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    Do you lie to your custys? LIke if they asked you "if you could, would you have sex with me right now?", would you tell them yes even if it is a hell no?
    or when they ask if you think they're hot, do you tell them what they want to hear?

    i have an issue with this-I dont like to lie about that kinda thing. i dont have a problem making up a fake identity, but telling them a lie about what they want to hear...for someo reason i just cant do it.
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    Yes. Absolutely. They are (were, I'm retired now) paying me to present a fantasy, and that is what I did. Obviously you wouldn't tell some geezer that he was hot, the compliment has to be something closer to the truth ie; compliment his cologne, clothing choice, intellect or whatever.

    On the question about sex, that is what they are imagining, so I would pretend that I was imagining it too. They don't want to know what is really going through my head; "how much is this guy worth tonight? Am I going to be able to sell him on VIP or is he really just a poser?"




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    lying and being good at lying is all part of the game. paris is so right, we are being paid by men to represent their fantasies and make him feel good for the time he has paid for. he doesnt want the truth, the truth is boring.
    you dont have to tell huge lies just stretch the truth out a bit, stroke his ego and the money will flow

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    I try to preserve the fantasy as long as I can and let them believe what I want them to. I usually say, "Oh honey, I'd get with you in a NY minute but I just would never do that here. This whole setting [itc] is such a turn off. We would have to be somewhere more special."
    I find this keeps the guy from getting too riled up in the CR without letting him down like he never has any chance with me at all. I guess that's still lying but I try to treat it more as a hypothetical.
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    of course I lie to make them feel good about themselves. That's good salesmanship.

    But I don't promise what I can't deliver. That's just bad salesmanship. Also, have you ever been in a VIP with a guy that thinks he's getting lucky? It's hell.

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    I do lie a lot to customers, but once in awhile it gets to me, I freeze up, and I can't do it. Those are the nights I make no money. The lies tend to propagate my big money nights.

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    Yes, but only while doing a vip, and want to (hopefully) keep them there.
    sometimes while doin a ld
    Otherwise ill just be boosting there ego for free, fuck that.

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    I'm already lying the moment I smile at some old, fat, disgusting piece of shit that I wouldn't give the time of day to IRL, so what's the big difference?

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarvelGirl View Post
    I'm already lying the moment I smile at some old, fat, disgusting piece of shit that I wouldn't give the time of day to IRL, so what's the big difference?
    WORD.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily View Post
    of course I lie to make them feel good about themselves. That's good salesmanship.

    But I don't promise what I can't deliver. That's just bad salesmanship. Also, have you ever been in a VIP with a guy that thinks he's getting lucky? It's hell.
    yeah. me to. When I first started dancing, I did lie. Sure, I'll fuck you in VIP. When we got there, iI'd say oh, you silly boy. no can do. ( the owner backed me up on this. told me to take the losers for all they had.) but I learned the error in my ways, and much more artful ways to acomplish the same results.
    Now instead of flat out lying about what I cannot deliver, I elude to it, never straight out lying. " I promise you will be satisfied in VIp" He can take that any way he wants, but if he thinks it means he's gettig some, I act stupid and inform him I just mean he would be happy with this time. " what, you aren't happy? we didnt have fun? I thought we did"

    When asked "what do I get in vip" I used to say what do you want? yeah, sure you'll get it. Now I say " It's a secret. If I told you, I'd have to kill you. Only one way to find out. but I promise it'll be naughty fun!
    ( what? Dancing topless isnt naughty fun? )

    I don't like to lie and try not to at all times. As for fake compliments, you can usually find somethign genuinly nice abtou a person to compliment them on honestly.

    If a guysaid to me " if you could would you have sex with me right now" My answer would be oh, honey, I could never do that! I dont even know you! I can't just hop into bed with every hot guy I meet. You should come back so I can get to know you better!

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    ^^commiting to memory

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    Yes, I lie regularly to them about myself and my feelings, etc. I'm not myself. I'm a character with a name that's not mine who projects a fantasy. The fact that I wear costumes like a cowgirl only brings this home more.

    LIke if they asked you "if you could, would you have sex with me right now?", would you tell them yes even if it is a hell no?
    I'd be thinking first "what if this guy is vice?" and cover my ass from there, in addition to the fact that I don't want to be accused of a bait 'n switch if he does want to go to VIP. I'd probably say, "I won't let myself think of that because of club rules, but I'd love to get closer to you in VIP [which is our CR]."

    or when they ask if you think they're hot, do you tell them what they want to hear?
    Absolutely. I don't wait for them to ask that question.
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    I'll lie about some stuff, like that i'm into a sport they like, or something, but I won't lie about whether I'd do them. Yeah, I lose a customer once in a blue moon for that, but I make my money so 'i don't care.

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    I can usually tell if a guy is asking a sincere question or if he is just trying to get me to do what he wants. If it's the former, I tell the truth. If it's the later, I lie lie lie.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarvelGirl View Post
    I'm already lying the moment I smile at some old, fat, disgusting piece of shit that I wouldn't give the time of day to IRL, so what's the big difference?
    I just bust out laughing in the library and got a few strange looks. Thanks.

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    i'll usually change the subject slightly. ask them how they are? what they like? what they want to do to me? dirty talk.

    if i'm not sure if they're buying, i won't give them free dirty talk. i'll say other stuff. oh, i bet you'd love to fuck, i bet you're good, i'd be your best ever. whatever.

    it isn't yes, but it isn't no.

    of course, some guys want to hear no. really.

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    I usually lie, but sometimes I get around the question. Sometimes I feel like a customer is testing me....like if a 300 lbs. man who's in his 60s and doesn't look like he's showered for a month asks me if I would have sex with him, if I could, right at that moment...I might feel almost TOOO phony by saying yes. So...I'll say something like..."I dunno, could you handle it?" (sexy smile).

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