Maybe it's all the writing I've been doing lately but i can't stop freaking talking on and on and on. Heh.
Dude, you can have 75% of the guys who ask me out. It's ridiculous. I've had at least 2 people this week ask me to have casual sex with them like that would be a romantic way of putting it.





Not quite. Saying "hey, you should drive up here and fuck me" is just so freaking annoying on so many levels. If I could get a man to quote me some sexy Emily Dickinson (she had a few) or even better something in a different language that could be saying anything but it sounds super hot 'cause it's a foreign tongue. Oh yeah.
Talk nerdy to me!![]()
Could not disagree more, but it's tangential to the main theme of the thread.He doesn't give me a hard time about it anymore but truly a man who really loves and cares about u is going to have some issue with u being sexual for other men.
In answer to the original question, it's not that a girl is a stripper that makes her appealing; it's what kind of personality, attitude and perspective she brings to bear on the job that can pique my interest.
Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.
William F. Buckley, Jr.
Oh yes I'll finally have a use for all those years of Latin classes! **Searches for his old textbooks**
Has our nerdiness driven all the madonna whore guys back to the blue side yet?
que hora es, tu mopa de la lampara?
Eh, pero yo hablo espanol. No hablo bien pero asi asi. Que tu dice no es attrativo.
-slaps Odysseus-
aye carumba!
Disculpe, ahora no tengo me diccionario de la latina. Si, me espanol es malo.
Wow my Spanish is really really really rusty. Damn.
What's a matter, the english grammar thread wasn't doing it for you?
Oh no, that thread was getting me hot.
I'm just trying to organize and re-label 150gb of music right now and that's taking what mental function I have left.
Well, when compared to Klingon...
Well at least we have established one thing in this thread.
"I'm a Klingon" is a turn off.
Perhaps we can get the original subject line changed so that this thread is over.
Tempest - thanks for the response. Please excuse my cut job.
Yes - very happy with the choice. Interesting thing - a friend asked me tonight, "do you think it would have been different for the two of you if you had met outside the club and then found out?" I said yes - it would have been - and please excuse this awful metaphor - like the frog that was thrown into boiling water instead of the one who was boiled. My point being - it has been much easier since it was known from the beginning instead of something that was revealed after feelings had developed.
Not a terrible assumption. We met about a year ago (rather, I met her club persona) and began exchanging emails. We've been dating for about six months and have been an exclusive couple for about three.
The situations are not anything drastic and may seem small potatoes, if that, to many in these forums. But hands on breasts and kissing (and even as I write that those seem small to me) are jarring to me... and part of that, I'm sure, is because I'm very new to this.
She is truly amazing. But it's really not fear of her leaving or anything of that nature. I think there was a bit of that at first - but she has made abundantly clear the steadfastness of her commitment to "us". As I've told her - I trust her implicitly. She's the constant in the equation - it's the others who are the variable. And even if you fully subscribe to the "acting" part of it... "it's not me, it's a character" (and that is not meant to be snide) - it's generally not acting for the other person. While they may recognize it as fantasy, they are still very much themselves. I know - I've been there. And, on top of that, there's simply the idea of me not being a huge fan of several strangers' hands on my girlfriend... not trying to stake a claim - but it doesn't thrill me.
All that being said... I'm really working on it (hence looking up this site) and even if I don't like it, want to be able to support her as my girlfriend.
That is all... sorry for the long post.![]()



Gameover, aren't you a guy? You are a strip club customer, do you think you are bad for marriage but okay for a fling too? If not then you have some horrible double standards.



it probably is a double standard, but it's one that's been around for a long time. If a guy has sex, it is "way to go, man! If a girl does, it is "what a slut!" Probably a carry over from historical times when a man's inheritance went to his children, and the man needed to ensure that the offspring were his. Plus, women can get pregnant. Both of those have probably contributed to the double standard.
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