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    Quote Originally Posted by TheTempest View Post
    Well when you say it like that... makes my explanation look stupid.
    Hehe no. I had a rare moment of brevity instead of rambling on like I often do.

    I'm jealous now though. I too, want to feel tired of getting date offers.
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    omg, why is it so huge?!! lol lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by lestat1 View Post
    Hehe no. I had a rare moment of brevity instead of rambling on like I often do.

    I'm jealous now though. I too, want to feel tired of getting date offers.
    Maybe it's all the writing I've been doing lately but i can't stop freaking talking on and on and on. Heh.

    Dude, you can have 75% of the guys who ask me out. It's ridiculous. I've had at least 2 people this week ask me to have casual sex with them like that would be a romantic way of putting it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheTempest View Post
    Maybe it's all the writing I've been doing lately but i can't stop freaking talking on and on and on. Heh.

    Dude, you can have 75% of the guys who ask me out. It's ridiculous. I've had at least 2 people this week ask me to have casual sex with them like that would be a romantic way of putting it.
    Well depending on the phrasing...

    "Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May, and if thou wouldst accept my love in thy rear, I shall depart quietly during the night's chill."

    ...it could almost be poetic. LOL
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    omg, why is it so huge?!! lol lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by lestat1 View Post
    Well depending on the phrasing...

    "Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May, and if thou wouldst accept my love in thy rear, I shall depart quietly during the night's chill."

    ...it could almost be poetic. LOL
    Not quite. Saying "hey, you should drive up here and fuck me" is just so freaking annoying on so many levels. If I could get a man to quote me some sexy Emily Dickinson (she had a few) or even better something in a different language that could be saying anything but it sounds super hot 'cause it's a foreign tongue. Oh yeah.

    Talk nerdy to me!

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    ^^^ Does Klingon count?
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    omg, why is it so huge?!! lol lol

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    He doesn't give me a hard time about it anymore but truly a man who really loves and cares about u is going to have some issue with u being sexual for other men.
    Could not disagree more, but it's tangential to the main theme of the thread.

    In answer to the original question, it's not that a girl is a stripper that makes her appealing; it's what kind of personality, attitude and perspective she brings to bear on the job that can pique my interest.
    Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lestat1 View Post
    ^^^ Does Klingon count?
    No it's not so much nerdy as it is dorky and geeky. Top pick would be a romance language. lol

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    Oh yes I'll finally have a use for all those years of Latin classes! **Searches for his old textbooks**

    Has our nerdiness driven all the madonna whore guys back to the blue side yet?

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    Quote Originally Posted by OdysseusNJ View Post
    Oh yes I'll finally have a use for all those years of Latin classes! **Searches for his old textbooks**

    Has our nerdiness driven all the madonna whore guys back to the blue side yet?
    Yeah. You could probably ask me "where is the time you mop of lamp?" and I'd swoon 'cause I wouldn't have any idea. It just sounds sexy. LOL

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    que hora es, tu mopa de la lampara?

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    Eh, pero yo hablo espanol. No hablo bien pero asi asi. Que tu dice no es attrativo.

    -slaps Odysseus-

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    aye carumba!

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    Disculpe, ahora no tengo me diccionario de la latina. Si, me espanol es malo.

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    Wow my Spanish is really really really rusty. Damn.

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    What's a matter, the english grammar thread wasn't doing it for you?

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    Oh no, that thread was getting me hot.

    I'm just trying to organize and re-label 150gb of music right now and that's taking what mental function I have left.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheTempest View Post
    No it's not so much nerdy as it is dorky and geeky. Top pick would be a romance language. lol

    Ahh. Elvish then.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap View Post
    Ahh. Elvish then.
    I don't think Elvish is a romance language. In fact, I think Elvish might be the anti-romance. LOL

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    Well, when compared to Klingon...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap View Post
    Well, when compared to Klingon...
    Good point. Elves are hotter than Klingons too.

    Wow... we are seriously those people aren't we?

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    Well at least we have established one thing in this thread.

    "I'm a Klingon" is a turn off.

    Perhaps we can get the original subject line changed so that this thread is over.

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    Tempest - thanks for the response. Please excuse my cut job.

    Quote Originally Posted by TheTempest View Post
    You've already made that decision and you sound extremely happy. Other people consider the job a reason to chance missing out on a good thing.
    Yes - very happy with the choice. Interesting thing - a friend asked me tonight, "do you think it would have been different for the two of you if you had met outside the club and then found out?" I said yes - it would have been - and please excuse this awful metaphor - like the frog that was thrown into boiling water instead of the one who was boiled. My point being - it has been much easier since it was known from the beginning instead of something that was revealed after feelings had developed.

    Quote Originally Posted by TheTempest View Post
    Let me ask, how long have you been together? I don't want to make an assumption but it sounds like it hasn't been a really long time. You say things are presently becoming more difficult as your feelings grow and you get closer.
    Not a terrible assumption. We met about a year ago (rather, I met her club persona) and began exchanging emails. We've been dating for about six months and have been an exclusive couple for about three.

    Quote Originally Posted by TheTempest View Post
    Also, I have to wonder what situations you're imagining her in with strange men when you also mention how strict her particular club is.
    The situations are not anything drastic and may seem small potatoes, if that, to many in these forums. But hands on breasts and kissing (and even as I write that those seem small to me) are jarring to me... and part of that, I'm sure, is because I'm very new to this.

    Quote Originally Posted by TheTempest View Post
    If you'll grant me an opinion (which you're getting if you like it or not) I would have to say it sounds like you're in a new relationship with an amazing girl who you're a little worried could leave you at some point and hurt your feelings. It's rough when things are so new and you're feeling giddy and wonderful and don't want anything to change that, even when you're not dating a dancer.
    She is truly amazing. But it's really not fear of her leaving or anything of that nature. I think there was a bit of that at first - but she has made abundantly clear the steadfastness of her commitment to "us". As I've told her - I trust her implicitly. She's the constant in the equation - it's the others who are the variable. And even if you fully subscribe to the "acting" part of it... "it's not me, it's a character" (and that is not meant to be snide) - it's generally not acting for the other person. While they may recognize it as fantasy, they are still very much themselves. I know - I've been there. And, on top of that, there's simply the idea of me not being a huge fan of several strangers' hands on my girlfriend... not trying to stake a claim - but it doesn't thrill me.

    All that being said... I'm really working on it (hence looking up this site) and even if I don't like it, want to be able to support her as my girlfriend.

    That is all... sorry for the long post.

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    Gameover, aren't you a guy? You are a strip club customer, do you think you are bad for marriage but okay for a fling too? If not then you have some horrible double standards.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gameover View Post
    well, this post won't go over well either, but I wouldn't want my fiance grinding on other guys. i make a decent living, and i'd be happy to make up any difference in my fiance's income.
    But its okay for you to be grinded on by strange girls right?

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    Quote Originally Posted by msonyxorb View Post
    Gameover, aren't you a guy? You are a strip club customer, do you think you are bad for marriage but okay for a fling too? If not then you have some horrible double standards.
    it probably is a double standard, but it's one that's been around for a long time. If a guy has sex, it is "way to go, man! If a girl does, it is "what a slut!" Probably a carry over from historical times when a man's inheritance went to his children, and the man needed to ensure that the offspring were his. Plus, women can get pregnant. Both of those have probably contributed to the double standard.

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