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    Does having a bf(real bf) mean you will not a customer's hands to roam as freely, and how willing are dancers that allow touching willing to admit it to the bf?
    I asked this because I was in VIP with a young lady, and it was a nude dance, and I got a long "touch" below her waist. After this we went to the bar and had a conversation, and she told me about her kids and the bf she has been with for so many years.
    In scenario number 2 an extras girl had her bf bring her to the club and pick her up, and she offered extras after knowing me for all of 10 seconds.

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    scenario 2: drugs are bad, mkay...

    Love it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by the truth View Post
    I was in VIP with a young lady, and it was a nude dance, and I got a long "touch" below her waist...

    ...In scenario number 2 an extras girl had her bf bring her to the club and pick her up, and she offered extras after knowing me for all of 10 seconds.
    well aren't you just special!

    Seriously...is anyone else getting sick of all the custy posts that are little more than bragging "lookie, I'm the man; I got an extra!", very thinly veiled in the guise of a nonsensical pointless story? News flash: you sound pathetic.

    way to go, you touched a pussy. Have a cookie or something. And wash your hands first.

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    *raises hand*
    Yep, pretty damn sick of it. In fact, I don't know why in the hell a custie would want to stick a hand down there on some girl he doesn't even know. Yuck, talk about gross.

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    Quote Originally Posted by made_of_sequins View Post
    well aren't you just special!

    Seriously...is anyone else getting sick of all the custy posts that are little more than bragging "lookie, I'm the man; I got an extra!", very thinly veiled in the guise of a nonsensical pointless story? News flash: you sound pathetic.

    way to go, you touched a pussy. Have a cookie or something. And wash your hands first.
    Yeh.

    YOU THE MAN. You have to PAY to touch pussy u must feel so special.
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    Quote Originally Posted by made_of_sequins View Post
    well aren't you just special!

    Seriously...is anyone else getting sick of all the custy posts that are little more than bragging "lookie, I'm the man; I got an extra!", very thinly veiled in the guise of a nonsensical pointless story? News flash: you sound pathetic.

    way to go, you touched a pussy. Have a cookie or something. And wash your hands first.

    NICE! That was fucking awesome. WELL SAID.
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    ^Pssssttttt, your stripper is showing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BohemianSiren View Post
    My boundaries are not determined by my relationship status.
    Mmm hmm. Anyway - I tell guys Im single - while Im wearing my wedding ring, and they believe me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by made_of_sequins View Post
    well aren't you just special!

    Seriously...is anyone else getting sick of all the custy posts that are little more than bragging "lookie, I'm the man; I got an extra!", very thinly veiled in the guise of a nonsensical pointless story? News flash: you sound pathetic.

    way to go, you touched a pussy. Have a cookie or something. And wash your hands first.
    Oh yeah. See my avatar. It's all just bragging. To the OP, why do you care, really? Do you think the girls who claim to be single are the easier 'mark'? Like we're so hard up if we aren't in a rel. that we desparately need to be touched or will 'let you' (because duh, you're so charming) since there's no man at home to tell us what to do?

    Extras girls are extras girls.

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    Quote Originally Posted by made_of_sequins View Post
    well aren't you just special!

    Seriously...is anyone else getting sick of all the custy posts that are little more than bragging "lookie, I'm the man; I got an extra!", very thinly veiled in the guise of a nonsensical pointless story? News flash: you sound pathetic.

    way to go, you touched a pussy. Have a cookie or something. And wash your hands first.
    First of all I am not bragging because I am sure if she did it for me she does it for everyone else which means I am not special.
    Do you have any more assumptions to make?

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    I just read all the other post. I guess we have a lot of assumers. I am not a stripper obviously, and I have never dated one so it was a question of curiosity.

    I just found it weird for that statement to be made after the incident.

    Thanks bohemian for giving an answer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseLeigh View Post
    Oh yeah. See my avatar. It's all just bragging. To the OP, why do you care, really? Do you think the girls who claim to be single are the easier 'mark'? Like we're so hard up if we aren't in a rel. that we desparately need to be touched or will 'let you' (because duh, you're so charming) since there's no man at home to tell us what to do?

    Extras girls are extras girls.
    I know my charm or lack of it is not a factor. This is a business and the name of the game is money. I am sure I will eventually be told I am handsome/interesting/more bs to separate my money from my wallet, and I will be more than happy to play along as long as I get a good LD.

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    Quote Originally Posted by made_of_sequins View Post
    well aren't you just special!

    Seriously...is anyone else getting sick of all the custy posts that are little more than bragging "lookie, I'm the man; I got an extra!", very thinly veiled in the guise of a nonsensical pointless story? News flash: you sound pathetic.

    way to go, you touched a pussy. Have a cookie or something. And wash your hands first.
    Don't read into the post. It was meant to be read exactly as it was written.
    I did not insert a secret code or write it so that if read it backwards you get the real message.


    After I make a few more post and people realize I don't cut corners I may ask this question again if I don't have it figured out by then. I would just ask the girls in the club, but only about 2 of them would give a real answer.

    I was half wandering what goes through a guys man who has a gf that gives extras, and/or what she says to get him to trust her.

    There were other questions, but I see it will be better to do a search to see if someone else has asked them already.

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    Quote Originally Posted by the truth View Post
    Do you have any more assumptions to make?
    yep, a few. let's start with "only pathetic, sexually frustrated losers feel the need to desperately try to touch a stripper's pussy in the first place."

