so I auditioned tonight at the most amazing club! Everyone is so nice, and the customers are great, too.
But my dad found out I was dancing. shitshitshit!!!!
also, I give shit lapdances- advice, plz and thank you!
When I started I knew nothing about dancing. Luckily, a seasoned dancer took me under her wing and suggested that she give me a dance. That was the best thing that could have ever been done, and I suggest that maybe you find a girl who you'd enjoy getting a dance from. That is THE way to learn!
Just do what you are comfortable with, the customer will have a good time if the dancer is spontaneous. Also the tips will be betterIf you are OK with touchy-feely, and it's allowed at your club,go with it. But remember you are in control,never let the customer get the upper hand.


Hopefully your dad can come to terms with your dancing without causing you a lot of stress and drama. As for the lap dancing, it'll come to you - it just takes practice!



I feel for ya about the dad thing. I decided to get it over with and tell him I was considering dancing before I even started. Wrong! Bad idea. I knew it would either be hit or miss with him, and it was a total miss. Now I told him I'm not thinking about it anymore (lie) so he isn't worrying. Once I do it, and if I like it, then I'll tell him what I'm up to and that I'm not a drug addict/prostitute/whore/whatever else he thinks I'm going to turn into... Who knows how he'll react again, but he'll either get over it or die being lame. (I'm a total daddies girl so that's why I absolutely hate lying to him..)
And good luck with the lap dances! I also have no clue what to do, so once I get in there hopefully I'll get the hang of it.
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Originally Posted by Lysondra
I had previously stuck the bananas and cucumber in my cooter, yes.
I realize that not everyone in the world accepts what we here at stripperweb do for a profession but girls.... YOU have to ACCEPT what you do!
I know that it may be difficult to stand up to someone like your father. Take the time to sit down and explain your decision... tell him why you are choosing to do it and that you understand he isn't exactly jumping out of his seat at the news but you're an ADULT now and you choose to do this.
I WISH ALL OF YOU LUCK!
As for lapdances, getting one from one of the girls is an excellent idea. Also spending a night just watching before you start dancing is a good thing as well, and practicing... if you can practice with another girl from the club or with a good guy friend....
"When life gets rough turn up the music and dance a little"
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