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    Angry Weird. Fucking. Night.

    UGH i just have to rant a little.

    Made decent money tonight, had a good time on stage, its been a great week, so yay for me.

    However, it marks a bit of a disgusting first for me. This is the ONLY time in my career dancing that a guy has outright tried to finger me. Mind you, i'm in PDX so we have our own little perception warp about what is, or is not fucked up. Here, if a guy touches my leg or waist, its an "extra" So where the hell is this guy sticking his nasty hands on my pussy? I smacked him the hell away, and got hte bouncer. He was very apologetic and "thought I was inviting him to touch it". WTF?

    The hole he digs gets deeper. I get the bouncer, and he tells the bouncer "I didn't really feel anything so what's wrong?". Right. So your hand on my pussy doesn't count, because I smacked you before you got a finger IN my pussy. That is a fucked up attitude.

    I'm actually proud of myself for my handling of it. I dealt with two problem customers tonight, him, and a guy trying to stiff me money, and both times i held my ground, and got what i wanted in the end. Since i don't tend to be the most assertive crayon in the bunch, i'm happy with the progress there.

    Still. Headache.

    But i found a few songs that i loooooove dancing to, and still managed to make good money. Plus, its been a good week for me. Restores my faith in myself and my ability to make money.

    Soooo many mixed feelings. I really need to go to bed.
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    Good for you for putting him in his place. He deserved it.

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    Good for you for asserting yourself. That's something which took some time for me.

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    The problem with messing with strippers is we have sharp heels and your blood tastes of waffles, so don't fuck with us.


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    Quote Originally Posted by 3-Legged Man View Post
    Not to excuse bad, or actually, criminal behavior, but perhaps the handsy customer comes from an environment where extras are the norm, like Providence or South Florida?
    Don't the customers get some kind of consent regardless of the environment? Otherwise it's basically assault.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 3-Legged Man View Post
    Not to excuse bad, or actually, criminal behavior, but perhaps the handsy customer comes from an environment where extras are the norm, like Providence or South Florida?

    In any event, kudos to you for keeping your composure and handling the matter appropriately.
    That's not EVEN an excuse. And doesn't add to this thread AT ALL.

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    You were INVITING him to touch it? Oh please. That's right up there with "she had on a short skirt so I thought she really wanted it." Fucking molesting scumbag.

    I'm proud of you for standing your ground though. Good for you!

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    Good for you! You can totally stand up for yourself and make good money without compromising your boundaries!

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    I can't quite handle the fact that what would put a man behind bars outside of the club becomes a minor infraction (when the consequence is considered) inside the club. WTF.

    The only time I've been assaulted at work (dude punched my crotch while I was on stage), it was taken care of rather quickly. I definitely got a kick in. The owner, who's known me for quite some time even before I began working at the club, had a look of horror on his face when he saw me. I'm the happiest, most laid-back, zero-drama person around, and it was obvious that I was unhappy.




    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    The problem with messing with strippers is we have sharp heels and your blood tastes of waffles, so don't fuck with us.

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    ^It's not that different, you still can't cross another person's boundaries and touch them in a way they don't want to be touched. I know girls who grab guys junk as a way of asking for a dance and I wouldn't do that because it's just inappropriate and I would expect it to make some people uncomfortable.

    Being naked is allowed. Sexual assault IS NOT. It's a matter of consent.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    Now I know this is gonna get me a swift kick in the head....but maybe it's related to the fact that the same thing that would put you behind bars outside of the club (walking around naked) is commonplace inside.

    It's just a different world inside those walls.
    That's a bullshit theory. Men don't act like that in whorehouses, and that's a whole different world too.
    Seriously, guys treat strippers worse than whores. No one ever put their hands on me without asking if it was ok when I was a whore, but now they think they can do whatever the fuck they want to me for a $20 dance. Sometimes they don't even want to pay for the dance.

    It's bullshit, and it's disgusting and insulting.

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    Oh hell no!

    BTW if he had actually somehow managed to get his finger in, that would fit the legal definition of rape.


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    do i need to remind the men AGAIN to stay out of dancer rants and stripping general period.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarvelGirl View Post
    That's a bullshit theory. Men don't act like that in whorehouses, and that's a whole different world too.
    Seriously, guys treat strippers worse than whores. No one ever put their hands on me without asking if it was ok when I was a whore, but now they think they can do whatever the fuck they want to me for a $20 dance. Sometimes they don't even want to pay for the dance.

    It's bullshit, and it's disgusting and insulting.
    My whorefriend continuously tells me she could never do what I do and this is one of her reasons.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Sarah Andi View Post
    The only time I've been assaulted at work (dude punched my crotch while I was on stage)
    Jesus, that level of hatred of women is disturbing...

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    Any level of hatred for women is disturbing. Unfortunately, we only tend to recognize it when it becomes manifest as violence.

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