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    Quote Originally Posted by the truth View Post
    Don't read into the post. It was meant to be read exactly as it was written.
    I did not insert a secret code or write it so that if read it backwards you get the real message.
    You're so transparent. Your posts reek of "I (supposedly) got away with extras, and I want to tell everyone so they think I'm hot shit." And it's even funnier to watch you flail and sputter when you get called on it.


    After I make a few more post and people realize I don't cut corners I may ask this question again if I don't have it figured out by then. I would just ask the girls in the club, but only about 2 of them would give a real answer.

    I was half wandering what goes through a guys man who has a gf that gives extras, and/or what she says to get him to trust her.
    why do you even care?

    There were other questions, but I see it will be better to do a search to see if someone else has asked them already.
    That is a much better idea. Please spare us any more of your drivel.

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    Quote Originally Posted by made_of_sequins View Post
    You're so transparent. Your posts reek of "I (supposedly) got away with extras, and I want to tell everyone so they think I'm hot shit." And it's even funnier to watch you flail and sputter when you get called on it.




    why do you even care?



    That is a much better idea. Please spare us any more of your drivel.
    What do you mean getting away with extras? You make it sound like I stole a cookie.

    I asked a simple question. Do I need to make a disclaimer next time?

    I believe I stated I was curious

    If I said I have dated 34923493408 strippers and asked what percentage of them actually liked me, I would understand.

    One girl who gives extras is not bragging, since it is not hard to find ONE girl that does.

    another example: It is no different than if I win the slots at a casino. Now if I claim to always win that is a different story.

    One instance of something that is common is not bragging. Going to a strip club and bragging is like being 7 feet tall and bragging that you can dunk a basketball. You will eventually find a goal low enough.

    If you don't want to admit you over reacted it is ok.

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    I thought you were doing a search for the 56374647284 posts exactly like this one. Shoo! Shoo!

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    There is no point to your post tho. No matter what most of our relationship status is we dont let custies touch our pussies. At my clubs u cant touch ANYTHING not even my arm but some clubs are diff. However touching pussy is a no-no and illegal everywhere except in a brothel.

    If I was single I wouldnt be desperate enough to make money that I would let someone touch me, I am able to make great money without lowering myself to letting some gross dude touch my pussy YUCK go away.
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    Quote Originally Posted by the truth View Post

    I asked a simple question. Do I need to make a disclaimer next time?
    no, you just need to stop posting stupid/pointless shit altogether.

    If you really want to know for sure "what goes through a man's mind when his GF gives extras", there's only really one way to find out. Date one. But um, yeah...good luck with that.

    RoseLeigh...I can haz a =/= custieweb avatar too plz?

    And I'm officially done feeding the troll now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by made_of_sequins View Post
    no, you just need to stop posting stupid/pointless shit altogether.

    If you really want to know for sure "what goes through a man's mind when his GF gives extras", there's only really one way to find out. Date one. But um, yeah...good luck with that.

    RoseLeigh...I can haz a =/= custieweb avatar too plz?

    And I'm officially done feeding the troll now.
    Actually I was not trolling, but I do see how it seem pointless since it does not help the custy(sp?) here or the dancers. I guess if the question does not help one side or the other I should not post it.
    I will be more careful with my post from now on.

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    Considering I have never been a dancers boyfriend let alone the boyfriend of a dancer who does extras how would I know?

    Seriously. How would WE know!? We can only make assumptions. Mine are

    1) he doesnt know
    2) he doesnt care

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    Perhaps I can restate the OP's main point in a more elegant manner.

    For those of you who have BFs/GFs/spouses, do their wishes and opinions factor into how far you will go with customers, and if so, how much? Obviously, on a matrix, you would have to put "what I do" on the x axis (from light nudity/toplessness all the way through full-blown extras, as far as applicable), and "my partner's feelings" on the y axis (from "doesn't bother them at all", to "would be a deal breaker").

    I think what the OP is saying, as your x axis goes up (you do "more" on the job), how does this affect the y axis (partner feelings). And vice versa.

    I'm not sure what his point was in asking, but it does fall under the category of "how does your personal life affect your professional life," which is in general a meaningful inquiry.

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    ^^ OK, now that sounds totally different--like a valid question. Can't answer it personally though, as I don't do extras (which I define as kissing, fingering, HJ, BJ or sex...and which to me would also == cheating on my partner).

    As far as contact limits, it's a non-issue for me, b/c I have never dated anyone who was bothered by my job. It's important to me to date someone who is secure and low-drama, and for whom my job is a complete non-issue. So I've never had to split hairs with boyfriends over "acceptable" contact levels.

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    It doesn't. No more then it would if we worked at any other job.
    Last edited by Perry; 05-07-2008 at 11:36 AM. Reason: Sequins posted at the same time

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    Perhaps I can restate the OP's main point in a more elegant manner.

    For those of you who have BFs/GFs/spouses, do their wishes and opinions factor into how far you will go with customers, and if so, how much? Obviously, on a matrix, you would have to put "what I do" on the x axis (from light nudity/toplessness all the way through full-blown extras, as far as applicable), and "my partner's feelings" on the y axis (from "doesn't bother them at all", to "would be a deal breaker").

    I think what the OP is saying, as your x axis goes up (you do "more" on the job), how does this affect the y axis (partner feelings). And vice versa.

    I'm not sure what his point was in asking, but it does fall under the category of "how does your personal life affect your professional life," which is in general a meaningful inquiry.
    Youre obviously better with words than the OP.

    Me personally - it doesnt matter... I do the same now that Im married that I did while we were dating that I did when I was single...

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    Why do you care whether they have boyfriends or not?

    My boundaries at work are determined by what I'm comfortable with. The SO's opinion does matter to me though, and if I was offering extras it would matter more.

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