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    Default Re: "I'm a stripper." Turn on or turn off?

    Quote Originally Posted by Golden_Rule View Post
    That was uncharacteristically rude and obnoxious of you. [What, you having a bad when you posted this?]

    May I also suggest a reading comprehension course as there was nothing in that post that suggesting I was making point/counter-point with myself.
    LOL - Reading comprehension? Perhaps you should sign up for the course as well.

    Pssst, you're post was merely pasted to show another member that that the argument had already been made. My comments were not directed at you.
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    Default Re: "I'm a stripper." Turn on or turn off?

    Quote Originally Posted by princessjas View Post
    Just because it can't happen on your LE boards doesn't give you the right to pretend not to understand the point, or basically say "It's the boards fault. If you didn't LET me misbehave, I wouldn't."
    No, you see that would be your mistake, and any person who held a similar view point, for thinking that anyone having an idea and expressing it POLITELY is MISBEHAVING simply because said idea disagrees with your view on the same subject.

    People don't like being told, "Shut up! Your opinion doesn't count around here."

    It is INCREDIBLY BAD FORM to say that to others in an OPEN forum and S-W is an OPEN forum. That is simply what it is. The customers presence here is absolute proof of that. If it was a CLOSED forum we wouldn't be here.

    Don't misunderstand my tone or take what I am saying as rebuke. I am simply suggesting you have looked at a cat and called it a dog.


    Once again you are absolving yourself (& other men) of any responsibility for your actions and pointing the finger at others.
    No. Once again a female dancer has told a male customer that his opinion on something doesn't count simply because he is male and a customer.

    In most other places this is called bigotry.

    Lets not argue about it though. Its an old and tired subject that has been beaten to death.
    Fiat justitia, pereat mundus.


    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    oh GR, seriously? Give it up.
    You know... If you don't like common sense don't read my posts.


    Come on now.... I was making a funny.
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    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Quote Originally Posted by verfolgung View Post
    LOL - Reading comprehension? Perhaps you should sign up for the course as well.

    Pssst, you're post was merely pasted to show another member that that the argument had already been made. My comments were not directed at you.

    Hmmm. A re-read by yourself as a third party seeing your post might show you why I could take it to mean otherwise but...

    If I was wrong I sincerely apologize [I never have a problem admitting if I am wrong].
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    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Golden_Rule View Post
    No, you see that would be your mistake, and an person who held a similar view point, for thinking that anyone having an idea and expressing it POLITELY is MISBEHAVING simply because said idea disagrees with your view on the same subject.

    People don't like being told, "Shut up! Your opinion doesn't count around here."

    It is INCREDIBLY BAD FORM to say that to others in an OPEN forum and S-W is an OPEN forum. That is simply what it is. The customers presence here is absolute proof of that. If it was a CLOSED forum we wouldn't be here.

    Don't misunderstand my tone or take what I am saying as rebuke. I am simply suggesting you have looked at a cat and called it a dog.




    No. Once again a female dancer has told a male customer that his opinion on something doesn't count simply because he is male and a customer.

    In most other places this is called discrimination.

    Lets not argue about it though. Its an old and tired subject that has been beaten to death.
    I am NOT making a mistake!! I am pointing out that if you had any manners at all, you wouldn't be so rude in expressing an opinion that is offensive and even hurtfull at times to dancers, on this open forum that was created for dancers.

    I have not told you your opinion doesn't count. I'm sure there are many places where it would be welcomed. They probably have TONS of forums where guys can brag and high five each other over milage and "scoring ass" from strippers and those places would welcome many of your opinions and happily listen to you chid dancers for "scamming". I just think you need to consider the place and your audience before deciding if it is polite to express certain opinions and views. After all even if your LE board WAS open, I would have enough manners not to go there and express my negative and possibly offensive views of your profession. Maybe my southern upbringing has just trained me to be more polite.
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    Default Re: "I'm a stripper." Turn on or turn off?

    Quote Originally Posted by Golden_Rule View Post
    ... It is INCREDIBLY BAD FORM to say that to others in an OPEN forum and S-W is an OPEN forum. That is simply what it is. The customers presence here is absolute proof of that. If it was a CLOSED forum we wouldn't be here. ...
    On this point, I beg to differ. The presence of an active group of moderators along with routine post edits, suspensions and even banning shows that this is not a completely open forum.



    Under the Forum Rules (second link from the left, next to My Settings)
    http://forum.stripperweb.com/misc.php?do=cfrules

    The first rule:

    1) We Are STRIPPERWeb
    This site exists primarily for female exotic dancers. ...



    On the Site Tour under the heading "What is Stripperweb"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/?page=tour_what

    "Welcome to something different! Think of us as a bar for strippers - after a long day at work (minus the bad music). Dancers can network, learn new techniques, share problems, etc. We do allow customers and other non-dancers to use the site as their input can be useful - but we ask them to be respectful and remember this site exists primarly for exotic dancers."
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    Default Re: "I'm a stripper." Turn on or turn off?

    Eh - I gotta side with GR on this one.

