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    Default Talkers v. Non-talkers

    In private dances. Your customers, not you.

    Does it make a difference to you? (Anecdotally), I've heard about the guys that want to talk dirty, or have you do it.

    Me, I have the opposite problem. I have had more than one dancer -- more than I can count on one hand in fact -- say, "are you OK? You're so quiet!"

    So I'm a sponge, soaking it up...does this have to mean I might be having a stroke?

    And then there is the 3rd category, which I fit into sometimes, of those who just break into a regular conversation during naked time. "So, how long you worked here?". This is kind of odd, I will admit.

    So, any preference among the types?

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    Default Re: Talkers v. Non-talkers

    I find talking during dances to be kind of awkward, tbh. It feels like it takes away from me trying to be all sexy and sensual. It's hard to focus on giving great dances while you're having a conversation-yanno?

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    Default Re: Talkers v. Non-talkers

    if the guy wants to laugh and talk during a dance thats fine by me makes the time go by faster. i do not want a guy talking dirty to me, that would skeeve me out.

    quiet is fine too, then i can get into the sexkitten mode

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    I prefer quiet. You will get a better dance if you are quiet (at least from me), and talking can make me become less focused or make things awkward. A guy can get talkative if he'd like, but if you want it to be the most sensual, then shut up and relax. Talking dirty will either embarass and/or skeeve me out, but really I will dance through anything as long as you are not too "handsy" if you are paying.
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    I like the customer to give me a bit of verbal feedback - telling me I'm hot, commenting on my body. But not everyday conversation - that takes away from the sensuality of the dance. It's like having sex and talking about the weather.

    I HATE dirty talk with customers and I wont do it. It grosses me out.
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    Default Re: Talkers v. Non-talkers

    during dances, i don't mind quiet.

    when i'm sitting with a customer though, quiet comes across to me as "please go away please go away please go away".

    so if a few upbeat comments or whatever doesn't bring him "out of his shell" that's exactly what i do. i'll ask for dances before walking though.
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    Default Re: Talkers v. Non-talkers

    My conversation during a dance is limited to stuff like, "That was nice, do it again," or "Could I see ____ now, please." A couple of times, when a new dancer seemed nervous, I've said, "Don't worry, I'm not going to try to grope you." Conversation is for the time beginning when she comes to my table and ending when the dance starts.

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    Default Re: Talkers v. Non-talkers

    Quote Originally Posted by UtahMike View Post
    My conversation during a dance is limited to stuff like, "That was nice, do it again," or "Could I see ____ now, please." A couple of times, when a new dancer seemed nervous, I've said, "Don't worry, I'm not going to try to grope you." Conversation is for the time beginning when she comes to my table and ending when the dance starts.
    This is about perfect for me. I like to know when I am doing something the customer enjoys. But the music is loud and when a guy is talking a lot, I have to keep my ear by his mouth to hear him and that really limits my movement and the number of positions I can do.

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    Default Re: Talkers v. Non-talkers

    conversation is fine..

    talking dirty with someone I just met is a little awkward to me...its fine if the dancer says stuff to me, but won't be getting a dirty response back from me simply because i feel like a fool saying that shit randomly..
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    I talk, fluff talk and joke around pretty much the whole time... Pretty much the same as if the stripper was a normal girl (shocking!).

    If the dancer isn't good at talking ill probably get bored within a couple dances since I'm not 19 anymore and I've already seen a lot of bums and vaginas.

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    I like guys who want to have a little conversation. I find that good conversation turns one dance into ten more often than silence.

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    Talk or not, ME NO WANT THINK.

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