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    Okay, so I get this friend request from this dude on Myspace, he says he's just looking to meet new people. So I approve the add. Just wanting everyone's opinion on whether or not this is someone to be concerned about. I can't decide if he's just a lonely guy, or someone to be ignored at all costs.

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    I gotta be honest with you James, this whole thing is freaking me out more than a little. Looking at your page, you have nothing but dancers as friends. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but I believe you may have somewhat of an unhealthy obsession. . . and I hate to be the one to rain on your parade, but dancers are just as "normal" as the normal people you refer to.

    ----------------- Original Message -----------------
    From: James
    Date: Apr 27, 2008 12:12 PM


    sorry i re-ready your message now i understand what you mean is that i should be looking for someone in person i know, well i dont know how to do that because the people i know are normal and i consider myself to be a sexual person and they are not into those things, living in hawaii has lots of limits to who you can meet

    ----------------- Original Message -----------------
    From:
    Date: Apr 27, 2008 9:43 AM


    a chance at what? I guess I'm just not understanding what you're asking for.
    ----------------- Original Message -----------------
    From: James
    Date: Apr 27, 2008 11:32 AM


    thanks for being honest, what do you mean be that, that i dont have a chance

    ----------------- Original Message -----------------
    From:
    Date: Apr 27, 2008 9:31 AM


    James, I don't know you at all, but let me just tell you this. I feel that you are looking in the wrong places for a relationship. Is there noone in your "real" life that even looks like gf potential for you?
    ----------------- Original Message -----------------
    From: James
    Date: Apr 27, 2008 11:29 AM


    I dont have a username, i like you as a friend, well i cant totally say that when dont even know each other, if you know someone that is looking for a bf. i also admit you are beautiful but dont want to go beyond that because you are in a relatiosnhip, sorry if i am starting sound like a creep too

    ----------------- Original Message -----------------
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    Date: Apr 27, 2008 9:27 AM


    what's your sw name? you're embarrassed about what exactly? The fact that you don't like me? Or that you are asking me if I also know someone who is looking for a gf?
    ----------------- Original Message -----------------
    From: James
    Date: Apr 27, 2008 11:25 AM


    ok that sound, well i saw you profile address on sw, thats how i found you and other half is something about me i am embarrassed to talk about because i know you might get mad, well i dont like you, but just looking for a gf and was wondering if you might know anyone that is currently also

    ----------------- Original Message -----------------
    From:
    Date: Apr 27, 2008 9:21 AM


    No, I don't. Let's talk about it here.
    ----------------- Original Message -----------------
    From: James
    Date: Apr 27, 2008 11:18 AM


    I am just wondering if you got aim, msn, or yahoo messenger, I have something I would like to tell you, that I feel I should be honest about with you,

    if this message also feels alittle arkward dont worry about it then









    _uacct="UA-812293-1"; _udn="myspace.com"; urchinTracker("/en-CA/MailReadMessage");
    use myspace? Send me a friend request!!!
    http://www.myspace.com/bella_italia_a


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    That is a perfect example of why I don't post my myspace on here.
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    When I get friend requests from horny assholes and all they have on their top friends are dancers, models, and half naked girls, it's an automatic DENY.

    "Are you sure you want to deny this friend request?"
    "YES!!!"

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    lol... it took me a minute to figure out the emails are in reverse order.

    what a cheep! delete from friends and flag as spam, imo.

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    errr. creep. but probably cheap too.

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    James is Mizzou (who was banned from SW some time ago), I believe. Delete him and block, would be your best option there. He's not a safe person to correspond with.

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    ^Thanks for the info, I did go ahead and delete and block him.
    use myspace? Send me a friend request!!!
    http://www.myspace.com/bella_italia_a


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    You're welcome. Gotta be safe where that one's concerned.

    Also another thing that you may need to do (if you haven't set it that way already), is go into your settings and make it so that only people on your friends list can send you messages. I had to do that some time ago, just because of general MySpace weirdos. But if you don't have that set in your options, he can still contact you--and that's not a good thing.

    Also, make sure your pictures are friends only--things like that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Daisa View Post
    living in hawaii has lots of limits to who you can meet
    Just so you know...

    mizzou, who is now known as the ass-hat who catalyzed the closing of THE RANDOM THREAD logs into chat from Hawaii. He has also actively stalked more then one dancer on this site. He has been in and out of chat, logging in sometimes as "stripperweb".

    The odds are very high this is the same dude. I suggest being very careful. I know from second hand information that he has gone to great degrees of effort to gather more information (e.g., address) of at least one other dancer here. He pegs my creep-o-meter based on several things he (mizzou) has said in chat, and to me in PMs in chat.... It is hard to know how dangerous some people are. Be careful.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AznExtasy View Post
    When I get friend requests from horny assholes and all they have on their top friends are dancers, models, and half naked girls, it's an automatic DENY.
    Me too! I don't want to be on some perv's collection of 'hot chicks'. Lllosers!

