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    Since I don't post on here very often anymore, for reasons I explained in different thread, I don't know what if any replies this will get. I say anymore b/c what at least seems to me like a long time ago I used to post under the name triton. But I and my life have changed so much since then it would have felt like going backwards so created a new name. I'm also not sure if this is in the rite section, or if it should be under customer convo so if it's not I apologize.
    I wanted to see if I could get some advice on this and wasn't sure where else to go. And Maybe there are some guys or even women on here who can relate this. I spent the last decade+ in strip clubs and around strippers. First I was a musician who hung out in stripclubs. Then I got a job as a DJ, and my roommate at the time worked as a DJ. So most of my friends were either strippers, other DJ's, or reg customers fro the club I worked at. Then I was involved with a stripper on and off for years and even tho I didn't work at a club anymore most of my friends were still strippers. After all those years I think I've lost the ability to talk to...... other women. I don't want to say normal b/c normal's relative and most of the women out here seem like "normal" women who just happen to work as dancers. Not for nothing but coming out here was the reason I ended things with her. Which is a compliment. It was coming out here that made me realize how 1 dimensional she was, or is. Anyway I met a girl at the store the other day and after talking for a while she told me she worked as a stripper. I don't paint the broad brush, so I didn't prejudge her and assume she would be like the last but after sending some emails and IM's it turns out she is. For several reasons this was the first women I was willing to have a casual convers with in a while and I couldn't believe the coincidence she turned out to be a dancer. One of the reasons I haven't tried for a while is b/c if the.......I guess you could say alternative lifestyle I choose for all those years had made me uncomfortable in other types of settings.
    Anyway I don't know if anyone can't relate. I don't know if I was looking for advice or just to vent but couldn't think of anywhere else for either. I hope it come out the way I wanted. I hope it didn't offend anyone. And I couldn't think of a decent title for this
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    I like your avatar.

    but no advice, sorry.
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    doing what a woman does / when shes natural
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    I dont have advise either but as a heterosexual woman I have to say that I find women who don't work as strippers pretty boring to be around. My old friends bore me for many reasons whereas the girls I have become close to at the club, I just have so much fun with them and I can relate to them and be myself.
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    There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.

    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by $$$magnet View Post
    I like your avatar.
    Thanks. It is something that is very very important to me. I actually lose sleep sometimes thinking about all the pain and torture innocent animals go thru simply b/c of human arrogance. I think it would be nice if all people would realize not everything on this Planet is for our use and/or abuse. I also wish all people would understand that every living thing has the right to live a free, peaceful existance and we don't have to understand them for them to have that right. Imagine what it'll be like when we're the only animals left on this Planet. That's the direction we're headed in and if that actually happens we'll become extinct too. Other animals don't exist simply so we can find a way to arrogantly extend our own lives. We're over populated already and have done enough damage as it is. We don't need to live to 200. Anyway sorry for the rant and JMO.

    Back to my original post. I don't know what I was expecting to get out of it. I was a little jarred when I realized I had lost the ability to feel comfortable in so-called "normal" situations and around other types of women. It's not that strippers are different but I felt I could relate to them better. When I was in music I played a character, or took on a different persona on stage. What I was like performing wasn't what I was like in everyday life.....at least not at first. It did end up consuming me and becoming who I was but it didn't start out that way. Anyway I felt comfortable around strippers b/c at least the dancers I became friends with were the same way.....they took on a different persona, or personality, or played a character at work. I don't know if that makes any sense or not and I'm not sure I even know how to explain it. Maybe I'm rite, mayeb I'm wrong but the more I thought about it the more I think it wasn't the dancers I was friends with but the long term relationship I was in with a dancer. I don't like making assumptions b/c I don't know any of you personally, or at least not that I know of. It seems to me that most of you are women who work as strippers. It's not who you are it's what you do. With her it wasn't just her job it was who she was, it defined her. I don't know if I didn't want to or if I couldn't see that before but that's what I meant by coming on here changed how I saw her.
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