An interesting conversation this weekend prompts this question: "If you've been married in the past, would you remarry in the future?"
An interesting conversation this weekend prompts this question: "If you've been married in the past, would you remarry in the future?"
I suppose I need to sound off, too.
While the sound advice "never say never" probably applies here, a coldly rational assessment would stop me from walking down the isle again.
G-d forbid I'm put in that situation, no. or possibly for money/stability.
Oh God no.





A part of me desperately wants a second chance at making a marriage work. The other part is scared shitless of the idea.![]()





I married, divorced, and remarried the same person. So yes, I guess I would lol
"You can close your eyes to reality but not to memories -Stainslaw J. Lec
Confuscius say: "Man who pull bra stap get bust in face"




no.
getting mugged twice has taught me not to walk down that dark alley ever again.





^^^I've read lots of crazy stories of that happening... it's actually more common than we think. I could never remarry my ex-husband. The man is a complete and total LOSER-SCRUB now. I saw him 4 years ago, about 4 years after we divorced and I barely recognized the guy.





There's nothing my ex-wife and I did that we couldn't have done if we weren't married, with the exception of having to get divorced which was a major hassle. I say no.





I've never been married... but if I were to marry and divorce, I'd probably do it again... only with a very different view to it all, I'm sure. It would also depend on my age, if I had kids, stuff like that. I guess it would also depend on the situations that things ended with my previous marriage (are we talking divorce only?).
If you think school is hard, try being stupid.
my mom would say the third time is the charm...lol
The odds are that I will but right now I am more focused on my career than anything else. I want to be somewhat established in my career and finances so I never have to depend on another person for those things. I think my confidence will increase greatly once I have my career in order and I'll be more open to seeing someone.




Maybe and maybe not. I am certainly not in a hurry. I have been divorced 12 years. Personally, I enjoy my life single more than I ever enjoyed my married life.
Having said that, I am willing to bet there is a woman out there that would completely knock me off my feet. I would do it in that case.
Thing is I am more selective now. Not that the women I have dated since my divorce are "flawed"....just that I am looking for specific things.
The relationship has been highly successful.
No.





MrsC is awesome and the chances of me finding someone else as groovy as her in the event something happened to our relationship are nil. I doubt I'd even bother trying, really. So I suppose that's a no.
waffles are just pancakes with little squares on them.
I almost went down that road once with a totally naive idea of what marriage meant.
If I get married at all, it'll be with a vastly different approach to things!
I've been married once and I would like to get married again some day. Some day in the very distant future. Maybe when I'm 60 or so.
^I was being pretty sarcastic there. LOL
I do want to get married again .
I've never been married in the first place. I can't swear that I"ll never get married, but someone is going to have to knock me off my feet to get me to say "I do."
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