Need advice here. (not rant, just explaining situation).
Two dancers I'm cool with are sitting at a table with three guys. I join them. We sit and talk for acouple minutes. Really great guy I talking with. He explains to me that he knows how this works and hes not going to waste my time, I'm his taste and he loves my personality. He asks me to have a drink with him and then go for some dances. (yippy!)
Then.. his two friends get up and say they are leaving and tell him to come on. (Oh No!) He tells them to go on and he'll meet them in a couple hours by the band outside. (its bike week here) (Hell yes! ditching friends to stay!)
Here's where it goes to shit...
Friends leave. Another girl (NOT one of the first two) comes and sits down on the other side of him. She starts to bitch him out about his other friend who was rude to her. He apologizes to her, says he just met the guy and the guy is kind of an ass, etc. etc. (at this time I have four girls until I'm on stage, stage sets are 6 to 8 minutes long). After about five minutes of this and me feeling very third- wheel by now, I ask her if she said anyting to the other guy and she says no, she was too upset at the time. I then tell her that he's not his friends keeper. She ignores me and keeps on bitching. (sidenote, I'm trying to be drama free and not get annoyed at work anymore, water on ducks back, woo-sa, kinda shit). She finally leaves (at this time I have one girl before I'm on stage). He turns to me and apologizes for that 'Springer shit'. Then tells me if I need to go work he'll see me later. (??!!??) I say I have to go on stage next, why don't we go dance when I'm done. He says okay. By the time I get off stage he's gone. Left. Buh-bye.
I'm pissed. I can understand if she was trying to 'cut throat' and make money off him, but this was just her fucking up my flow for her hurt feelings. Arrggh. I went to the manager about this, too much. He said he'd talk to her about it. Later in the night she got attitude with me. She was also asking other girls what they knew about me. She was asking some of the girls who I'm super close to.
How do I handle this? I want to knock her the fuck out.
*breathing*
*rubs ear lobes*



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