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    Default OMG , HELP ME please , I cant take this shit anymore !!!

    Unreal seriously ,I swear when it rains its fucking pours ...

    OK real quick .....I live with my mom so there is "normal" drama there

    I have a 2yr old so "normal" drama there too

    I just started dating someone and I think its over , normal stress with that


    thats all this week .....my mom has the day off today so she has been home and we had a sorta fight , its super stressful ....I just dont need it .

    My baby has been a complete freak the last few days and I am getting period any day .......

    As if thats not enough I just checked my yahoo email and my friggin aunt has sent me an email ..........why is this a big deal ? Well last year I went up to Mass for a visit with my baby and had a huge fight with my Dad so my aunt and her husband had me come stay with them for the rest of my stay ....which was super nice , I really appreciated family at that moment


    My uncle was a complete prick the whole , actually talking on the phone to my Dad ( my mom and aunt are sisters) who until that day had not spoken to my Dad in like 10yrs .......basically was siding with him , making all these assumptions .....anyways he was never a super nice guy so even though it sucked it was like no big deal .......

    Then the morning I was suppose to leave I was woken up super early by the phone ringing and my Uncles voice overly loud talking about me and my mom to some guy about what fuck ups we are and he even went so far as to talk shit about my grandparents who are passed away and were super good to him .......I woke up my baby and went down stairs because I just couldnt listen to that ...ya know?!?! I just wanted to get home , I called my mom and told her that I over heard something awful and I just wanted to get home and tell her ......

    I totally totally have every reason to believe that my uncle wanted me to hear that conversation ......also the first night I was there he was defending my father to my aunt ...

    Anyhoo so I got home I told my mom and she was hurt and pissed ...we didnt know what to do , we didnt know if we should tell my aunt or how to tell her or just let it go because we never see them anyways ......so after sometime went by my mom wrote her sister a long letter about the whole ......

    ok I am trying to keep this short .......my aunt emailed her , telling her I was basically fucked up and out to get all men ...that my uncle loves us and would never say those things ....it was awful ....this is my only aunt ....

    my mom write back to her and my aunt wrote back with even more crazy things ....so my mom was just like ya know , i am done , I am not even writing to her again , its over ......that was sooooooooooo long ago , ok ?!?! We have not heard from them and they have not heard from us ....

    so all the sudden there is this email from her and with the fucking day and week i have been having I just can not open it ......

    I just cant handle it ......at the same time like what if someone died ? What if she needs us ????

    On a side note , my mom had a dream that my dad died just a few days ago ......so now this is freaking me out even more .......

    what is she just wrote to be mean ?!?! I cant believe she that "obviously (me) has issues with men and that I am sabotoging all my male relationships" and she blamed the fact that my brother wont talk to me on me , when its him and his wife ........she was his GF at the time and we had a fight and my brother chose her over and me AND MY MOM .......how its that my fault ? I even sent him a birth announcement when my daughter was born but he never responded .....so its all my fault right ?!?!?!
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    OMG , I am fucking shaking !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
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    still shaking , still freaking out ......stil havent opened email ......
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    Default Re: OMG , HELP ME please , I cant take this shit anymore !!!

    Open it, read it. It won't bite. If it's fucked up delete it (after you show your mom, so it can't be denied later) and block her from mailing you in the future. Then go about your business.

    But you really should open it. You don't even have to finish reading it, but it could be important.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap View Post
    Open it, read it. It won't bite. If it's fucked up delete it (after you show your mom, so it can't be denied later) and block her from mailing you in the future. Then go about your business.

    But you really should open it. You don't even have to finish reading it, but it could be important.

    I KNOW , ugh , my mom is napping so when she wakes up I am gunna make her open it I think ......I freaking out , thanks MC oxox
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    Open it! Or forward it to someone you trust and they can tell you whether or not you need to read it.

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    (hugs) there there, life is hard at times.


    I am sorry honey. I would just not open it, go to bed, relax, when you are calm open it. I learned not to do things or make decisions when I am mad, unless it's a life or death situation because most of the time you will do something you regret.

