Ok. I don't have any outside opinions on this, so this may get a little long, but I really need some help here. Me and my boyfriend are at a deadlock, both thinking that we are right and there is no way the other can't see that. I dont want to back down, but if I'm wrong, I obviously will.
Me and BF live together, do almost everything together, apart from the random boys night here and there. My BF is big into going on these "guys only" trips, and has taken quite a few in the last year- Boston, Philly, Vegas, Miami. I have not travelled anywhere with my boyfriend except for a ski trip over New Years (mind you, with a bunch of his guy friends, a total "bro" trip with 7 guys and me in the same teeny hotel room).
I was invited by one of his friends to attend a 4th of July party in LA via facebook. When this came up, I told him we should go, but he was planning on going to Vegas (again, without me) and said he couldn't take that much time off from work in one month. I said okay, whatever.
Come to find out 2 weeks later that since some of his friends couldn't afford Vegas, that they are all planning on going to this CA trip now. I found out while overhearing him talk about it with our roommate...he didn't even tell me. Oh- PS, I can't come. Even though I was invited TWICE (I declined the first facebook invite, and got a second one today).
I just think its fucked up that he takes all these fun trips without me, and makes NO point to try and go anywhere fun with me. He thinks its fucked up that he spends every day with me, and I can't let him have a little fun with his friends. Its just that I'm DYING to get out of this city and go somewhere fun with him...and every day vacation day he has is already allotted for these guy trips.
PS- Before someone says that I should start taking girl trips, thats not what its about. I want to go somewhere with HIM, not my girl friends.
Am I wrong to give him shit for this?



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