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    I just got back from yet another depressing as fuck night at my home club. Damn it I am a GOOD hustler, but there is just no potential at my club lately. Kinda hard to make use of my skills when there isn't anyone to use them on. I feel depressed reading all the great tips on SW because I think so many of them are great but in my city, there just isn't a place to use them anymore. I guess I've been in denial for awhile about this, because I love my town and my club, but seriously, Eugene Oregon fucking sucks for stripping right now.

    Granted I've been feeling sick to my stomach all day, and left work early because I couldn't get on stage anymore because of the nausea, but this is ongoing stuff. Its pretty depressing when 6 beautiful girls with great personalities are sitting around the bar all alone just waiting to put some magic into a guy's night, and the bar is empty.

    I made great money at a bachelor party earlier this month, and I had so much fun and want to do more. But I don't know how to get into the private party scene. Or I could start driving to a town an hour away to work. I worked there a few times last summer and made great money, but I really dislike driving, especially on freeways.

    If you read all of this, congratulations, you have just won a fabulous prize! *confetti!* Call now to claim an all expenses paid trip to my boobies in your face!

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    have the same problem in san diego, too, I feel u. Just keep hoping for the economy......

    I try to keep upbeat by remembering it could be worse- minimum wage job, getting up in the morning, having to call in if sick and worrying about getting fired, having to ask to have off and sometimes being told no and missing special events, not being able to just work extra hours if money's tight, waiting for a paycheck instead of being paid daily, it could go on.

    It usually makes me feel better, but some nights I just wish it could be as good as it used to be.

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    *sympathy*

    Maybe you can find a driving route that doesn't involve the freeway?

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    Quote Originally Posted by kittytheflamingo View Post
    have the same problem in san diego, too, I feel u. Just keep hoping for the economy......
    Hey I'm in SD too, just got off from work a little while ago. And yes, it was one of those scrape-it-together kind of nights, but fortunately I got it together.

    To the OP-things go in cycles. Hopefully it'll get better soon....hang in there...
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    Isn't there a SWer (Paris) who has a PP agency in your state?

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    We're going through it here in PA too hun. Let's all pray that some of the men profiting from these ridiculous gas prices come into all of our clubs and spend that money on us! LOL @ ur location.
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    There are many private party companies. When wanted to start doing private parties I just called a few from the phone book and questsioned them to make sure they did bachelor parties and not escorting. I worked for a company and did a few parties... I had a lot of fun and made good money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LilyLove View Post
    But I don't know how to get into the private party scene.
    Lily! PM Paris and tell her you want to do parties. She's based in Eugene, for crying out loud.

    Also, find a way to get more confident driving, or make plans to stay over in the other town. You need to get out of Eugene.

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    *hugs*

    Perhaps take another road? I'm thinking I know where you're wanting to go and you could take 99 or whatever.
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    Hey, lapdances cost at LEAST 5 chickens. If you be offering them for one chicken, you be lowballin' girl.

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    That or carpool with someone and have them drive; I'm sure you're not the only girl in Eugene that would like to take off.
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    Hey, lapdances cost at LEAST 5 chickens. If you be offering them for one chicken, you be lowballin' girl.

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    I came home and cried last night, Lily. As loyal as I am to our club, I can't make it on what we've been earning there lately. If you wanna travel, I will pay you in gas money to come with. It's time to branch out, I think.


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    ^ Yeah I cried too, and then I was mean to boyfriend. Lets go to Salem.

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    Yes, let's.

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    AAAwwww.... my poor Lily. Travel, travel, travel!



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    I love your location. Seriously love it. Amen and amen!

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    Hi everyone!

    Thank you so much for your replies. So based on all of your advice and the thinking I've been doing for the last week, I've come up with a plan.

    Here's the deal. Working in this area, I've put on some weight I didn't have to maintain a really fit shape to work at my club, and my money never changed because of it. I'm not overweight, but I certainly look better at my previous weight. I still look good, but honestly, not AS good. I've realized that I've trapped myself into working at this club or ones like it because of my body. I started a very strict diet 4 days ago and so far, its going well.

    So here's my plan:

    1. I'm gonna diet for 2 weeks and then when I go home for my sister's graduation I'll make a stop in Bend to dance again (I worked there last November at the weight I'm at now but I heard they have a new manager who is very strict about weight)

    2. I'm going to drive to Salem once a week to work once I lose about 10 pounds. I am a good driver but I grew up in an area that barely even had highways. I need to learn to handle the interstate better, so it'll be another learning experience for me.

    3. God will plz send money to Oregon

    4. In the meantime, I'm gonna call around about private parties and PM Paris today to ask her about them, and I'm gonna continue working at my home club twice a week to hone my pole skills and all that.

    Again, thank you all for your help, I will keep you updated on my progress.

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    Oh I feel you on the weight thing. I've been wanting to try Stars, or drive to Portland or even Eugene but felt too scared because I am on the chubby side. So I've only worked at a couple tiny little clubs so far :-/ Must get crackin on that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LilyLove View Post
    3. God will plz send money to Oregon
    Let's all meet up and go outside a club (or maybe along the whole OR border), put our pubes in an ashtray and set it on fire and chant!

    (that was from a stripper superstitions thread lol)
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    Hey, lapdances cost at LEAST 5 chickens. If you be offering them for one chicken, you be lowballin' girl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by iambonbon05 View Post
    Let's all meet up and go outside a club (or maybe along the whole OR border), put our pubes in an ashtray and set it on fire and chant!

    (that was from a stripper superstitions thread lol)
    Haha, I totally remember that! The other day LaylaLust and I found two dollars outside of the door of the club and I couldn't help but wonder if they were"seed" dollars like was mentioned in that thread.

    On topic though, I saw the pictures you posted and I think you're lovely and could totally work at Star's. When I worked there last, I was definitely on the curvier side for the girls that worked there, but I was really happy with what I made. I mean, a guy paid me just to talk to him, which is almost unheard of in my area now.

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    This is how I look now:

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    I gain weight in my tummy

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    It' a fucking epidemic ! Not much better in San Antonio, but I should be used to this, it's the same every year. Summer sneaks up, business slows down and then I start struggling, then I panic and sometimes get a regular, clothes necessary job that i despise, but then when sept hits I'm rolling in the money again. Hang in their girls.

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    ah mane feel the same way after the past two nights!!! i took off this memorial weekend, i need a recharge!!!! whats sad is i have gone up and down jerzey at diff clubs, i even tried pa, and i hear ny is also in the pits... i believe its a recession in every industry in EVERY state babe. im praying for change with the new president, whoever it may be ;(

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    Hi there Eugene girls. Consider coming to Portland for June 4th to June 8th for fleet week. Tons of Navy guys in the downtown area. Consider my club Carnaval if you are comfortable doing private shows, and private dances(everthing is monitored via video camera) Girls made mad money last year during fleet week. Or try Cabaret which is badass good money club any day of the year. If you go to downtown Portland Mary's is great during fleet week but difficult to get on the schedule on a short notice as well as Magic Garden.

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    Thanks for the tip oc. I'll have to try, don't know if I can that's going to be a SUPER busy week for me but I'll definitely keep it in mind especially next year.

    Lily I noticed you changed your pic (hot!) and your little location thingy. May I steal it too? It'll be the next best thing to a pubes ritual!
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    ^ You may certainly steal it. Oh! And thank you for the compliment! *Muah*

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