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    Some off duty dancers can't stay away.

    Had a grand ol' time at my favorite club tonight, but I noticed something that happens frequently there. A few of the girls who I've seen many times working at this club came in in street clothes, didn't work, but stayed for several hours drinking, dancing with the girls they know, etc. etc. I see this happen with different girls almost every time I'm there. Sometimes they just hang out, other times they're totally obnoxious. My question; is this normal for a lot of dancers, or just the younger party girls (it's always the younger girls at this club) who can't resist the constant nightlife atmosphere?

    I figured most of you had better things to do on your nights off at 2:00 am, like, I dunno, sleeping. Am I right, or am I cuckoo for Cocoa Puffs?
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    Default Re: Some off duty dancers can't stay away.

    i don't hang out at work when i'm not working. partially because i don't want to deal with regular customers that know me...they're nice and all...but they're not paying me for my time if im not on duty. plus, i need a rest from the job site. my job isn't my own personal party house...it's my job. i don't need to be there if i'm not working....unless there is a reason, like a fellow dancer's birthday party, etc. but i DO notice a lot of other girls hanging around when they're not on shift....

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    Default Re: Some off duty dancers can't stay away.

    i never get girls that do this. usually its the younger girls, it makes no sense to me.

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    Default Re: Some off duty dancers can't stay away.

    I've seen this quite a few times at the club i go to as well and it is always younger girls as you noted.

    Don't understand it as well.
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    Default Re: Some off duty dancers can't stay away.

    *raises hand* I'm one of those girls. I like going to my club to hang out because I'm 100% comfortable there, I get free drinks the whole time, and I can sit up in the VIP lounge for free and hang out if I wanted to. I hate regular bars because there's always 4567934 fights and I can't drink for free

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    I HATE it when girls do this. At my club, theres a few who work the dayshift, and will literally stay for another 4-5 hours after they get off.

    I don't care if they feel comfy and want to hang out---but hanging out with customers for free drives ALL of our money down---Particularly that of the night shift girls who are working, but can't hustle those guys you've been camping out. Its realy difficult to get guys to spend money on us when two seconds later they'll walk over to the streetclothes dancers and get comfy.

    Its just stupid business sense. If you give a guy something for free, what is his incentive to pay others, or you on your next shift, whatever?
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    My club is in the middle of the city and many dancers go out to nightclubs and then might come into work to say hi to the girls. I've done it myself. However at my club the dancers respect eachother enough that they wouldn't talk to customers when there and not working. Plus who wants to talk to custies when you're not getting paid?
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    Default Re: Some off duty dancers can't stay away.

    I definitely don't go to hang out with custy's. If anything, I work them so they spend money on the girls. I'll tell them to get dances from the girls and make sure they buy the girl drinks etc...I never allow them to buy me a drink and I never just it there with them.

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    Default Re: Some off duty dancers can't stay away.

    This is something I never do. I have better things to do with my time, other than stay in the bar. If I'm not working and making money, there is no point. I barely want to go out to the regular bar and dance for free.

    There are always exceptions to every rule. I know an older 40 something dancer who worked day shift and would stay till close and play the games. Never understood it.

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    Default Re: Some off duty dancers can't stay away.

    I used to be one of those girls. For me, it was being single and not being old enough to go to a bar.

    In retrospect, I just remember being lonely. All of my friends were girls that I worked with, so hanging out with them meant hanging out at work.

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    Default Re: Some off duty dancers can't stay away.

    I like my job fine but I would never ever hang out there off-duty. And I sure as hell wouldn't talk to customers, that's stressful enough for me when I'm getting paid for it.

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    Hmm, I have gone in once or twice with friends when I am not working, but mostly because my friends wanted to go. I dont talk to customers while I am there. I sit quietly and drink my beer and every now and then tip a girl if I havent seen her before or if she is a friend of mine.
    I love tits and I dont have to pay to get in there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brendita View Post
    Hmm, I have gone in once or twice with friends when I am not working, but mostly because my friends wanted to go. I dont talk to customers while I am there. I sit quietly and drink my beer and every now and then tip a girl if I havent seen her before or if she is a friend of mine.
    I love tits and I dont have to pay to get in there.
    This.