    First - I don't see him of all people "high fiving" anyone for "scoring some stripper ass". His posts are typically in good taste, well thought through, and temperate - not to mention generally respectful of dancers.

    Second - While the rules quotes above are valid insofar as they are in fact direct quotes from the "rules", it should be noted that there ARE areas of teh board that are limited to dancers only, and that a dancer taking offense to something in the open areas - especially when said offense is taken at something that only a few consider offensive and from a member who generally contributes in a positive way - is silly. FURTHERMORE - this is specifically the "Customer Conversation" area - the LAST place a dancer should find offense at a customers comments, open boards or not! One could make a point that the Junkie boards are there for a reason -but many of us don't ike those boards BECAUSE of the "high fibing stripper-ass scoring" types, lol.

    Third - maybe I'm denser than I thought, but I don't see where he made offensive comments in the first place. Thins that could be disagreed with, sure - but not offensive (and I'm the one accused of thinking like - and more thaan once of BEING - a stripper posing as a custie, lol).

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    Quote Originally Posted by verfolgung View Post
    On this point, I beg to differ. The presence of an active group of moderators along with routine post edits, suspensions and even banning shows that this is not a completely open forum.



    Under the Forum Rules (second link from the left, next to My Settings)
    http://forum.stripperweb.com/misc.php?do=cfrules

    The first rule:

    1) We Are STRIPPERWeb
    This site exists primarily for female exotic dancers. ...


    On the Site Tour under the heading "What is Stripperweb"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/?page=tour_what

    "Welcome to something different! Think of us as a bar for strippers - after a long day at work (minus the bad music). Dancers can network, learn new techniques, share problems, etc. We do allow customers and other non-dancers to use the site as their input can be useful - but we ask them to be respectful and remember this site exists primarly for exotic dancers."
    Thank you so much for this post! I wasn't smart enough to pull this stuff up to support my statement that the site was FOR US!!
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    PS - I'm now joining the "This Thread Is Officially Dead" camp.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SteveSmith View Post
    Earl_the_Pearl, calling yourself a PL is like calling yourself a fuckin' scumbag. Is being called a PL some kind of weird humiliation fetish that you and some members on this forum enjoy that I don't know about? Just curious.
    That is what dancers think of all customers. If a PL thinks otherwise he truly is a PL.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    That is what dancers think of all customers. If a PL thinks otherwise he truly is a PL.
    This why I like Earl.

    Very succinct!

    (Added later: Ooops! I just realized that I wanted to stay away from this thread.)
    Last edited by Cyril; 06-30-2009 at 08:40 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by princessjas View Post
    I am NOT making a mistake!! I am pointing out that if you had any manners at all, you wouldn't be so rude in expressing an opinion that is offensive and even hurtfull at times to dancers, on this open forum that was created for dancers.
    I don't express things to be rude or to offend anyone. I do speak what I BELIEVE to be truths, or else I label them as opinion. I do that because truths are important. Since the world is as it is and truths are things we must all deal with makes dealing in truths important.

    Would you prefer, if a subject came up that I commented on, for me to lie to you? Tell you want I think you would prefer to hear?

    There are enough men on this site that will do that for you, you know.

    I don't speak truths to people I don't respect. In such cases I don't speak to them at all. I treat the women on this site with the respect of being as upfront and as honest with them as I know how to be. I speak to them as I would want to be spoken to myself and don't run a line on them.

    Its the BLTs who do such things and quite frankly it is they you ought to be offended by, as they don't treat you as equals but obligingly never call any dancer on the board on anything, even if they fervently disagree with them, simply because... well because they're 'dick thinkers' who have some strange idea that flattering the women on this site is somehow going to get them laid.

    Its funny stuff when you stop to think about it.

    To me folks are folks, and the fact that you have female parts isn't going to cause me to lose my mind and speak to you differently that I'd talk to anyone else I was having these kinds of conversations with.
    Fiat justitia, pereat mundus.


    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Quote Originally Posted by verfolgung View Post
    On this point, I beg to differ. The presence of an active group of moderators along with routine post edits, suspensions and even banning shows that this is not a completely open forum.



    Under the Forum Rules (second link from the left, next to My Settings)
    http://forum.stripperweb.com/misc.php?do=cfrules

    The first rule:

    1) We Are STRIPPERWeb
    This site exists primarily for female exotic dancers. ...



    On the Site Tour under the heading "What is Stripperweb"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/?page=tour_what

    "Welcome to something different! Think of us as a bar for strippers - after a long day at work (minus the bad music). Dancers can network, learn new techniques, share problems, etc. We do allow customers and other non-dancers to use the site as their input can be useful - but we ask them to be respectful and remember this site exists primarly for exotic dancers."
    I know that... and I will, again, simply point out that isn't my point, which is regardless of the above the FORM ISN'T FOLLOWING THE FUNCTION. [what part of that isn't registering? ]

    If you want to build a building you don't follow the blue print that builds a bridge.
    Fiat justitia, pereat mundus.


    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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