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    Default any dancer's boyfriends (gf, so, etc) here?

    Maybe not exactly a "customer" conversation - but didn't really fit with the other categories.

    So - any boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands, wives, partners, etc. here? Would love to hear about what you think of/how you handle the SO's job.


    (sorry if this thread is a duplicate - new here)

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    Default Re: any dancer's boyfriends (gf, so, etc) here?

    Howdy!
    My boyfriend is here. He's too shy to post - just lurks, but loves the girls and hearing every one's stories. He's considering dancing, so I may be a stripper's girlfriend soon.

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    My bf loves it. When he hears guys bragging about bedding all these girls and they give him shit for staying faithful to me, they ask what makes me so special, and he says, "She's a stripper." I think everyone knows where it goes from here.

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    ^^
    u find that complimentary....
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    when regulars turn cheap, it's time to kill em off.
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    Default Re: any dancer's boyfriends (gf, so, etc) here?

    Hi ladies - thanks for posting. I'm going to say the same thing that has been said a few times in the "ladies only" areas. While I appreciate your opinions (and please don't take this the wrong way! keep posting!) I'm really looking to hear about the experience from the other side.

    My gf is a dancer - quite a sexy one at that, and I'm damn proud of it. But I've lately been having a difficult time with the idea of the private rooms. Her club is (depending on your perspective) a medium-contact one. Petting and kissing is not uncommon (that may seem lame to some). I didn't think it would bother me, but lately it has been. I'm interested to hear other guys' (or gals') perspectives.

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    ^Kissing is definitely not common, I'd consider it cheating.


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    Um... yeah. That would bother bother me.

    Maybe encourage a new club? But other than that, sorry, honey. If you aren't down with her job, then you have to be willing to pay her bills or move on.

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    Default Re: any dancer's boyfriends (gf, so, etc) here?

    Uh, maybe look at the "I'm a stripper" thread right beside this one??? It has tons of the type of discussion it appears you are looking for.

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    Default Re: any dancer's boyfriends (gf, so, etc) here?

    My husband is totally fine with me dancing; however, he used to be a DJ at a club before we met (he actually used to DJ for my mom!) so he kind of knows the game and what's what.

    He and I sat down and laid out what our boundaries were in a non-judgemental way and then talked about where I ought to work based on those. When I went into phone sex we did the same thing. It is all about the communication.

    IMO, kissing is cheating. That may vary for others. I don't like my breasts being petted or my kitty, though anywhere else is fine. My husband was the same and also requested that if I took phone numbers I left them in my work bag. *shrugs* It's all in what you both want. A non-judgemental heart to heart is probably best - don't get on her case, just talk about things.

    Best of luck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jeska View Post
    ^Kissing is definitely not common, I'd consider it cheating.
    Uh yea. And petting. My husband would FREAK!!!

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    Kissing and petting is not ok imo unless u r in an open relationship and agree to it.

    I would not kiss, pet during my dances.
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    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    Default Re: any dancer's boyfriends (gf, so, etc) here?

    Ok so I am a bit confused with this one...you want to know if our SO's are on SW because you want to hear from THEM if OUR jobs cause them any insecurities?? Well my SO is a member of this forum, and actually does post because he is thinking of doing some dancing part time. Now I cant tell you HIS opinion on MY job, you'll have to ask HIM but I dont have a problem with him dancing. A job is a job is a job and if you wanna make awseome money too, far be it from ME to have any issues.
    As for the medium contact club with kissing and petting, UM, NO!!!! My club is considered by most to be a "higher mileage" club (contact dances, grinding, ect) and there is still no making out happening on the regular. If my SO told me that he was getting hand jobs and making out with customers I think I would definately have an issue with that. As for just dancing...I say DO IT!!

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    My suggestion is to talk to her and ask her what she feels is within the job description and then you need to be ok with that. If you can't handle it, then you can't be dating her and if you can handle it then don't be a jealous guy and be checking up on her, questioning her etc. You need to be cool and trust her.

    And if that fails, give a friend she doesn't know some money and tell him to get her in the champaign room and see how far she will go! Just kidding!

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    Quote Originally Posted by echomadison View Post
    Ok so I am a bit confused with this one...you want to know if our SO's are on SW because you want to hear from THEM if OUR jobs cause them any insecurities?? Well my SO is a member of this forum, and actually does post because he is thinking of doing some dancing part time. Now I cant tell you HIS opinion on MY job, you'll have to ask HIM but I dont have a problem with him dancing. A job is a job is a job and if you wanna make awseome money too, far be it from ME to have any issues.
    As for the medium contact club with kissing and petting, UM, NO!!!! My club is considered by most to be a "higher mileage" club (contact dances, grinding, ect) and there is still no making out happening on the regular. If my SO told me that he was getting hand jobs and making out with customers I think I would definately have an issue with that. As for just dancing...I say DO IT!!


    Yeah... I don't have any issues with her dancing (hell, she makes double what I make a month in the military with out really working). Kissing and Petting however? That might take it a bit far, however, like she said, the club she works at it doesn't happen often enough at all. But, dancing? Who cares really... even fully nude dances the guy isn't nude, clothes are there and yadda yadda... comes down to if you trust your SO I guess... *shrug*

    As for me, the place(s) that we've been looking at for me to start dancing at part time is fully nude for the guys (except for some kickin' ankle socks), and she didn't seem to have a problem with it either... she even suggested the location. It comes down to trusting and being sure that when at the end of the night, she's(he's) coming home to you. Most places don't really put up with extras anyways, so rest assured, it's most likely not happening.

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    without really working?

    Um, I've been in the military and I've been a dancer. I never came home sobbing after a day in the army. It's definitely work.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarvelGirl View Post
    without really working?

    Um, I've been in the military and I've been a dancer. I never came home sobbing after a day in the army. It's definitely work.
    I was implying she could work 1 or 2 days a week and make more then me. I've been in the military 5 1/2 years. Also, I've seen just as many people come home from work with the military crying as strippers (though, she hasn't). Both are demanding jobs. You've done both, you would know as well.

    I'm going with the benefit of the doubt that you just read my post wrong, instead of you just getting defensive immediately and trying to start something. *sigh*
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    The one or two days equates to a whole week (or more) of a straight job both in mental and physical tiredness.

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    She must work in a nice club. Vegas is definitely harder than the army, excluding actual combat. If this fucking war would ever end, I'd go back in a heartbeat.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherry_sin View Post
    The one or two days equates to a whole week (or more) of a straight job both in mental and physical tiredness.
    I had a diatribe on how the military can be mentally and physically tiresome... but instead, no. It'd just continue this longer.

    Quote Originally Posted by MarvelGirl View Post
    She must work in a nice club. Vegas is definitely harder than the army, excluding actual combat. If this fucking war would ever end, I'd go back in a heartbeat.
    So... you didn't read what I wrote.

    I'm not saying the job of a stripper is easy. I'm saying its easy for her to make more then me in a short period of time. She makes good money, she can make more then me. That's what I was saying. I even explained it as such again.

    There is no me saying the stripper job is "easy" or "not hard"... I'm saying my girlfriend who is a stripper (as the OP was asking for SO's who are on the forums) can easily make more then me without really trying (she makes a few calls the night before to set up some regulars).

    Now, instead of getting defensive and trying to derail a thread, can we just accept that I'm not trying to defame you in any way? I'm going to be dancing as soon as I'm able to myself.

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    Who's defensive?
    I'm fine, but I think you need to untwist your panties dude.
    And this is what you said,

    "Yeah... I don't have any issues with her dancing (hell, she makes double what I make a month in the military with out really working)"

    I can read just fine, thanks anyways.

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