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If he loves you, he will find a way!!!
And if he doesn't then that will give you the ability to find someone that does..
Things are so black and white for me i am sorry, but seriously i hope everything works out for you!
I know I mentioned this in another thread, but did he look into employment in Ohio? He might have to commute, or get a cheap apartment in the area, but it could be worth it.
^^Don't feel pathetic!! It's a very difficult situation to be in.
My ex and I had a long distance relationship and they do work if there's trust but I think you really have to be working towards a goal. Like, I don't think it would have worked if I didn't think we'd end up living together or at least in the same state soon. It's a lot of work and stress and stuff.
I wish I had some suggestions to give you, but I know you're probably wracking your brain and coming up with every possible scenario already... so I give hugs.![]()
Long distance isn't so bad... I did it for a year. You just have to keep that end goal in focus (being together in the same city/state)....but the last few months suck the most. Cuz it's ALMOST there.
Why can't BOTH of you move to Ohio? Then you're only 45 minutes away from your family and the two of you can live together.
Or why not go to Michigan for a month or so at a time? Stay for three months and get your fix and then go back to FL with the bf. I dunno...
Oh, boy.
I was in a similar situation. For about six months, I saw my ex every two weeks... either he would fly from Miami to see me or I'd fly down to see him. By the end of it all, I really wanted to be in Vegas, he felt that he couldnt leave Miami and well... we were two stubborn to agree on anything, and we broke up.
The reality of it was, if he was ultimately the most important thing in my life, I would have moved to Miami.
Can you wait and establish residency in Ohio?
Has he tried an job placement agency in Michigan? That's how I got my job. I had sent out a trillion bad ass resumes when I got to L.A....shit before I got to L.A. and had very few interviews. Met with an employment agency, went on one interview for them and BAM, had a job. A great paying job I might add.
Long distance is a shitty situation, but I've known many people who have worked through it. If you have a strong foundation (and it sounds like you do), you'll be fine.
Good luck with the move and all the adjustments!
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