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    Default He has an anger problem.

    I've been with this guy for about 3 months now. We live together because I had gotten evicted and had nowhere else to go, so he got an apt in his name and moved me in. Ok he has a big anger problem. He like, is always fucking mad. Every little thing pisses him off.
    He also has Herpes simplex 1...and I think he is really insecure about it and that's one thing contributing to his problem. He is having an outbreak right now and he is acting so stressed and angry.
    I love him because he is a great person, but this isn't a small flaw. I really want to make him feel like I care about him and I want him to not be insecure because I know that's why he is always mad.
    Any input, suggestions, opinions?

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    Default Re: He has an anger problem.

    you can never, ever change another person, it sucks but its so true. you need to ask yourself: how much longer can you put up with it? maybe it would be an idea to save up, move out so you can both have some space (ok, this suggestion may take a while) but it may give you the space you need to make a dicision as to what would be best for yourself, i hope it gets better!

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    Default Re: He has an anger problem.

    There's so much more to life than living with an angry guy with herpes for the free rent.

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    Default Re: He has an anger problem.

    ^totally^

    i lived with a guy that was in a bad mood all the time, who was my boyfriend it skyrocketed my anxiety and i couldnt take it anymore so i kicked him out. felt much better after that.

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    Default Re: He has an anger problem.

    Maybe sit down and talk with him and point out that his anger upsets you. He might not even be aware of the effect that he has on you. You could suggest therapy as well. He never gets violent with you or anything right?

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    I would be planning an exit strategy. Someone like that will never change, no matter how much you love them. And living with someone like that is like walking on eggshells every minute of the day, and you deserve a better life than that.

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    Default Re: He has an anger problem.

    How can you love someone after only 3 months?

    I have had boyfriends like this. They never changed, not even to this day.

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    Default Re: He has an anger problem.

    This might sound really dumb BUT I went through this and then during our conversation about pooping (this sort of thing tends to come up in my convo) and I discovered he was pooping WAY less than he sould be. He wasn't even doing it ONCE a day!

    I got his poops going and he changed dramatically. It was crazy!

    Normally I'd say you can never change people but in this case, it happened. He was still an asshole (possessive) but he wasn't angry all the time anymore.

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    Default Re: He has an anger problem.

    ^ how did you get "his poops going?"

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    Default Re: He has an anger problem.

    Unfortunately, people with anger problems don't change just because somebody loves them. They have to want to change and take the steps needed to handle their anger effectively.

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    Default Re: He has an anger problem.

    Quote Originally Posted by austinatalie View Post
    ^ how did you get "his poops going?"
    Liquid bentonite clay and psyllium husk powder.

    Last month I got a depresssed woman's poops going with magnesium oxidde powder (less irritating than psyllium husk but I didn't know back then). She's exstatic. Her doctor's were shit and totally unhelpful.

    Sounds so simplistic!

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    Lucki, you have GOT to stop putting yourself in these situations where you're constantly on the brink of planning an exit strategy.

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