sigh....I'm so frustrated and angry right now and needed to vent to ladies that would understand (thank you in advance)!
I have a regular who is pretty much at the club whenever I am, actually he's pretty much always there. He's 25, all the girls and staff know him, all their drinks get compd, and to me at least he thinks he's owns the club. When things are slow/dead it's nice to have someone to sit and chat with and on those days he buys dances here and there or just give me $ for sitting with him. Over that last two weeks he's become very clingy; I can feel the daggers in my back whenever I'm sitting with other custys and quite frankly I'm pissed off. I'm at work. Why is that such a hard concept to grasp?
My BF asked if he could come in last night since he's never seen me dance and Sundays normally painfully slow so I was all for it. So PL reg is there, he knows I'm in a relationship and I tell him my BF is coming in tonight and I will be spending my evening with him just FYI. The fucker wouldn't leave me alone! He kept trying to rub my shoulders and grab my hand; I looked him in the eye and said "you have a total lack of respect for me and I'm done with this" Off he pouts.
Throughout the last 2 hours of my shift he ran over and asked why my BF was tipping other girls on stage and blah blah blah. Um cuz they are working too and no one's at their stage so he's tipping them. SO WHAT?!? He made rude comments while I was on stage to the point I just ignored him because I'm not down with this pathetic drama.
This morning I woke up and checked my myspace page and he had found me off the clubs site and wrote me a message about how he's going to write my BF and tell him all these ridiculous lies and that I'm just a slut and so on. While I'm not worried about my man because he knows me better than that I just don't get it. Hence this post. I'm so frustrated and fed up that I'm crying because I don't know what to do! And it's all just so stupid to me!
I'm an entertainer. I sell a fantasy. Do I have any real interest in the men I spend all night talking to other than their money? No. I flirt for money, go figure dude look where you're at! What do you do when your custy blurs the line between fantasy and reality and goes ape shit crazy? I don't want to switch clubs (again) but where I'm at now is so small and this guy and his friend are seriously always there. I don't want to go to work in a hostile environment and I will not put up with his childish, rude and repulsive behavior either. It will do nothing but drain me. Sigh....I'm a psycho magnet...



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