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    Ok, I’m asking this because I honestly don’t know what, if anything I can do about my situation. So here’s the deal…I’m in a club that I’ve been to before, and it seems like I attract the creepiest dudes on the planet when I’m here. There is one guy in particular that has always given off a creepy vibe, but he’s never actually done anything to warrant me telling him to fuck off, so I’ve been cordial and signed things for him, etc.

    He came in earlier and had a bunch of pictures for me to sign, the usual stuff he found on the internet, whatever. Then we went to creepy town. Halfway through the pile there were pics of me in Vegas at the porn convention, but that wasn’t creepy since a bunch of guys have those. I signed the regular convention pics and about 12 pictures in there were pictures of me when I wasn’t at work. Going to a taxi, eating food at Denny’s, walking into my hotel, watching the Treasure Island show, etc.

    Am I just overreacting about some guy following me around Vegas for 3 days, or is he super creepy and slightly stalker-ish?

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    um, these are pics he TOOK?? Or is it possible he purchased them?






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    That's not "slightly stalkerish" - that's full-on stalkerish and creepy. Be alert to who's around you and stay safe.

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    and for the record, if he TOOK them, that's a bit more than "slightly stalkerish"....IMO






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    All those pics were taken by him ???

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    SUPER creepy. I would totally have sirens going off in my head. I don't know what you can do at this point...but I'd get the F outta there. I'm too easily scared.

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    He took the pics. He told me he did it and didn't understand why i got pissy with him for doing it.

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    FUCKING CREEPY. Be careful!

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    oh my gosh ginger! I'm so scared for you. You are not overreacting. I might be, though!
    aaaaaaahhhhh

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    buy some mace!






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    Quote Originally Posted by Hello_Kitty27 View Post
    buy some mace!
    I have some. I guess what sucks is I don't even know the guy's name or anything. He's just always been the weirdo that wanted me to sign things for him when I did promo. So unless he like, actually comes up to me or something like that, I have no clue who the fuck he is, I just recognize his face.

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    He's a stalker. This means he was trailing you around. Sounds dangerous to me. Restraining order time?

    BTW -- this is a bit of a threadjack, so sorry, but I saw your pic up at the club I just started workign at! I was so excited! :-) (Syracuse)
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    that is just crazy. How much longer are you there for? if you see him again, could you tell a manager about any of it? i don't know how that would work .... but I'd be creeped out.






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    lol being a minor celebrity ain't all that, eh ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hello_Kitty27 View Post
    that is just crazy. How much longer are you there for? if you see him again, could you tell a manager about any of it? i don't know how that would work .... but I'd be creeped out.
    I'm here through the weekend. The people at the club already know that I don't want him anywhere near me, so hopefully he slinks back into whatever hole he came out of and leaves me be the rest of the week.

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    Uh... Yeah... tell this guy to hit the pavement. If he doesn't leave you alone sic someone on him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BrodieLux View Post
    He's a stalker. This means he was trailing you around. Sounds dangerous to me. Restraining order time?

    BTW -- this is a bit of a threadjack, so sorry, but I saw your pic up at the club I just started workign at! I was so excited! :-) (Lookers, Syracuse)
    Can I threadjack my own thread?

    I effing loved that club. It was so fun there. Has the creepy Elvis guy come in there, or the guy that wear's dresses and stripper heels? (I think part of the reason I loved it there was because of all the people.)

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    You are not overreacting. The fact that he asked you to sign pictures he took without your knowledge or permission indicates a loss of touch with reality that could be dangerous.

    Be careful. It never occurred to me how being a feature dancer would make someone vulnerable to creeps like that.
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    totally creepy..please be safe

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    Get the book "The Gift of Fear" by Gavin de Becker. It has a ton of information about stalkers, obsessives, etc and figuring out whether or not to worry about them. There's a big long chapter about men who stalk celebrities and when to start worrying about them. You might not see yourself as a celebrity, but you can bet that this guy does. The book puts a lot of stuff into perspective.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pan Dah View Post
    Am I the only one who found it somewhat disconcerting to read this and then see your mood set to 'dead'? Shiverrrr.


    If you're at a club, not a store promo. can you have someone there get his data from his ID if he shows again?

    Any chance of having a roadie or someone snap his picture with a cell phone camera? Just for the record.

    And yes, I obviously agree that's way stalkerish. Be careful there girl...
    I've been dead for a while, I'm morbid as of late.

    If he tries to come back in we're gonna try to get some info and if nothing else get a picture of him. The security at that club is awesome, so I'm lucky in that regard.

    And now I'm off to work.

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    You be careful mama. We want you safe! :go away creep!:

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    Yeah, that is really creepy. I would have kept the photos and showed a security person/bouncer.

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    I signed the regular convention pics and about 12 pictures in there were pictures of me when I wasn’t at work. Going to a taxi, eating food at Denny’s, walking into my hotel, watching the Treasure Island show, etc.

    Am I just overreacting about some guy following me around Vegas for 3 days, or is he super creepy and slightly stalker-ish?
    Damn, that's just wrong.
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    Super creepy, I'm glad to hear you've got security looking out for you though, definitely get his info next time.

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