    I've been known to head to the club when the bars downtown close (since the club's open for another 3 hours), but I am there to be a CUSTOMER and spend MY money - not to sit around chatting with customers. I tip the girls, buy dances, etc etc just like any other patron. But not often... just on rare occasions if, like I said, the bars close and I'm not feeling ready to head home yet. And if I can afford it, which is rarely - and I refuse to hang out there and not spend money on the ladies.

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    i do this occasionally (albeit with my boyfriend) and i'm 29. i USUALLY go to other strip clubs, but if it's not much fun/no girls i'm interested in getting dances from are there, etc.. i'll go over to my club.

    it's not a common thing i do. i'd say maybe once every 3 months. *shrug* it's just something different to do from time to time and i like getting dances with my bf.

    however.. at -my- club -i- wont usually get dances unless it's with a girl i know and really get along with. i will buy HIM dances from other girls though.

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    There is a cluster of girls who come in and hang out with the same non-spending regulars literally 2-3 nights a week. The then hang out with those non-spenders when they are "working"! So, these guys are there 4-5 night a week.

    I do not understand the mentality at all.

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    Every once in a GREAT while I'll pop into my club when I'm out with friends. I rarely get dances,but I will buy them for my friends and make DAMN sure the girls are tipped. I only do it maybe a cpl times a year at most though...honestly,I spend so much time in a loud smoky club that thats about the LAST place I want to be on my night off! I'm getting old....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dottie Rebel View Post
    There is a cluster of girls who come in and hang out with the same non-spending regulars literally 2-3 nights a week. The then hang out with those non-spenders when they are "working"! So, these guys are there 4-5 night a week.

    I do not understand the mentality at all.
    i can't stand when girls come in with customers.

    on the rare occasion i go, i'm always with my bf. i might bring some other friends (and all of us will spend, or i wouldnt go/bring them). but i'd never go in with a customer.

    not that i'd go anywhere with a customer anyway.

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    Yeah, after reading this, I am really glad my club has a rule that if you're not on-duty, you can't be in the club.
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    Quote Originally Posted by noelle View Post
    Yeah, after reading this, I am really glad my club has a rule that if you're not on-duty, you can't be in the club.
    well, at my club you have to call and ask the manager/let him know you want to come in first. they say they only let girls if it's "slow" but...

    i'm not going to lie... it's so they can filter who does it. it doesn't matter if it's busy or not, it matters who you are.

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    Default Re: Some off duty dancers can't stay away.

    I stop in if I HAVE to, but try not to make that my hang out. I also find it very annoying when girls who aren't working come in and hang out the whole night. My club is very small, so half the time I think they do it to try and see how much the other girls are making or to make the girls who are there to work uncomfortable.

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    Default Re: Some off duty dancers can't stay away.

    We get plenty of female customers already so if one of the dancers comes by in her street clothes to spend some money and enjoy herself it's really no big deal. We have a small group of day shift girls, which I'm part of - we spend most of our time at work hanging out, drinking and joking around with the managers/bouncers/bartenders/etc anyway since the day shift is pretty slow most days, so I dunno. It's never been a problem for other girls to be there off-duty. It certainly doesn't seem to make anyone uncomfortable/annoyed (quite the opposite - the dayshift girls and the staff are always really happy to see me when I stop in as a custie, and always ask why I don't do it more often), and I'm only speaking for myself here, but I don't really give a crap if other girls know how much I make or see how I do it.

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    Default Re: Some off duty dancers can't stay away.

    penny why would they filter the girls is it because theres some girls thatll com in and get loud or something?

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    Quote Originally Posted by katie941 View Post
    penny why would they filter the girls is it because theres some girls thatll com in and get loud or something?
    typically the ones who are usually involved in drama, probably won't spend, etc...

    in my case (and the case of other girls i know who have no problem going in) we're a couple who will AT LEAST tip well stage side. also, im not going to upstage dancers and whatnot.

    it could also have something to do with the fact that i'm dayshift and i usually go in on nights. so, its not really the same girls.

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