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    Quote Originally Posted by High_Heel_Lover View Post
    (hugs) there there, life is hard at times.


    I am sorry honey. I would just not open it, go to bed, relax, when you are calm open it. I learned not to do things or make decisions when I am mad, unless it's a life or death situation because most of the time you will do something you regret.
    Whew I know , like its just bad timing ......like today has been a normal stress day .....I do that alot with emails , i wait to open them beause I just dont want to deal with whats inside at that moment .....thanks babe xoxo
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aubreyyy View Post
    Open it! Or forward it to someone you trust and they can tell you whether or not you need to read it.
    Yeah I just checked my moms email and she has the same one , well seemingly the untitled email from my aunt is sitting in her in box so .....she should be getting up soon and hopefully she can open for my , the big giant chicken !!!
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    i'd wait to open it. wait a bit before you possibly add more bs to the week. if it was so important (illness) she would've just called, most likely.

    and if she didn't, that's dicky in itself. who gives such bad news via email? wtf is up with that?

    as for her and your mom getting into it, well, i'd kind of expect your aunt to take your uncle's side (her husband). that's gonna happen. *shrugs*

    just take care of yourself right now though. try to work off the stress via exercise or punching a pillow (really!). then spend some nice cool down time with your baby and then make up with your mom (try to).

    after that...then open up the bitch email and see what vile things she wrote. at least you'll be able to laugh at them with your mom (she got a similar one too, right?).

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    lol, wrong forum

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aubreyyy View Post
    lol, wrong forum
    huh????
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    Ok so my Mom opened and it was so lame ....which is worse .

    I mean this lady did not just take her husbands side she completely called me a liar and said I was making the whole thing up because I am crazy ...bitch .


    Ok so the email was a Hi , hope your all ok , I lost your address and have something for the baby for her bday


    We are not responding , that is so crazy to send an email like that after everything that went down .....

    You cant just say those things about someone and then just expect everything to be ok

    My baby doesnt need her presents or cards or anything from them ......I hope she takes our silence as a big screaming SCREW OFF


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    Quote Originally Posted by Sindi View Post
    huh????
    I meant thread...I posted something then edited it out bc i was in the wrong thread.

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    Hey don't punish the kid for this, if they want to send stuff receive them, take it and save it for the kiddo. This is something that is happening now, and it sucks but people make mistakes and also may ask for forgiveness.

    Give it time, we all have bad family moments and later on say "oh do you remember when I acted like a total ass? oh I am wow I am glad we got over that"

    Girl if they do this kind of thing all the time, if it's a repeat thing then I would be all "fuck you" but if not then well we all make mistakes.


    Anyway I hope your week gets better

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    Sit on my lap and tell me what you're feeling



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    Quote Originally Posted by High_Heel_Lover View Post
    Hey don't punish the kid for this, if they want to send stuff receive them, take it and save it for the kiddo. This is something that is happening now, and it sucks but people make mistakes and also may ask for forgiveness.

    Give it time, we all have bad family moments and later on say "oh do you remember when I acted like a total ass? oh I am wow I am glad we got over that"

    Girl if they do this kind of thing all the time, if it's a repeat thing then I would be all "fuck you" but if not then well we all make mistakes.


    Anyway I hope your week gets better
    haha , I dont think that my kid not getting some crappy book or a ugly dress is punishing her , lol .

    I guess you really have to know the whole story and understand how hurt we were by how it went down to understand why ended the relationship .....

    My Uncle did alot more than act like an ass and so did my aunt , not to metion they have not apologized .......anyways , thanks .
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aubreyyy View Post
    I meant thread...I posted something then edited it out bc i was in the wrong thread.
    oh , lol
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    Aww I see, well then screw them! I'd still take the stuff then sell it lol I kid, I kid!

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    Quote Originally Posted by High_Heel_Lover View Post
    Hey don't punish the kid for this, if they want to send stuff receive them, take it and save it for the kiddo.
    agreed. a guy once told me, "take it, it's free. they're offering it, so take it. you never know when you get anything else, so take it now." sage advice i've always used since.

