We had a major attack from the inside at the recent SFNYC and we aren't allowed to talk about it. LunarObverse was just (rightfully) crucified for breaking a pledge to send a present and yet a security breach like this happens and we're not even going to talk about it?
Yes, it's teh interwebs. Yes, bullshit is bound to happen. Yes, integrity is a lot to expect. But I still value this place and would like to protect it. Members inviting unwanted people to private events planned OFF BOARD is a major breach. If I was ok with this level of integrity and community I'd just hang out on the somethingawful boards and invite them all to my favorite after-work hang out.
Whomever invited the unwanted guest may have trusted him, but that was not his/her call to make. It is up to each individual woman who she chooses to trust and meet in person. With as many "stalker" issues as we've had lately, I should think (s)he would have understood that.
Why should this be a private matter for PMs? The integrity of the entire board is at stake here. I think we should all know, going forward, who we can safely meet and who will sell us the fuck out for some petty amusement. When NYC Fest didn't fit into my plans I started seeking local NYC members out to meet with when I'm in town this week. I want to know who I can trust and who is a fucking fink. How dare anyone suggest that this is not the business of those who did not attend! We are all members of this community whether we attended a particular event or are in your private clique or whatever it takes to fit in around here.
Obviously, I have my suspicions about who the fink is, but I could be wrong. Whichever way, I don't really give a shit. I just want to know.
Incidentally, I'd just like to say for the record that this was supposed to be a site for strippers, industry folk and perhaps polite guests. We just wanted a place to trade tips on self-tanner, anal sex, and dealing with asshole custies in peace. It's the wannabes ("I was a stripper for like 2 months OMG!"), ass-kissers, pompous pricks, and trolls (not content with trolling the boards they've apparently moved onto live action) that are sinking this ship.






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