Los the weight first. Apply as waitress first. Good Luck!
Los the weight first. Apply as waitress first. Good Luck!
Hi Everybody!
I am new to this forum, so I don't know how to quote in the reply, so I will try to address everything.
I am working out 5-6 days a week, and watching what I eat. I am working on losing 20lbs, then I will post a picture for you guys to comment on. I am carrying some extra weight, but I am proportionate.
Not that I feel the need to clarify, but I go to school 2 nights during the week for 4 hours and come home to put her to bed, and I got Saturday and Sunday AM while she is still sleeping. I work out at 6 am for an hour and then work 8-10 hours during the week. My daughter is still very young (not potty trained) so I would rather do these things while I have the energy to do them well and while I have the motivation. My parents worked a lot in my adolescence and early teenage years, and I needed them badly. I am trying to situate myself so that in 8 years, I don't have this problem.
I would like to say, I know that you probably didn't mean anything by your comment, but that is kind of a rude thing to insinuate. I am a wonderful mother, my daughter is not in day care and is with one of her parents 99.999 percent of the time. If I were a young (black or otherwise) woman living off of welfare and laying around the house, someone would no doubt have a comment about that too. I am doing what is best for my daughter and I depend on no one, and want to keep it that way. No hard feelings, though.
I live about 40 miles from the city, so I wanted to drive a little ways away from home, plus I would feel more anonymous in the city. Not that I am embarassed, but I don't want to come home and my husband's friend is all, "I swear you just gave me a lap dance..."![]()
Any location ideas?
As always, thank you so much for your time- Mommy Dearest.
PS: "I'm not mad at you, I'm MAD at the DIRT..."![]()



I never said you were a bad mom, neglectful or anything of the such. Maybe others just took it as I did........ I suppose looking back on my comments it was a bit harsh & I probably shouldn't have said anything. Besides, I apologize.
Anyhow, do you want to work in Indiana? Or just inside Chicago limits? Also, maybe just work outside of the clubs in your city/burb... or the nearest.
I consider working in IN, depending on how far it is and the club enviro.
I think that Harvey is about 1 hour away...
Let me know, I am about to hit the gym...Deuces!



I think the only really busy clubs in Indiana are Deja Vu - 2 in Lake Station (same building though, just one is18+ and the other is 21+), 1-Hammond... And Industrial Strip... Industrial is easy to sell dances - but it's FULL NUDE, FULL GROPE, FULL GRIND (and that's how it's advertised on the radio & such and yeah it's true)..... Other than those I can't think of any good ones in IN. And I can't say anything for the Hammond VU cos I never went there. In IL I know Club O (upscale gown club, easy-ish sales) it's off Halsted not for sure what city. I know there's Club 390 (never been to) in Chicago Heights & then Jimmys (which is where I worked for 2 years from 03-05... my personal fav club. It's easy hustle & money and the guys can't touch. Plus the house fee isn't bad.-at least i didn't think so
Thanks for the info. Where is Jimmys? What kind of girls do they have there?



Jimmys is in Chicago Heights.... And they have white, black, asian, hispanic....... At least when I was there, I haven't been there for 2 years.
Well, I have been hitting the gym faithfully (granted, it has only been 2 weeks) but I think I can do this.
I am going to have hubby take some pics so maybe you guys can tell me what you think...
I feel a little weird about having my pics on the internet, so when I figure it out I will send it to who ever wants to give an opinion, personally.
Thanks, all.
hi...i'm fat too. i'm trying to lose weight.
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