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    Default What to Wear - For GIRL customers.

    Okay, so I'm going to the Baltimore Hustler club on Saturday for a little reconnaissance work. And maybe a lap dance if I'm feeling bold. I promise to keep my hands to myself

    What should I wear? I'm a pretty cute girl but I don't want the dancers to think I'm trying to outdo them, hence no short lycra dresses, I guess. If I had any to begin with...

    Jeans + sexy shirt, like halter top? I'm thinking of staying away from skirts, but you can't talk me out of my 4 1/2" Jessica Simpson heels! Keep in mind that in mid-May in Baltimore, it's not likely to be real warm in the later evening.

    Thanks for any input!

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    As long as you don't try to compete with the girls and you wear panties if you have a skirt on we're good to go around here.

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    Personally, I don't mind it when girls come to the club dressed up--as long as they aren't wearing stripper clothes (the customers should be able to tell who the dancer is and who the female customer is). I mean, who wouldn't want to look nice going out to a SC to have a good time? I don't think you should worry about this. Any stripper who can't handle another cute girl in the room (as long as you aren't flirting with the customers and you're tipping the girls), has something up her ass.

    For me, it's all about your attitude. If I'm dancing for a girl, and I can tell she's only there for her boyfriend (i.e. "I guess I'll let you take a bill out of my shirt...but I'm only doing it because my bf likes it"), then this is the WORST possible scenario. It makes both of us feel trashy.

    IMHO, it's 100% your attitude that makes or breaks a good experience for the dancer. I love dancing for hot women, as long as they don't hate me for what I do. And as long as they aren't hustling my custies for my tips.

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    and please dont think you can grope/lick/grab a dancer just becuase you are a girl, usually we dont like it no matter what your gender.

    and please for the love of god, dont get up and start dancing for your friends its annoying, distracting the customers from us, and usually you just look silly.

    as far as clothing? just wear underwear and dont pull your boobs out just becuase we do, lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by i.breathe.in View Post
    and please dont think you can grope/lick/grab a dancer just becuase you are a girl, usually we dont like it no matter what your gender.

    and please for the love of god, dont get up and start dancing for your friends its annoying, distracting the customers from us, and usually you just look silly.

    as far as clothing? just wear underwear and dont pull your boobs out just becuase we do, lol
    Well, gosh. That sounds like stuff I'd do at a regular bar

    And really? Do civilian girls come in and hustle tips from customers??

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    I've had it happen. Or the customers will start treating her like a dancer, even though she isn't--if you look super, super hot, sometimes the guys will realize that you're hotter than the dancer on stage, and they'll pay more attention to you. Obviously, this is really embarrassing for the girl dancing...

    I'd advise that you just dress for the environment. If it's a dive bar, and you know everyone is going to be wearing jeans and sweatpants, then it'd probably look a bit hustler-ish to wear something totally sexed up. Ya know? Just like you'd dress for the environment in any other situation.

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    What everyone else said and also, I want to reiterate the whole panties with skirt or dress. Nothing worse than finding out mid dance that someone is going commando.

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    theres something even more unsettling about a girl waving a single around screaming you bettah work for this dollah, then if it were a guy. so dont do that either.

    we dotn care how you dress as much as how you act, and that you have good hygiene.

    ive danced for a few girls and i could smell sweaty vagina right through their pants...eesh.

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    Quote Originally Posted by i.breathe.in View Post
    theres something even more unsettling about a girl waving a single around screaming you bettah work for this dollah, then if it were a guy. so dont do that either.

    we dotn care how you dress as much as how you act, and that you have good hygiene.

    ive danced for a few girls and i could smell sweaty vagina right through their pants...eesh.
    AAAH!! ME TOO!!! (hardly surprising, but still good to know that I'm not the only one.

