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    Default money off lots of custys or just a couple?

    So some nights I make my money off more than 8-10 guys, sometimes I make the majority of my money off 2-3 guys.

    But for some reason I am happier making my money off of a lot of guys. It's like an ego boost or something; "all these guys want me/think I am the best, etc", when I make my money off just two or three I get depressed, feel unattractive, etc.

    I know that this frame of mind is unhealthy. I shouldnt let guys dictate my feelings. But I do-I am working on this though. Seeing a counselor and such for my ED, etc.

    Does anyone else feel this way? Which is better do you all think?
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    Default Re: money off lots of custys or just a couple?

    I'd also rather make my money off of lots of guys. Lap-hopping is my thing, it's what I'm good at. I suck at doing the slow, conversation-heavy, big-ticket CR hustle. Not only do I suck at it, I also just don't like it. I find it mentally draining.

    I'd much rather lap my ass off; that's my forte. I've got the fast LD hustle down to a science, and I'm good at selling multiple dances and/or long strings of dances...so that's what I focus on.

    I just prefer more dancing and less talking. I'd rather be physically exhausted than mentally/emotionally exhausted at the end of the night.

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    Quote Originally Posted by made_of_sequins View Post
    I just prefer more dancing and less talking. I'd rather be physically exhausted than mentally/emotionally exhausted at the end of the night.
    HELL yes.

    I never thought about it in terms of being popular... it's just a lot less taxing on my humanity to keep it all light and friendly as opposed to putting serious time in. It took me a long, long time to figure this out. I'm a talker. But in the end, it's too much work.
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    Default Re: money off lots of custys or just a couple?

    i tend to make it off 2-3 customers, it seems easier for me that way than to try to make it off more. i'm not as burned out at the end of the night when I do it that way.
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    I just can't lap-hop. I don't know why I never caught on to it. I guess I have my moments of it but it seems rare for me. I guess my primary stratagy is to find a couple of guys who will pay for my whole night.
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    Default Re: money off lots of custys or just a couple?

    switching to a few customers worked best for me, but in a sufficiently hopping environment, laphopping would do as well and possibly be a bit more consistent.

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    Lots of customers. I don't like to be dependent on regs.

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    Default Re: money off lots of custys or just a couple?

    I definitely prefer making my money from as few guys as possible. Often I only talk to one guy a night, that's the best for me. I'm very good at it, and it leaves me less tired at the end of the night, especially when they're just paying me to talk, not dance.

    I don't find it mentally draining, and I think it's because I quit lying for the most part. Making up elaborate lies was very tiring.

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    Quote Originally Posted by papillonluvr View Post
    So some nights I make my money off more than 8-10 guys, sometimes I make the majority of my money off 2-3 guys.

    But for some reason I am happier making my money off of a lot of guys. It's like an ego boost or something; "all these guys want me/think I am the best, etc", when I make my money off just two or three I get depressed, feel unattractive, etc.

    I know that this frame of mind is unhealthy. I shouldnt let guys dictate my feelings. But I do-I am working on this though. Seeing a counselor and such for my ED, etc.

    Does anyone else feel this way? Which is better do you all think?
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    Well, it all works brilliantly; there's something for everyone in the club. Some dancers want to lap hop; some customers just want a few lapdances. Other dancers are good at the GFE experience and big-ticket slow hustle, and that's what some customers are looking for.

    The trick is to go with the hustle that comes naturally to you, and find the customers who are looking for what you're good at giving. If that makes any sense. I'm a little distracted at the moment, sorry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by made_of_sequins View Post
    ...I just prefer more dancing and less talking. I'd rather be physically exhausted than mentally/emotionally exhausted at the end of the night.

    I second that.

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    Default Re: money off lots of custys or just a couple?

    I prefer a cpl guys to a lot. Its less taxing on me somehow..mentally and physically though I cant explain why.

    Though lately I'd be happy making money any way...

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    I'm in the middle. I usually make half my money from laphopping and the rest from 1-2 guys. I like the VIP hustle, but not enough to waste TOO much time on it. Our floor dances tend to go one at a time, so I'll bounce around until I find the lucky guy. I don't do regulars if I can help it.

