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    An interesting conversation this weekend prompts this question: "If you've been married in the past, would you remarry in the future?"

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    I suppose I need to sound off, too.

    While the sound advice "never say never" probably applies here, a coldly rational assessment would stop me from walking down the isle again.

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    G-d forbid I'm put in that situation, no. or possibly for money/stability.

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    Oh God no.

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    A part of me desperately wants a second chance at making a marriage work. The other part is scared shitless of the idea.



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    I married, divorced, and remarried the same person. So yes, I guess I would lol
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    no.

    getting mugged twice has taught me not to walk down that dark alley ever again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by papillonluvr View Post
    I married, divorced, and remarried the same person. So yes, I guess I would lol
    masochist!

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    ^^^I've read lots of crazy stories of that happening... it's actually more common than we think. I could never remarry my ex-husband. The man is a complete and total LOSER-SCRUB now. I saw him 4 years ago, about 4 years after we divorced and I barely recognized the guy.



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    There's nothing my ex-wife and I did that we couldn't have done if we weren't married, with the exception of having to get divorced which was a major hassle. I say no.

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    Quote Originally Posted by snoopy View Post
    no.

    getting mugged twice has taught me not to walk down that dark alley ever again.

    ...But isn't the third time the charm?



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    I've never been married... but if I were to marry and divorce, I'd probably do it again... only with a very different view to it all, I'm sure. It would also depend on my age, if I had kids, stuff like that. I guess it would also depend on the situations that things ended with my previous marriage (are we talking divorce only?).
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    my mom would say the third time is the charm...lol

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    The odds are that I will but right now I am more focused on my career than anything else. I want to be somewhat established in my career and finances so I never have to depend on another person for those things. I think my confidence will increase greatly once I have my career in order and I'll be more open to seeing someone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mily View Post
    A part of me desperately wants a second chance at making a marriage work. The other part is scared shitless of the idea.
    My thoughts exactly.

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    Maybe and maybe not. I am certainly not in a hurry. I have been divorced 12 years. Personally, I enjoy my life single more than I ever enjoyed my married life.

    Having said that, I am willing to bet there is a woman out there that would completely knock me off my feet. I would do it in that case.

    Thing is I am more selective now. Not that the women I have dated since my divorce are "flawed"....just that I am looking for specific things.

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    The relationship has been highly successful.



    No.

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    MrsC is awesome and the chances of me finding someone else as groovy as her in the event something happened to our relationship are nil. I doubt I'd even bother trying, really. So I suppose that's a no.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mily View Post
    ...But isn't the third time the charm?
    no, i think it's more like a curse at that point, a greg brady-tiki doll type of curse.

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    I almost went down that road once with a totally naive idea of what marriage meant.
    If I get married at all, it'll be with a vastly different approach to things!

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    I've been married once and I would like to get married again some day. Some day in the very distant future. Maybe when I'm 60 or so.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheTempest View Post
    I've been married once and I would like to get married again some day. Some day in the very distant future. Maybe when I'm 60 or so.
    lol, exactly! i figure at that point, what's diff?

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    ^I was being pretty sarcastic there. LOL

    I do want to get married again .

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheTempest View Post
    ^I was being pretty sarcastic there. LOL
    oh.


    nevermind then.

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    I've never been married in the first place. I can't swear that I"ll never get married, but someone is going to have to knock me off my feet to get me to say "I do."

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