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    So my day was okay I guess, I worked dayshift which is rare for me. I was about 10 minutes from home and got a MOTHER FUCKING SPEEDING TICKET. I was doing 89 in a 70. I still had full stripper makeup and hair and was wearing a rather low cut dress so I figured I had a chance since it was a male state trooper. You guys, I even told him I had medical problems and had to get home and then I started crying. I still got a ticket.

    When I'm a cute stripper with my face on and hair done, boobies hanging out and crying and I still can't get out of a ticket, I suck at life. What a fucking prick ass state trooper, I hope he gets in a terrible car wreck 10 minutes away from being home.

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    >.< Some of them truly are assholes, especially state troopers. I think they would write their own mother a speeding ticket.

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    Maybe he was gay and being a bitch cuz he knows you look better than him? Seriously, sometimes you can't tell!

    Either way, everyone has bad days. Sorry, hon. Feel better.

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    That sucks. I hate getting pulled over only minutes from home when I've been already driving for an hour. Once, I was like 10 feet from my house 3am after getting off work at 2am and the cop made me get out of my car for a field sobriety test (I had like two weak shooters that night around 9pm and that was it!) and actually ended up failing it because my contacts were stuck to my eyes and I asked for a breathalyzer and he turned it down and just let me go after all that! I find it's depends on the county whether my stripper makeup gets me off or not. The county I lived in, would always let me off when I was decked out like a stripper and the one that I worked in always gave me attitude or tickets. Make sure you go to court, you could at least get no points.

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    Should I just pay it and suffer the consequences or go to court and say that I was having medical issues and whatever? I'm a pretty good liar and I look really innocent so if I get a decent judge I may be able to sweet talk them? Once I had to go to court for having a suspended license and went to jail for it.. a wrong time wrong place type situation and I talked to the DA himself, and he apologized that I had to go through all the stupidity and threw my case out and I didn't even have to pay court fees.

    My "medical issues" are technically because I was starving and a vegetarian I refuse to eat greasy fast food french fries.. I was in a hurry to get home. I told him I was cramping really bad and my blood sugar was low and I needed to eat something but I have a real strict diet. I could say something of that nature in court?

    On the bright side, after I knew I was not getting out of the ticket... I have a radar (which was turned off.. stupid I know) and as I was crying, the cop goes "did your radar pick up my signal?" I just looked at him like he was the biggest dumbass ever and said in a smartass tone "obviously it was off, otherwise I wouldn't have been going that fast.. dont'cha think?"

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    Don't pay it. Get a lawyer and have that shit taken off your record. And a lawyer is probably gonna be cheaper and have a better payment plan than your local court.

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    I wouldn't lie then you get in more trouble.

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    The issue is being upset because a speeding ticket was issued because of speeding? By a guy who's supposed to write speeding tickets for speeders?

    I truly don't get it. But no, don't pay it. Go ahead, enter a not guilty plea, and see what the DA/PA/prosecutor might offer. If your driving record is clean, there's a decent chance it can be deferred. Warning: They will have your whole driving record, so don't try to bluff your way by claiming it's cleaner than it really is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by loveandluxury View Post
    So my day was okay I guess, I worked dayshift which is rare for me. I was about 10 minutes from home and got a MOTHER FUCKING SPEEDING TICKET. I was doing 89 in a 70. I still had full stripper makeup and hair and was wearing a rather low cut dress so I figured I had a chance since it was a male state trooper. You guys, I even told him I had medical problems and had to get home and then I started crying. I still got a ticket.

    When I'm a cute stripper with my face on and hair done, boobies hanging out and crying and I still can't get out of a ticket, I suck at life. What a fucking prick ass state trooper, I hope he gets in a terrible car wreck 10 minutes away from being home.
    Wait a minute. You were speeding, got caught and now you wish he gets into a terrible car wreck?

    AND, you have the nerve to get upset because your feminine wiles didn't work on him when you were clearly in the wrong?


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    ^ This shounds shitty, but it's not techinically lying. I wasn't racing somebody or driving like a jackass, the roads weren't very crowded and I wasn't bobbing and weaving. I was just going a little faster than I should have been because I was fucking starving and the only food I can eat is in my fridge at home. All I had to eat all day was an english muffin and it was damn near 8:00PM when I got pulled over.. My tummy is getting used to no meat, and super healthy food and I didn't want to fuck it all up by getting something at a gas station or a drive through.

    I guess I'm just a cop-hater. Seriously, when people are getting robbed and killed and you don't have anything better to do than pull people over, there are either too many cops or somebody need to fucking reorganize their job duties.

    I'm in a very shitty mood right now, but I'm beginning to hate this country and the way things are run here. If Obama doesn't get elected and changes aren't made, I'm getting the fuck out of America and not looking back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DylanAngel View Post
    Wait a minute. You were speeding, got caught and now you wish he gets into a terrible car wreck?

    AND, you have the nerve to get upset because your feminine wiles didn't work on him when you were clearly in the wrong?


    I think anybody would be mad if they got a ticket. Am I supposed to be happy? No. I never said I wasn't speeding.. I was speeding and I got a ticket for it. I'm just pissed off that I did, and pissed off that cops don't have anything better to do with their time.

    I'm just very angry right now and wanted to vent.....

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    Chances are he may not show up for court if you plead not guilty.
    Then it will get dropped. Try it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by loveandluxury;1554175I
    guess I'm just a cop-hater. Seriously, when people are getting robbed and killed and you don't have anything better to do than pull people over, there are either too many cops or somebody need to fucking reorganize their job duties.
    Yeah, because nobody ever gets killed by a speeder right?
    Honestly, you're mad at someone who's doing his job because you fail at packing yourself something to eat?
    Last edited by DylanAngel; 05-21-2008 at 07:43 PM. Reason: Too personal...(for me)

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    I'm also bitter because my license was suspended a while ago because the state and the cop that pulled me over BOTH failed to tell me that there was a no insurance surcharge of $260 that I have to pay every year for 3 years. I was unaware of that, and it caused my license to be suspended.