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    I'd much rather make my money off of a few guys. It's less taxing on me than working the room hustling non-stop. That being said though, I love nights when I'm in demand and have tons of guys ask for dances. It makes me feel sexy and wanted.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseLeigh View Post
    I'm in the middle. I usually make half my money from laphopping and the rest from 1-2 guys.
    That's me too.

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    Since there isn't as many customers as there used to be I pretty much need to rely on a guy just liking me for the night. I have no problem laphopping but it seems hard to generate alot of money that way. Five years ago I could leave with 900 a night easily just from doing dances all night long and not alot of conversation. Now though, to make that kind of money I usually have to get lucky with one guy for a substantial time in VIP. In alot of ways I have the most fun that way too...as long as he is a fun person. Sometimes though it can be kinda exausting entertaining someone for a long period of time..but sometimes not so much as you get to know the person the longer you interact with them so you can become more relaxed and you find it easier to be more of yourself. Rather than having to talk to alot of different people, in different moods and trying to gauge how best to sell to them. So I guess on the nights I make the most it is usually off of 1 or 2 guys so I prefer that. Ofcourse it is always a nice feeling to be wanted but there is no rhyme or reason as to why you appeal to who you do or why some nights you make alot and some nights you don't. So just go with the flow!

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    Default Re: money off lots of custys or just a couple?

    you can make money from a couple or few (2-5) guys per night without 'relying on regulars'. if you are good at getting 200-500 per guy any night of the week, there's really no need to build up regulars.

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    id rather make my money off of a couple guys then a load of them with less. thats usually how i try to do things.

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    2-3 guys .... 90% of the time. And I have 0 regulars. Yup. Zip. Zero. Nada.

    This is a wanna dance club but typically my money is made off VIPs. Most of the other girls make money the wanna dance way.

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    I'm a total "Wanna dance" chick. At my new club we don't have a VIP so its ideal for me. I'd rather make money doing dances for a bunch of guys than have to sit and talk and kung-fu strip my way through a CR. I hate that.

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    Default Re: money off lots of custys or just a couple?

    i prefer lap-hopping. whether im making money off multiple guys or just2-3 my body is still sore at the end of the night. but i dont have to put on a big emotional show for the first. plus it can be difficult to find decent guys to spend big monies when you work at a high mileage club and dont participate in the extra activites. id rather be on the floor than in the back.

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    Default Re: money off lots of custys or just a couple?

    I guess I like having a mix of both...it sort of depends on my mood.

    I like working Fridays and Saturdays because they are normally busy nights and I can make money from lap hopping if need be. However I also enjoy finding that one cool guy that is willing to drop a bunch of cash on just me. I guess I sort of feel special when a guy singles me out like that.

    I HATE walking around trying to chit chat with everyone in the club so if I can find one whale that is willing to spend that makes me happy but I'll make my money however I can.

    I like the nights that are so crazy that I don't even have to ask if they want a dance...they just come to me .
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    Default Re: money off lots of custys or just a couple?

    I tend to make most of my money off only a few guys, and I'm fine with that since I make good money. I tend to have to work less when it's off a few guys versus a lot of guys. I find i can relax more when I only have to please 2-4 guys a nights (for any real length of time).

    I find it a stroke to my ego that the guys want to spend so much time with me. I don't find it much of a compliment when each guy just wants 1-2 dances, then on to the next girl. I'd rather be the guys center of attention for a long period of time.

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    As few guys as possible, or better yet, one guy the whole night is even better, it is just more relaxing and easier to concentrate on one guy and seducing him, then have to deal with the quirks and varied personalities types of the other guys out there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by virgoamm View Post
    I'd much rather make my money off of a few guys. It's less taxing on me than working the room hustling non-stop. That being said though, I love nights when I'm in demand and have tons of guys ask for dances. It makes me feel sexy and wanted.
    I so know what u mean. I leave feeling so hot when I have been asked for dances all night and even have a waiting line!
    But it is also complimentary to have one or two guys so impressed with u that they spend hundreds of dollars.

    The perfect night will be a combination of both.

    But I hate getting paid to talk!! Can't stand it. I like selling multiple dances to the same person but having to ego stroke and be charming etc - talking is just not my thing. I find it so draining and soul destroying - particularly if it's the type of guy that continually asks me to meet him OTC. If I'm pretending to be interested in him in some way I also find that draining although I rarely do that.
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