mods: please feel free to move this if it's in the wrong place...
so here is the thing:
this past tuesday i was working at my home club and i met this really well tipping guy. during my set, he wasn't sitting at my stage... but when i went to collect my tips from the guys sitting at tables he handed me a $20 bill. so after i finished dancing on the other three stages, i came back to talk to him. we chatted for a while...and during our convo, he handed me $20's every few minutes...a little while later he had to leave....but he said he would come back on the next day i was working, which was thursday.
thursday night:
the guy came into the club while i was on stage. he sat down at my rail and tipped me in the usual $20 per song. he followed me to my other stages and tipped me there as well. after, we sat and had a drink with another dancer that he has known for a few years. when she left, he said he wanted to come back the next day to see me.
friday night:
guy comes back...sits at stages, tips...blah blah blah. i told him that i work at another club on saturday and sunday nights in SF and he sould come see me....that way i could give him some lapdances (because my home club doesnt offer LD's or TD's). i figured i could keep him as my first REAL regular...and having him come to my other club would be better because there is more money to be made by hustling...SOOOO i gave him my number ONLY because my schedule varies so much... and it would be easier for him to come see me if he could just call me and see which club i was going to be at
saturday night:
he comes to see me at my club in the city...only bought 4 $20 dances, but tipped me a $100 bill for the dances as well as another hundred or so on stage...ordered me food (because my shift was like 9 hours and i hadn't eaten) and before he left he gave me another $50 for gas because i live an hour away.
so this guy has spent somewhere close to $600 on me this week, so i really want to keep him around, problem is...he calls me all the time and he keeps texting me things like "i'm just so crazy about you." "i was thinking about you all day" "do you like me?" you know...the works....on saturday he even asked me how much i would charge him to kiss me for an entire song....EWW...not gonna happen...i don't kiss customers. oh yea...he "claims" to have dated one of the dancers at my home club for a year...whom im VERY cool with...dunno how true that is though...
i told him im dating somebody but i don't have a boyfriend (which is true)...i just don't know what to do to be able to keep him as a reg, but let him know i don't want to date him AT ALL...
please help me...sorry so long...i just wanted to make sure you guys had the whole story.





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