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    A customer of mine is up from Florida and wants to see me tonite but is claiming he is not going to drive all the way to my new club to see me, and that he'd rather just give me money instead... i pretty much told him i needed him to give me at least 500 bucks tonight if that means im gonna not work... as soon as i told him that he said something like " mabye we can do some private dances too".. hell no.. i think he he has some idea like im gonna go with him to his hotel after dinner... How should I go about getting the money as soon as I can??? i don't want him to pull some trick and tell me i need to go to the hotel with him to get the money.... I just want to get the money thing out of the way when i first see him at dinner so its not driving me nuts the whole time...How should i go about securing my money as soon as possible??? what should I say??? thanks

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    I have lots of experience with this. $500 for dinner only, that's for sure! Maybe drinks afterward. NO private dances. Tell him to have your tribute in an envelope right when you meet, "just to get business out of the way first" or something like that. Then go to the bathroom and check to make sure it's the right amount. If not, come right back to the table, tell him it's wrong and you are leaving, going to work.

    He might pull some BS about having to go to the ATM after dinner or wah wah wah.
    Don't take it.

    Money up front or no Kamryn!

    If he's being too annoying about it on the phone just tell him you're going to work and he can see you there if he wants.

    Take your own car or have your own transportation. Do not go to his hotel. Do not get in his car.

    I have customers that I go hang out with and watch TV at their place or whatever if they don't feel like coming to the club but want to see me, but I know them very well and trust them and they've never pulled any funny business. $500 bucks.

    Also let someone know the guys name, phone number, where you will be eating dinner, when you expect to be done, and have them call you to check in once or twice.

    Maybe have mace in your purse if you are scared.

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    There is nothing wrong with doing a private show IF you know the customer. Private shows are fairly common in areas where I work, with regulars.

    Every customer is a different individual. If you were a customer, how would you feel about giving a dancer $500 up front?

    If this guy is an established regular who has been coming to see you in the club for a long time, gives you extra spending money on top of what he spends for dances, you have had lunch with him before, and you talk on the phone off and on, then I would say don't push for money up front, have dinner, do a private show for him, but get paid up front when you get to the room for the show. Then based on how much he gives you can determine the length of the show, but don't stay under any circumstances longer than one hour.

    If your relationship with this guy isn't like or near like what I described, maybe let it pass. In my experience, telling a customer to pay you for dinner doesn't work. When I have lunch with a customer, he has earned the right for me to have lunch with him for free through his in club spending, and in having proved to me he is gentlemanly.

    Flat out telling a guy " If you want me to go out to eat with you, I need $500", could be a turn off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tina View Post
    Flat out telling a guy " If you want me to go out to eat with you, I need $500", could be a turn off.
    If he is going to monopolize her time so that she can't go to work, then she deserves at least as much as she would have made.

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    Do you have a paypal account? Yea, it's not as good as cash, but saying something like, "I'd feel more comfortable if you sent it to me ahead of time instead of sliding money across the table." Then, you could offer meeting outside the restaurant first with the money. Give him two options... both of them involving you getting the money before dinner starts. He'll think he's getting options... but he's really not. I wouldn't bring up the dances at all unless he pushes it. Just because he says, "Maybe we could" does not mean that you agreed to anything. If you don't feel comfortable being alone with him, don't do it.
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    i secured my money after our two hour dinner which btw was damn near 300 bucks... he gave me 500 right after.... thank god... it was ok except for the fact that he kept saying he wanted to snuggle me and kiss me all night long.. hes a nice guy and all but he was getting a little pushy toward the end.. I was hoping to make it down to work before ten so i could go home with around a grand ( the money he gave me plus what i may have made at work), but it was too late... oh well.. 500 is better than nothing at all...

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    500 plus dinner isn't bad.

    go kamryn!

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    nice. glad it went well

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    $500 was a good nights work. Of course it sounds like the guys motives were to hook up with you. I hope he lasts a while longer in the club.

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    Get That Money Bitch!!! You Go Girl!

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