I have a hard time asking for dances, champagne rooms, VIP rooms.. more money... suggesting tips.
I've been dancing for a total of 5 or 6 years over the course of 8 or 9 - why is this so hard for me? Why am I so shy about it?![]()
And I find on those nights where I get confident and just ask and just suggest, I make the most money.
What am I so afraid of!?! Can't be the objection, it has never upset me if someone has said "No, thanks." Even someone waiting for another dancer doesn't bother me - everyone's got their own tastes, including me. Can't blame a person for that.
It's like I am embarassed to ask. I feel like a peon asking another peon for hard-earned cash for something that feels like... very easy work on my end.
Am I alone in this? How do I get that confidence? Why am I so afraid to ask?!?!![]()



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