    To clarify from above---
    Usually what happens is that a hot girl will come in, she'll get some looks from the male customers, and she gets excited about it. She doesn't usually have bad intentions, but she'll start dancin' around or whatever, b/c she feels cute. And then someone will tip her. I've actually seen drunk girls back up into the customers' laps--getting closer to them than they'll ever get to any dancer in the club! This clearly takes attention off of the working girls, which makes us hate these female custies.

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    You don't need to look like you're going to a dance club or a party.

    I wore a mini-skirt with heels at my first strip club. Now, I just throw on some pants/jeans and a top. I like to look nice, but dressing in revealing dress might cause the strippers to think that I might try out and it's not necessary when all of the other customers are in jeans. I wouldn't go to an SC in sweats, trackers or have my hair in a bun, but that's just me. I guess you could just think of it as you going out with your friends at night to a bar/restaurant and wearing what you would normally wear in that occasion.

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    I'm going with a group of women who take classes at one of those pole-fitness places. I called to see what they were wearing and turns out they plan to hooch it up a little. They've rented the VIP suite and evidently there will be a pole available for students to use. Not so sure about that, especially if I drink. I am dizzy and clumsy enough sober

    But I dunno. I mean, a slutty looking loner can be kind of sad, but a slutty looking CROWD? Now, that's interesting! Maybe I will wear a skirt after all. With panties, of course.

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    I see you didnt read anything we posted....

    Yea, youll get a great reception from the dancers.... Im guessing you girls are only going to show up the dancers and proove how much *better* you are. Lovely. Glad I dont work in PA.

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    Vertigo :

    Make sure your group is tipping. If you have a pole instructor familiar with SC's , she should be able to give you a run down. Wear what you are comfortable in. Each girl in your group should be tipping at least a dollar a song to every girl you see on stage if you are close to the stage and that's a bare minimum. If you aren't tipping that much , stay further away from the stage. I'm sure you can understand that girls naked on a stage won't be thrilled about 10 people seeing them dance and then only getting a few dollars total from the group per set ( this happened to me recently so I can personally vouch that it sucks ) .

    The VIP suite thing doesn't sound so bad if you want to keep to yourselves for a little while. Just understand that dancers will probably want to get paid somehow for that too .... because they are at work.

    Have Fun ! The bottom line really ( for either gender ) is just not to be cheap at a strip club. Spend a little and you'll be guaranteed a great time. The dancers will be happy with your group and your group will have a ball .

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    Ya im just glad im not working in Pa. I can just picture a bunch of drunken girl customers swinging around the pole trying to take away attention from the dancers. urgh
    If your not interested in tipping and buying dances and having fun WATCHING the DANCERS then just go to a reg club where you girls can get plenty of male attention without pissing someone off.
    DONT go to a female strip club looking for MALE attention!

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    Quote Originally Posted by VertigoVirgo View Post
    I'm going with a group of women who take classes at one of those pole-fitness places. I called to see what they were wearing and turns out they plan to hooch it up a little. They've rented the VIP suite and evidently there will be a pole available for students to use. Not so sure about that, especially if I drink. I am dizzy and clumsy enough sober

    But I dunno. I mean, a slutty looking loner can be kind of sad, but a slutty looking CROWD? Now, that's interesting! Maybe I will wear a skirt after all. With panties, of course.
    Wait--do you mean that you'll be there just with the pole in a VIP suite? Or do you mean a girl will be trying to dance while you guys are rushing the pole?

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    Ummm...I've been to a SC with "one of those groups" and was embarassed for them.
    For starters:alcohol,inexperience,and poles don't mix well,LOL! SO not sexy...

    You'd be better off planning to observe and to really enjoy the process of "how it works",ie,the dynamics and little tricks the girls use to get the customers to respond...THAT'S what so hot and sexy to me,not a few pole tricks in public.

    Bring all the cash you can: spoil a few dancers and be NICE!!! You're visiting their house,after all.
    You don't have to go to a SC to "play on a pole..."

    When I went with a "group" there were only two of us at the tip-rail and we were tipping a LOT! The rest were commenting a lot. and not tipping at all.Yuck!