    One night, after bartending at a place that doesn't allow employee drinking (so I was obviously sober) I had to mail something out before I left to go catch a plane at 6:30AM to go see my husband. I knew there was a mailbox in the general vicinity but wasn't sure exactly where. I was driving around a neighborhood, super safe, not speeding, absolutely nothing wrong. I got pulled over for no reason, and the cop arrested me because my license was suspended. He asked what I was doing.. I told him about hte mailbox and catching a plane. Because I had some cash in the front seat (tips from bartending) he took it upon himself to assume I was looking for drugs.

    I got arrested and spent 6 hours in jail due to my suspended license that I had no idea about. I managed to call my dad and wake him up, in his half asleep state he didn't quite understand what was going on. The fucking cops told my parents that I was in on a DUI and that I was still drunk and needed to sober up. They got me mixed up with some other girl.... My parents were flipping out, the cops and jail employees were all very rude to them.

    I think I have a bit of a right to not like the police in this area.

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    Oh sorry for the thread jack but DylanAngel (HUGS) I am so very sorry

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    Quote Originally Posted by DylanAngel View Post
    Yeah, because nobody ever gets killed by a speeder right? Tell that to my no longer here 17 year old daughter.

    Honestly, you're mad at someone who's doing his job because you fail at packing yourself something to eat?

    I didn't say that. I wasn't driving like a jackass, nobody was anywhere near me otherwise I would have been going much slower. I'm sorry for the loss of your daughter.

    I know he was doing his job, I'm just venting. Read the above story for why I don't care for cops. Also, when I was 6 months pregnant I got pulled over for running a stop sign, it was literally 100 degrees outside and I told him I needed to get out of the car to get some air or I was going to vomit. I stepped out of the car and sat on the sidewalk and the fucking cop came over and YELLED at me. Because you have a fucking badge and went through a week of school you can treat people like shit?

    I just don't like cops. Period. End of story.

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    Quote Originally Posted by loveandluxury View Post
    One night, after bartending at a place that doesn't allow employee drinking (so I was obviously sober) I had to mail something out before I left to go catch a plane at 6:30AM to go see my husband. I knew there was a mailbox in the general vicinity but wasn't sure exactly where. I was driving around a neighborhood, super safe, not speeding, absolutely nothing wrong. I got pulled over for no reason, and the cop arrested me because my license was suspended. He asked what I was doing.. I told him about hte mailbox and catching a plane. Because I had some cash in the front seat (tips from bartending) he took it upon himself to assume I was looking for drugs.
    So, it was late at night, not a lot of traffic and you were driving around slowly, obviously looking for something. He ran your plates while following you and it came up suspended. Sounds like a reason to me.

    And it's your responsibility to know about surcharges. I'm not going to keep arguing about this because I know you're just mad at getting a ticket but I hope you see things a little more clearly in the morning and place the anger where it belongs; at yourself.

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    Tsk tsk shouldn't have been driving 89 mph.

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    She was venting not looking for a lecture (when are we ever looking for a lecture?!). Nobody ever gets arrested for shoplifting and tells the cop, "Man, you are really good at your job. Thank you! Give me your supervisor's name and I'll make a call, you'll get a raise!"

    People doing their job appropriately doesn't mean you can't bitch about it. We bitch about bill collectors calling and cops writing tickets and this and that. She had a rough day. She needs a hug.

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    Quote Originally Posted by loveandluxury View Post
    I hope he gets in a terrible car wreck 10 minutes away from being home.
    Um wow. You were going 19 over the speedlimit and wish another human death because they were doing their job??? That's horrible. Sorry you had a bad day and all, but that's wreckless driving and if I were in the same situation, I'd take my ticket like I was supposed to because I broke the law.

    Oh yeah, and maybe you could get a cooler or something to store snacks in so you don't have to speed home? I used to do that.

    And PCQ, I think the point DA was trying to make here was that she thinks L&L needs to take responsibility for her actions instead of making excuses for breaking the law.

    DA?

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    cops are not unlikely to give tickets to chicks trying to 'hustle' their way out of tickets because they are kind of irritated at the stereotype that 'chicks can just BS their way out of a ticket'. sometimes you are more likely to get that ticket when you're dressed skimpy and spouting excuses for breaking the law because the cops know they are being played and push back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miabella View Post
    cops are not unlikely to give tickets to chicks trying to 'hustle' their way out of tickets because they are kind of irritated at the stereotype that 'chicks can just BS their way out of a ticket'. sometimes you are more likely to get that ticket when you're dressed skimpy and spouting excuses for breaking the law because the cops know they are being played and push back.
    Word. I think only the softest cops actually fall for the girly routine.

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    Ok , she was just venting , yes speeding is wrong ......L&L is also going through some rough times at home right now so lets all be sisters here and drop it , please !

    L&L , stop speeding baby , ok ?
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    Seiously? lol, you were speeding be responsible n pay your ticket dude.

    whe re were you going in such a hurry? There's no reason to go 19 over the speed limit.

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    ^^^ She was hungry . No vegetarian food except in her fridge.

    And be her sister and drop it? Um, if we're being serious with that comment, I would say the same thing to my best friends if they had done and said the same things. Because I care. And I like to be friends with people that take responsibility. My friends are the same, and expect a kick in the ass sometimes when they've fucked up, as they have done for me as well a couple times when I was fucking up and needed it. it's called tough love and a wake up call.

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