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    Default How I messed up my new relationship...

    Ok, so everyone on here knows I have seperated from my husband not too long ago. Anyways, EVERYTHING IS WEIRDLY GREAT! Wow, we make awesome friends instead of lovers. And our daughter is fine & flourishing...

    Well, a lil while ago I met a guy ... Things were going good until last night when I got drunk. I was sitting round chatting with my best friend waiting for my guy to call me back & it usually takes him a g'bit when he says a few minutes. Anyways, my friend convinced me (seeing as how I was drunk wasn't very hard convincing) to text him some mean things to get a response. Anyways, obviously I did... And I just started a war with him for no damn reason - besides being drunk...

    Well, I apologized to him this morning... lots! He seems very short & fustrated with me, which is understandable. Now, this is the first time I've been drunk in 3 years which isn't an excuse at all. But, now I feel like my guy doesn't even like me. I also asked him if I ruined things & he said a lil bit.

    I don't know what to do... Do I give him his space & if I never talk to him again, just brush it off as my mistake to learn by? I REALLY LIKE HIM, but I don't want to seem/ or be so clingy or attached.

    All I have to say is DAMN MYSELF AND MY DRUNKEN WAYS!.... And damn last night too.

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    Default Re: How I messed up my new relationship...

    Everyone makes mistakes. You apologized, so he should get over it IMO. And if he can't . . . well, you should ask yourself if he's worth the effort.

    At any rate, don't beat yourself up.

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    First I'm sorry.

    Second time is good.

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    Let him come to you. But just tell him your sorry, if you did, and at the end of the call say "Call me!" and just let him!

    I'm sure all will be fine.
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    Agreed with Mast. Let him come to you. If he doesn't, you didn't waste anymore time than needed on him.

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    Default Re: How I messed up my new relationship...

    Quote Originally Posted by Santos View Post
    Everyone makes mistakes. You apologized, so he should get over it IMO. And if he can't . . . well, you should ask yourself if he's worth the effort.

    At any rate, don't beat yourself up.
    I totally agree. If you guys are really into each other it should definitely blow over.

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    Default Re: How I messed up my new relationship...

    I hate to say it, but you may have earned this one. I think that if any of us had just started dating someone, and suddenly he got wasted and texted mean things for no reason, we'd be saying, "Ew, dump! Someone who does that to someone they supposedly like is a jerk." He hasn't dated you long enough to know that it isn't normal behavior for you and is probably thinking, "WTF?"

    I'd give him a few days and if he doesn't come around, contact him again and tell him that you're very sorry, that it really isn't like you to do something like that, that you were drunk for the first time in a few years and were being stupid. If he decides to cut his losses....well, that will suck, but the only thing you can do is learn from it.

    And wtf is up with your friend, wanting you to trash your new bf as a lark? That's a pretty f-ed up thing to do too.

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    Default Re: How I messed up my new relationship...

    ^^^ That's what I was going to mention. WTF is up with your friend?



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