Since I don't post on here very often anymore, for reasons I explained in different thread, I don't know what if any replies this will get. I say anymore b/c what at least seems to me like a long time ago I used to post under the name triton. But I and my life have changed so much since then it would have felt like going backwards so created a new name. I'm also not sure if this is in the rite section, or if it should be under customer convo so if it's not I apologize.
I wanted to see if I could get some advice on this and wasn't sure where else to go. And Maybe there are some guys or even women on here who can relate this. I spent the last decade+ in strip clubs and around strippers. First I was a musician who hung out in stripclubs. Then I got a job as a DJ, and my roommate at the time worked as a DJ. So most of my friends were either strippers, other DJ's, or reg customers fro the club I worked at. Then I was involved with a stripper on and off for years and even tho I didn't work at a club anymore most of my friends were still strippers. After all those years I think I've lost the ability to talk to...... other women. I don't want to say normal b/c normal's relative and most of the women out here seem like "normal" women who just happen to work as dancers. Not for nothing but coming out here was the reason I ended things with her. Which is a compliment. It was coming out here that made me realize how 1 dimensional she was, or is. Anyway I met a girl at the store the other day and after talking for a while she told me she worked as a stripper. I don't paint the broad brush, so I didn't prejudge her and assume she would be like the last but after sending some emails and IM's it turns out she is. For several reasons this was the first women I was willing to have a casual convers with in a while and I couldn't believe the coincidence she turned out to be a dancer. One of the reasons I haven't tried for a while is b/c if the.......I guess you could say alternative lifestyle I choose for all those years had made me uncomfortable in other types of settings.
Anyway I don't know if anyone can't relate. I don't know if I was looking for advice or just to vent but couldn't think of anywhere else for either. I hope it come out the way I wanted. I hope it didn't offend anyone. And I couldn't think of a decent title for this



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