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    What the fuck?!?!? I just got an AMAZING job at an AMAZING club!! I was so proud.
    My parents found out about it...long story. Now, they told me I could dance and move out or stay home and not dance. I want to move out anyway, so I chose that. My mom cried so hard, and I can't hurt my parents like that!!! So I told them I would stop, and I called the club and told them I would be in today or tomorrow to pick up my stuff.
    The thing is- I miss it already! I worked one night, and I love it and miss it!! Yeah, it was scary, but I feel like this would have helped me in so many positive ways.
    So, I think I'll move out and start dancing again in a few months without telling them, but DAMN! I wish they didn't know, and I wish I could still dance!!
    Anyone else had the same problem?
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    Wow, sorry that happened to you girl! Still, even thought you're not dancing right now, you know that you can get hired whenever you decide to go back to it. And it got you to move out, which you said you'd been wanting to anyway.

    Congrats on getting hired in the first place!


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    My old roommate's girlfriend got a job at my club. When her parents found out they came to the club and literally dragged her out.

    That's a wtf

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    I'm so sorry hun! I was really looking forward to working with you Come back to my club for sure if you move out and decide to dance again!
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    ?? If you're young enough that your parents still run your life you're not old enough to strip. End of story. Come back when you're an adult.

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    How did they find out? I know it would be hard to have just started dancing and really like it and then have to stop.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LilyLove View Post
    How did they find out? I know it would be hard to have just started dancing and really like it and then have to stop.
    They went to the bar where I told them I was working and asked for me!! I've tried to talk to them reasonably, but they just won't have it. My mom said some awful things to me, and I think I'm just going to move out until I start college again in the summer. But it sucks when the people you've most relied on stop being so reliable.
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    ^ Why don't you just move out now? Although your parents beliefs are clearly different then yours concerning dancing, that doesn't mean they are right or correct... If you feel strongly about being independent and making your own choices (including where you want to work), then it might just be time to move.

    Also, from how I understand your above post, you told them where you were working, so why does it surprise you that they came in and found out?

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    If you keep dancing you should be able to afford to move out without problems, right? It's not like leaving your parents' house is going to mean your mom never gets to see you again. Do what is right for you, and make sure to take your mom to brunch on Sundays. She'll come around.

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    Yeah, I'd move out if I were you.

    Weird there's more than one thread where this is going on at a time.

    There's this problem with parents. They either want a beloved daughter or they want a will-less slave, and though it's usually the former, it's hard to tell until you push the boundary.

    If they want a will-less slave, you will NEVER satisfy them. End of story. Better to find out now than later. But that's unlikely. Not many parents are this fucked up.

    If they want a beloved daughter, they will eventually come around to understanding that your life decisions are your own, but not until you make them see it.

    Right now it seems like they have confused you for being a kid, and you've gone along with it.

    Good luck whatever you decide.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sarah Andi View Post
    My old roommate's girlfriend got a job at my club. When her parents found out they came to the club and literally dragged her out.

    That's a wtf
    I was working at a club where something like this happened but instead, the dancer had her mother escorted out of the club by security!

    Just move out. Your an adult and that's that.
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