^Good luck girl! I can't go in till at least tomorrow till this damn cold goes awaybut I hope I see you there!!!!!!!!!
^Good luck girl! I can't go in till at least tomorrow till this damn cold goes awaybut I hope I see you there!!!!!!!!!



I don't know what it is but nothing works for me. Last night, there were girls leaving with $600-1000. But what did I leave with? $83. I busted my ass all night. Those bastards wouldn't even let me dollar dance for them. Half of the people I approached looked up at me before I even said a word and said "No." WTF? Two of the nicer custies told me that because it's a race weekend, there are a bunch of rednecks in the club, so being black, I probably won't do well....but I disagree...there is another black girl that works at my club and she left with upward of $300. It's got to be me. I fucking suck at being a stripper. I've tried the nice approach, the sex kitten approach, the bossy approach and the ditzy approach, nothing works for me. And it's not my confidence at this point, I'm very confident in my body and my appearance. I'm always freshly showered and always have a fresh spritzing of body spray and I've always got a fresh stick of gum in my mouth and my dance clothes are always freshly washed. So I know it's not a hygiene thing. As far as stage goes, I do the same things all the other girls do with plenty of smiling and eye contact. And I desperately need to make at least $600 tonight, then another $600 next week. After next week, I need to make like $2k so that I can move. My life sucks. *cry*
"I Can Sell Raid To A Bug. i'm A Hustler I Can Sell Salt To A Slug" -Cassidy


Sorry to hear that. I know exactly how you feel.I can only work another 2 months before taking time off for a year if not forever, so all my energy has been going into hustling, and I'm making less and less each week. I started working the best day and night shifts, read up on psychology of persuasion, read superflirt, memorized a ton from hustle hut...and I'm coming home with $100 on semi busy nights?
It's like there's a brick wall between me and the customers. No one wants me to sit down with them. I don't get much of a chance to hustle. I'm afraid I'm going to have to turn super bitch or something!
I hope it picks up for us. Don't give up.




But last Saturday you made around $300, right? You took the tips from SW, and you did better than ever before? That's fantastic money to me, although of course I wish I were one of the dancers leaving with $600-900.
Still, I think that's pretty good, so obviously your change in hustle worked for you that night, as did luck to some degree. Did you notice that a certain kind of customer clicked with you on that night?
Maybe your bad night just happened with no part of you to blame. Sometimes the crowd won't be yours no matter how hard you work it.
Maybe try to replicate your good night and see what happens? It really helped me in the beginning when dancers pulled me in on their hustle so I could get a feel of the exchange and then put my own imprint on it. Maybe that could give you a jump start?
"Don't piss off a motivated stripper."
aww..sorry, don't cry, sometimes I leave the club negative so at least you made some money and you should give yourself credit for going to work in the first place. I hate it when they say no, even before i said anything to them too! Stay positive, it's takes awhile to develop your own style. When I first started dancing I tried the sex kitten, ditzy girl, and whatever else you name it, but it didn't work for me. It seems that the customer could tell I was acting, so they don't respond to it. Find a style that you can be natural at and add a lot of smiles and be flirty--think about how you are when you are trying to flirt with a boy you like. don't overdo it, just try to be natural. and of course don't be afraid to ask for a dance... but try wording it differently, like... "can I take off my dress for you the next song" , "want to see me naked" of course you'll still have your bottoms on, but i get a lot of yes wording it like this. If I feel safe with a guy I would continue dancing the next song without asking him, but just to be safe say something like " can i continue" , "you don't want me to stop now, do you?" and be extremely sexy towards the end of the song, it helps in getting another dance.
You're doing your homework by being on this site and posting here so I know you will do really well eventually. it takes some time to incorporate what you learn on here into your hustle and be natural at it, I find it helpful to keep reading the hustle threads before work... i motivates me, maybe you can try doing the same to see if it helps.
i'm the same, i try heaps but a lot of the time, the customers say no...
got pissed off bout it in change room other night and bitched bout it to one of the girls who turns round and goes "look at u, you're like one of the definite money makers!!"
since when did they think this?? i'm like the opposite hahaha
but i do have good nights too![]()
this winter weather isn't helping..
xx





Just keep practising your hustle. You used some of the tips from here and went from not being able to break $100 to making $300. So just keep at it. Maybe it was just a shit night. Every stripper has a shit night once in a while.
You may think you are confident but u may be portraying a lack of confidence. Being confident in knowing you are good looking and hot isn't the same as being confident in your ability to sell dances - that's why it's not always the best looking dancers making the most money but rather the ones who know how to sell.
There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.
Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.
yeah...
aren't you at centrefold with me?? lol





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I am. I thought it was u, i recognised your hot body in your avatar hehe.
There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.
Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.





Exactly...during the weeknights it's usually a slower kinda crowd. I take my time, sit for a couple songs, and make my sell. If they aren't ready, I tell them I'll be back during the special (every 30-45min), and I move on to the next person.
Guys will definately try to soak up as much time as they can w/o paying for it. Think about it..They are lonely. They have no one at home they can or want to talk to...so they come to us. Don't give them the satisfaction of taking up your valuable time for free.
Some Douchebag: "[Pimp C] 12:43 am: its true we got to stick together the black people on SW CK you is teh condoleeza of SW"
hahaha hot?? there's so many things i'd change about my body
you're one of the few who get all the guys mesmerized and staring with their mouths open





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LOL hehe thanks babe, i think its just big tits. guys seem to go ga-ga over them LOL.
Hehe now u know my secret I sit at home on my computer all day hahahaha well its not a big secret.
There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.
Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.
haha oh same...the only reason i wasn't on earlier was cos i was shopping *hides* hehe
i actually just sit my ass on myspace all day...keeps me quite occupied, do you use it?
i can't do the whole big tits thing...i can if i'm wearing a top and put like 2 bits of paddin on each side - looks crazy haha but yeh...at work impossible :p
tho my white push up bra ive been wearing lately is working..



Don't be sad. We've all had nights when we've barely made the house fee and it seems like the other girls are banking. Sometimes, a custie can sense the frustration and be turned off. On these nights, it's best to relax and have a drink. Tomorrow is a brand new night with new possibilities.
The girls here give great advice. Never spend too much time with a custie especially on busy weekends.





Some Douchebag: "[Pimp C] 12:43 am: its true we got to stick together the black people on SW CK you is teh condoleeza of SW"
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