Okay, here is my situation. I would like a little commentary from the folks here about my conduct and my perception of the situation.
I used to frequent a club near my old job which is not strictly a strip club, but I guess you would call it a bikini bar type of place. The girls dance on one of four stages, each stage in turn, with the main one in the middle of the club. No laps, no VIP room.
So not a really expensive place to visit and see pretty women in skimpy stuff. And the occasional flash of breast if you are nice and the bouncers are busy.
Okay, so I had a favorite dancer who I went to see, on a pretty weekly basis, for about a year. I have since only been in once or twice in the last year. I went last Sat. night and she was there, as I had hoped. She instantly saw me and came over and gave me a nice greating and a big hug, which is normal for us. She is usually very friendly to me. Now in this place, the dancers also waitress, so she is up and about the place while I get a table. She comes over after she makes her rounds and we sit and talk and have a little fun of the slap and tickle, my boobs say hello, my ass missed you type of cute sexy stuff. Along with a little hand on leg, arm around waist, cozy stuff, which again is all standard. We (let's call her Angie) had the same kinds of interaction in the past. Gee, almost like two real people.![]()
We have always talked in the past about real life kinds of stuff, like jobs (mine), kids (hers, of which she had another one since I last saw her....not my most observant time of my life since I did not know she was preggers!) My question is this: Every time I see her it seems she has had some sort of financial problem. This time it is a new baby (4-5 months old), a bad week at work with no money, a break-in of her vehicle and stolen items from said vehicle, etc. What is up with this? Am I just being fed stripper stuff and lapping it up? Am I reading too much into this? Am I just a fool or what?
As far as money being exchanged, the dancers get tips when they dance, and I always tip her as she dances. I also give her money when she sits with me, either on it's own or by buying a drink and giving her the change from a larger bill. She usually gets about 75 percent of my money that I spend in this place. I don't spend that much, but she gets the largest share of it. And in this place, the money does not flow like if the place had laps or a VIP area.
Okay, I'm done. Be brutal if you must!! I guess it is just annoying that she was pushing so hard on me when she had not seen me in a while.
Thanks for any input!!



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