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    omg...I had no idea. I'm glad that I started this thread. I was trying to be cordial to someone who seemed very lonely...then it just got strange.
    use myspace? Send me a friend request!!!
    http://www.myspace.com/bella_italia_a


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    Quote Originally Posted by xdamage View Post
    He pegs my creep-o-meter based on several things he (mizzou) has said in chat, and to me in PMs in chat.... It is hard to know how dangerous some people are. Be careful.
    What's that? Is he hitting on you too? What a perv. Even dudes aren't safe!

    Back to the seriousness. Privatize your profile and don't respond to any messages unless you know who it is. I always took care of random PM'ers by ignoring them. I never respond to a message from anyone unless they've either been around for a long time or I have a decent vibe from them. You've got a kind heart to take pity on a lonely blueballer but some of them are nutso.
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    Let Me Make It Clear To All You Folks Because I Know You All Hate

    1. those Friends Of Mines Are People Who I Asked I Can Become Friends With.
    2. we Added Each Other On And Some Added Me On And We Email Other
    3. i Have All Emails To Show Full Proof
    4. i Will Even Give Out My Password If You Want To See But Too Only One Person I Trust
    5. i Didnt Say Anything At All About Strippers Not Being Normal If You Cannot Read What I Wrote Down
    6. you Are That Took It That Way
    7. you Should Have Blocked Me After I Told You Truth Because I Wanted To Be Honest With You, Unlike Some People Who Would Say Nothing At All

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    Rofl, all i have are dancers...




    But then they're all from here...

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    Quote Originally Posted by xdamage View Post
    Just so you know...

    mizzou, who is now known as the ass-hat who catalyzed the closing of THE RANDOM THREAD logs into chat from Hawaii. He has also actively stalked more then one dancer on this site. He has been in and out of chat, logging in sometimes as "stripperweb".

    The odds are very high this is the same dude. I suggest being very careful. I know from second hand information that he has gone to great degrees of effort to gather more information (e.g., address) of at least one other dancer here. He pegs my creep-o-meter based on several things he (mizzou) has said in chat, and to me in PMs in chat.... It is hard to know how dangerous some people are. Be careful.
    XDAMAGE YOU KNOW FUCKEN SHIT ABOUT ME SO FUCK OFF, I DIDNT PM ANYONE IN THE CHATROOM, YOU NEED FUCKEN HELP TO ME

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    I Can Be A Fucken Nice Person If I Want, Only To People That Are Nice Back, But Once Someone Crosses The Line Its Over

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    THATS WHAT I WROTE DOWN

    i DIDNT SAY ANYTHING ABOUT A STRIPPER NOT BEING NORMAL

    "the people i know are normal and i consider myself to be a sexual person"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap View Post
    Rofl, all i have are dancers...




    But then they're all from here...
    THEY ARE NOT ALL FROM STRIPPER ONLY 2 ARE, ONLY *E***A (THATS THE ONLY LETTERS YOU WILL GET FROM HER NAME, , I AM FRIENDS WITH AND I AM NOT SAYING HER FULL NAME BECAUSE I CONSIDER HER A FRIEND AND SHE DOESNT LIVE IN HAWAII

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    Quote Originally Posted by Daisa View Post
    I gotta be honest with you James, this whole thing is freaking me out more than a little. Looking at your page, you have nothing but dancers as friends. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but I believe you may have somewhat of an unhealthy obsession. . . and I hate to be the one to rain on your parade, but dancers are just as "normal" as the normal people you refer to.
    JUST TO REPLY BACK TO EMAIL THEN YOU DONT NEED TO LOOK AT IT ON MYSPACE HERES WHAT I GOT TO SAY BACK

    the only reason i replied back to your email because the information wouldnt have been complete, and i saw what you did on sw, i dont give a fuck by the way
    your the emailing back on here, i stopped emailing because i know the conservation is over its getting lame, i am actually took permission from the people i added on we are friends, if you want to see all my emails between me and my friends i can show you, i didnt even do shit, you should have just block me from the beginning, i am sorry, and at least i had the guts to tell you in the first what I did because i believe honesty

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    Lay off the methamphetemine, dude. You're melting down.


    And What The Fuck Is With The Capitols On Every Word AND THE TYPING IN ALL CAPS?

    You are one weird cookie.

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    Am I the only one who saw the insanity posted here before he was caught and deleted by moderators?

    Girl, you might want to change your MySpace!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sarah Andi View Post
    Am I the only one who saw the insanity posted here before he was caught and deleted by moderators?

    Girl, you might want to change your MySpace!
    Nope, i saw it too. Craaaaaazy

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap View Post
    Lay off the methamphetemine, dude. You're melting down.


    And What The Fuck Is With The Capitols On Every Word AND THE TYPING IN ALL CAPS?

    You are one weird cookie.


    Meth Meltdown!!!


    Sarah Andi--I saw it too!!

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    ETA: damn mods are fast!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap View Post
    Lay off the methamphetemine, dude. You're melting down.
    Actually, if you encourage him to do a WHOLE LOT MORE our annoying problem will go away in short order.

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