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    Default I fucked up

    It doesn't matter why I did what I did. I just know that I fucked up in the gift exchange. I completely mishandled it, from beginning to end. I didn't communicate properly at all with either my gift-sender, kitty69, nor my giftee, LatinaRose. And made several other mistakes as well.

    I apologize for my actions and throw myself on the mercy of the community.
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    I would help you shovel your grave, but it looks as if you've done a good enough job yourself.

    However, after I get some sleep and I'm more refreshed to give you a proper lashing, I will.

    Enjoy the peace while you have it.

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    Your right, it doesn't matter why you did it because there's absolutly no way to explain why you could not send a simple thank you PM to kitty for your gift. She fucking took the time out of her own life to buy you a gift, spend her hard earned money on you, take time out of her life to ship it out, and you couldn't even take 2 seconds to say thank you. Yeah, it doesn't matter why you couldn't. No excuse in the world can cover why you couldn't take 2 seconds to thank someone for being kind to you.

    As for LatinaRose. That's just fucked up. Again, couldn't take 2 seconds out of your day to just PM her a simple explaination to say I'm sorry, but I had a financial disaster and cannot send you a gift. I apologize. But apparently, you have no balls or morals because instead, you LIE and tell her it's comming when you actually had no intention of ever sending anything. Tell me, have you sent her a gift yet? A letter or apology? You could have mailed out a damn card for under a dollar at the very least explaining yourself and apologizing for ripping her off.

    Your right. It doesn't matter why your a douchbag. You just are.

    No, it's not the fact that you flaked. It's the fact that you didnt even have the balls to step up and tell her you couldn't send her a gift. You had to lie. THEN you didnt even have the balls to apologize. AND you couldn't even thank someone for sending you a gift. What a piece of shit.

    NOW you try to apologize after everyone starts getting on your case and hounding you. What, did you think you could just fly under the radar unnoticed? Did you hope everyone would just forget or brush it off? Another testiment to your lack of balls but excess of douchbaggery.

    Apology is too little, too late. And worthless because it's obviously not out of true sorrow, it's out of embarassment. Well, you deserve it. And everything else you have comming to you.

    You were smart to put this in members boards tho. Gives you the full lashing you deserve without intervention.

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    So have you personally thanked kitty69 yet or apologized to LatinaRose?

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    ^^

    a.) To answer the non-rhetorical question in your post...

    b.) This was originally posted in the Lounge but was moved.

    c.) I hope to hear directly from LatinaRose and Kitty69 (aka the ONLY people who have the right to be hurt by this particular exchange) to confirm that Lunar has made contact and made amends. I also hope to Christ that every single dancer who flaked on an exchange who lurks and/or returns to the forum gets the same poisonous crusade from everyone here. I feel no hatred whatsoever toward gothicgoddesstx who flaked on me but hey, if that's what it takes to be cool...


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    Actually, I do know personally that one flaked, and she hasn't been heard of again, after being confronted.

    I'm sure we will hear from LR and Kitty.

    As for a), it's just that when the question was posed the first time, was he going to still get her a gift, nothing was done about it nor responded to. And THEN he went on bragging about spending money on non-urgent things (movies, strippers...) which shows not only a complete lack of respect for a older member of this community but also shows a lack of respect for the others who took part in that same gift exchange.
    So, I do believe this ties back into c); everyone within a community has a right to be hurt by this, but they do not have ultimate say.

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    I'm just kinda bummed out that this opens me up to some negativity that i didn't have a part of in the first place. That's what gets me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SundayMorning View Post
    ^^

    I also hope to Christ that every single dancer who flaked on an exchange who lurks and/or returns to the forum gets the same poisonous crusade from everyone here. I feel no hatred whatsoever toward gothicgoddesstx who flaked on me but hey, if that's what it takes to be cool...
    I dunno Sunday. I mean, two previous female flakes came back and sincerely and graciously apologized for flaking and also provided legitimate reasons. Those two were not flamed. They were treated cordially for the most part.

    I think Lunar is being flamed because of his flippant, sarcastic attitude towards this, that he wasn't straightforward, and because of his jabber about other spending elsewhere on the board.

    I'm pleased to see that he's finally apologized though. If he had started out this way, he most likely wouldn't have received the treatment that he has.

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    My post?

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    Quote Originally Posted by BalletBaby View Post
    My post?
    No, P_B's.

    I already said this to you, Chrissy, but thank you.


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    Sunday- gothicgoddess hasn't been parading around posting for the last month as if nothing happened. That is the major diference here.

    PB- you are so legendary when you go off, lol. And I agree with every word.

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    Oh ok, the ^^ threw me off.

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    I think LO saying it's "not a big fucking deal" in chat tonight speaks volumes. It is a big deal that he didn't apologize or say thank you. And he went to drink his sorrows away in a strip club?? Why not buy a six pack, pop in a porno and send out a gift? Seems easier/cheaper to me.

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    I'm going to draw the line on calling strippers "non-urgent things."

    I get two cell calls: one from a dancer and one from 202-456-1414.

    I'll take the dancer call every time.

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    By this time next year, there'll be dancers going to the White House, too. Back door. The routes are already known.

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    I did thank kitty in PM.