    Quote Originally Posted by High_Heel_Lover View Post
    Give it time, we all have bad family moments and later on say "oh do you remember when I acted like a total ass? oh I am wow I am glad we got over that"
    also agreed. i feel like pummeling my father any day of the week for all his bs.

    hell, i feel like punching him right in the face right now, now that you've reminded me of him.

    but every now and then he'll stop by and act as if nothing's wrong and all the evil malicious bs he's pulled will be like it was swept under the rug...for him.

    I remember though.

    but i figure (actually, i know from prior experience) re-hashing it will just make it worst and give him pain and frustration. and i don't really want him to be pained (besides the punch in the face, i mean ). that's not really going to make things right or me feel better (a little maybe but not much ). i'd much rather he just understand and accept what he's done in his life was wrong.



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    Snoopy you must come to my home now and clean my monitor! I just spat water at it! pony, a billyun bucks, and peace between the arabs and israelis.

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    Aww I see, well then screw them! I'd still take the stuff then sell it lol I kid, I kid!

    Well if they sent it I would keep it of course but I am not going to re give her our address because we dont want anything to do with them , I cut ties with my father too but I let my daughter have the bday card he sent her .......I just dont feel like its necessary for me give her our address ....

    How the F do you lose someones address anyways , I mean like ours , we have lived here for over two years , she has mailed us many things as we have to her ....her kids have mailed us stuff and they dont live with her thus they have their own address books ....she shipped us stuff before so the ups store must have a record of that ... I dunno the whole thing smells to be honest .....

    I just cant stress enough that this was not the petty agrument between family this was down right now fucked up ......the things that man said about us and they denied ever saying them to his wife ......she really hurt me by saying that I was making things up because I have issues with men and all that crazy stuff ......they are yuppie trash snobs ...screw them , we dont need them at all . Pfft
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    I have some toxic in laws that send gifts to my kids, and I wish I could send them back sometimes. My kids have enough stuff and I hate the obligation I have to ring up and say thank you and be nice, just because I got a package in the mail with a bunch of stuff we didnt need anyway. Sometimes it can be a way of controlling from afar. If they really wanted to be nice a sorry is a great way to start!

    And I am so well mannered I get the kids to ring up and say thanks, get on the phone and tell them how lovely their thought was all the time wanting to vomit and tell them they are obnoxious pigs...

    Ops sorry venting my own crap now!

    Quote Originally Posted by High_Heel_Lover View Post
    Hey don't punish the kid for this, if they want to send stuff receive them, take it and save it for the kiddo. This is something that is happening now, and it sucks but people make mistakes and also may ask for forgiveness.

    Give it time, we all have bad family moments and later on say "oh do you remember when I acted like a total ass? oh I am wow I am glad we got over that"

    Girl if they do this kind of thing all the time, if it's a repeat thing then I would be all "fuck you" but if not then well we all make mistakes.


    Anyway I hope your week gets better
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    Quote Originally Posted by snoopy View Post
    agreed. a guy once told me, "take it, it's free. they're offering it, so take it. you never know when you get anything else, so take it now." sage advice i've always used since.

    also agreed. i feel like pummeling my father any day of the week for all his bs.

    hell, i feel like punching him right in the face right now, now that you've reminded me of him.

    but every now and then he'll stop by and act as if nothing's wrong and all the evil malicious bs he's pulled will be like it was swept under the rug...for him.

    I remember though.

    but i figure (actually, i know from prior experience) re-hashing it will just make it worst and give him pain and frustration. and i don't really want him to be pained (besides the punch in the face, i mean ). that's not really going to make things right or me feel better (a little maybe but not much ). i'd much rather he just understand and accept what he's done in his life was wrong.



    and since i'm wishing, i'd like a pony, a billyun bucks, and peace between the arabs and israelis.

    Well this whole things has gone way off topic , i was not in anyway looking for family therapy . I do not let people mistreat me , to each his own on that .

    While I do appreciate all the love and support I am getting this thread I just need to you respect my wishes by dropping the suggestions of getting over what they did , I am way to sensitive about the situation .
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