I've had my reg now for about two months, and we get along great. He likes talking about his kid and stuff like that since he doesn't have much family to talk to about the things he's proud of. He's asked about going out for dinner once or twice, but told me to bring a friend if I felt comfortable that way. He would pay for it. (I declined and made up some excuses.) He's pretty generous and I enjoy having him as my reg. He even emailed me and (nervously) asked me for tips on his date tonight (as he's divorced and this is his first big date. All thumbs, that guy. Lol) As you can probably tell I thoroughly enjoy my reg for who he is and his generosity.
But there is a problem.
His ex, who I shall call Mary, also works at my club. They dated some time ago, and it didn't work out. My reg is a bit of a pushover and feels obligated to be civil with her, which I'm all about. However, Mary is a known cut-throater. She has gotten upset with him before about him hanging with ME and buying CRs with ME. (though I personally wouldn't want to CR with an ex) I feel incredibly defensive when all three of us at in the club at once, especially because if looks could kill, I would be a splatter on the opposite wall. The money that would normally go to me, partially goes to her because she hustles him. Management sees no problem here because the money is still being funneled towards the same bank account.
I do not want to leave myself wide open for her to cut throat me. I'm not seeing an option and I don't want to be a complete bitch. I'd rather not become the aggressor in this. Help!!



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