    I sent Latina Rose a PM yesterday. I have not heard back from her.

    It is a big deal to the community. I downplayed it in my own mind even though I knew I was making a mistake.

    Many mistakes.
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    TOO, you've misinterpreted my point of "non-urgent things".

    By non-urgent things I meant as opposed to electric, rent or gas... which is what the words "financial crisis" lead people to believe; that one cannot turn on the power, pay the rent, and feed oneself.

    No reply needed.

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    Again, with the lying...that was the biggest problem.

    You don't tell someone that their gift is on the way and then turn around and sell it (yeah, he said that in chat...that he SOLD the gift he bought LR to buy food for the week, but instead spent it drinking at the local SC).

    Maybe you thought that because there are so many people here that no one would notice. But, you single-handedly managed to make yourself to look like such a fucking fool that I cannot remember ONE person on this site who has stooped to your level. Even with all the fucking whack jobs that troll this board, no one has managed to piss off more people than you have.

    You sent Kitty a PM? About fucking time, but I'll believe it when I hear it from her...since you have a propensity for pathological lying. As for LR, last I heard, she had gotten nothing from you. But, I'd like to see that PM that says, "Sorry I'm such a fucking douchebag." But, I'm sure it didn't say that. It probably said something more along the lines of, "I was going to send your gift overnight, but it was too expensive to do that, so instead of sending it parcel post--or whatever--I decided to sell the gift and buy food for the week. Which I never actually did, instead choosing to be even more of a loser by spending my $8 to buy a beer at the local SC and sit on perv row oogling the dancers for free and not buy any dances because I could watch others get them for free. But, I sincerely think that this is no big deal because there are other more serious things going on in the world. But, if you feel bad, well...I'm apologizing."

    I can deal with someone who has a financial crisis come up at the last minute and throw the wrench in the plans. I mean, we've all had them at one point or another. What I cannot deal with is someone who blatantly LIES about it and then acts like nothing is wrong.

    Even IF LR reads your stupid "apology", it's not really an apology because it has taken MONTHS for that apology (and no reply to her emails/PM's to you) and only then was the apology written because people like ME wouldn't let you post here without saying something, constantly. That's not an apology.

    And yet, there you were, every single day...posting away on SW (like a twatwaffly douchebag PL) ignoring the person who took the time to SEND you a gift AND ignoring the person you were supposed to SEND a gift to.

    The ultimate in bitch slap. Amazing. And you think that people are being harsh on you? Geezus. If I was a mod, I would have fucking banned you.

    And why anyone would stand up for you and encourage you to continually be "classy" is beyond me. In fact, I'll take what she's smoking. I don't know what's worse...being a complete and total douchebag or standing up for one.

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    o.O Whoa. Poor Latina Rose. Now I wanna get together with some girls and make her a gift basket. It's not the same sadly, though.


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    wah

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    it implies no current relationship with the current occupant of said house and no relationship to former...
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    I have kept out of this so far as I felt it was Lunars place to deal with it. I can confirm that I have received a PM and that I have been thanked for my gift. It was just a shame that it didn't come out in the Reveals thread. I hope that things will get sorted out and that LR will participate in the future, I know I will if I am invited.

    To be honest I am glad that he received it as I didn't want to thought of as a flake too. Is that wrong?

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    Quote Originally Posted by SundayMorning View Post
    c.) I hope to hear directly from LatinaRose and Kitty69 (aka the ONLY people who have the right to be hurt by this particular exchange) to confirm that Lunar has made contact and made amends. I also hope to Christ that every single dancer who flaked on an exchange who lurks and/or returns to the forum gets the same poisonous crusade from everyone here. I feel no hatred whatsoever toward gothicgoddesstx who flaked on me but hey, if that's what it takes to be cool...
    Quote Originally Posted by scarlett_vancouver View Post
    Sunday- gothicgoddess hasn't been parading around posting for the last month as if nothing happened. That is the major diference here.
    i was going to say it, but scarlett beat me to it. no one else is acting like they did nothing wrong and totally ignoring it for so long after they flaked. anyone else who came back instantly apologized and put themselves out there. is the reason why you're defending him, sunday, because you were flaked on too and you feel like no one is flipping out on your supposed-to-be-gifter?

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    I did thank kitty in PM.

    I sent Latina Rose a PM yesterday. I have not heard back from her.

    It is a big deal to the community. I downplayed it in my own mind even though I knew I was making a mistake.

    Many mistakes.
    you sent her a PM yesterday. remind me again, when was your present supposed to be there?


    to be honest, warning bells were going off in my head about him before i even knew that was who flaked on LR.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    o.O Whoa. Poor Latina Rose. Now I wanna get together with some girls and make her a gift basket. It's not the same sadly, though.

    I agree with that. I have not participated in any of the gift exchanges but I would feel a bit humiliated and hurt if I was supposed to receive a gift and didn't. AND since I haven't participated in these exchanges I have no right to comment, BUT I don't really buy the "financial crisis" thing. Internet access is a luxury. Going to the strip club is a luxury. You can go to the public library to use the internet for free. So I kinda think it was just a selfish thing, but that's just my opinion If you're not in a well enough position financially to participate, why agree to participate?

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