    The dancers were grateful, friendly, came and chatted with us a bit,and I had a great time.When one slipped on her VERY high shoes and fell a bit,we showered her with bills and cheered,it's hard to walk in those things and she was very pleased.

    It was at "Cheetah's" in LA and although they don't get naked,those girls work hard for their cash and some are VERY good!

    Please don't act like "wanna be's?"

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    ^^^^^^^ so...I'm in love with you now....

    We need more girls like you out there!!!

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    Yeah I dont know about hooching it up...I have been to a club where there were a couple girls that I couldnt tell if they were customers or what and it was really weird. (they were. then I was like, wtf?) It doesnt occur to you as super weird until youre actually seeing it.

    Honestly, I just wore my nice khakis that are cute and a long sleeved shirt with a crew neck (it was cold outside still too so it made sense) and my favorite coat. I wanted to be as covered up as possible so I wouldnt catch the eye of any male custies in the place. I dunno. I felt like I should blend in as much as possible.

    You get enough looks from guys when youre just tipping at the stage, you shouldnt play it up any more. The fact that youre there makes them go "Whoa..." I got those dumbfaced "I wonder if shes bi and horny" stares a couple times...

    If you dress hoochie, I guess compensate by tipping everyone gobs and gobs of money.

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    When I go to the clubs as a custy I wear jeans, a cute top and heels. Not hoochie but not sweats either. And I always spend $$$ If I do say so myself Im a damn good customer!!! I always end up chatting with girls during the dances lol... so I never really get dances but I dont care! And my husband gets dances too... oh we have fun. Damn we need to go to a SC sometime soon - I miss those days.

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    I'm open to love,LOL!

    I'm just a bit put off by the "new crop" of girls who want to go to a SC for "recon" and don't have a clue about how to act.I guess it's good they at least ask here,hoping they take it to heart.

    Just because you take "lessons" doesn't mean you have to dress/act like a "Put Me In Coach" type.You're not gonna' win any friends that way!

    You might be "acting" like a stripper in your classes but you aren't one and shouldn't be acting like one around the pros,IMO.
    Let them show off on the poles!

    It's fine to go watch and learn...you pay a "teacher" for those lessons so why not spend as much while watching the "real deal"and learning probably twice as much?
    Seems pretty simple to me.

    I love to watch all the cool,little-moves an experienced dancer makes her own and am more than willing to tip a good one well!

    Dancing is hard work and if anyone should be respectful and supportive,you would think it'd be another woman...in a perfect world maybe?

    Hoping this group will behave well,most do not from what I have seen.

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    i love going as a customer, especially to the gritty dives, it makes me appreciate my club more.

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    tip. lots. and then when you think that you've tipped enough, tip some MORE. think of it like the HS football team going to an NFL game. they're not gonna go embarass themselves on the field - they're gonna appreciate and admire the best in the biz.

    along with that..... dress nicely, be clean, and well put-together, and you will be treated as such. If you see a dancer that you totally admire her body or who does amazing pole/floor work, tell her so. Insecure female custies never do.

    (from a retired dancer who loves to club it up from time to time)

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    And whatever you do dont sit there and badmouth the dancers and talk shit about them - or how youre sooo much better than them. It will get back to the girls. Were not stupid - we know what the point, giggle, whisper means...

    That frustrated me more than anything!

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    i always wear nice pants (i never wear skirts, i don't want to be avoided) and a snazzy top.

    last time i went wore some satin-ish black dress pants and a sequins covered black tank top. not too dressed up, not too dressed down.

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    I love girls. Hate girl customers. Every one I've run into has had the "OMFG, all these girls are sluts" look on their face the whole time.

    Last shift I had two. One of the above, and one older tourist lady and her geezer hubby that sat at the tip rail. They stayed for at least 5 sets, tipped a whopping $2, and talked the whole time about how the lady "looked better than us in her day". WTF.

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