OUR parents, of which there are MANY. We're human, we deal w/ family and relationships. It's not an issue- I doubt anyone even said anything to make it one.

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    I think SW mommies should be aware that when they are talking about their kids here, there is an audience of pervs that are just naturally attracted to a stripper website. There are definitely people trolling and doing innapropriate things with kid pictures, and maybe having fucked up fantasies about strippers and their kids. If people are fully aware of that and want to post kid pictures or whatever anyways, then they should totally go ahead. But I think a lot of us tend to forget that there is anyone other than our SW friends reading our posts, so I just wanted to bring that up.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Lena View Post
    I think SW mommies should be aware that when they are talking about their kids here, there is an audience of pervs that are just naturally attracted to a stripper website. There are definitely people trolling and doing innapropriate things with kid pictures, and maybe having fucked up fantasies about strippers and their kids. If people are fully aware of that and want to post kid pictures or whatever anyways, then they should totally go ahead. But I think a lot of us tend to forget that there is anyone other than our SW friends reading our posts, so I just wanted to bring that up.

    That is a horrible truth. I wish it wasnt so.

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