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    Default Well, I don't hate customers. I kinda like them.

    I dunno why I haven't turned into one of those ppl who really is turned off to men because of dancing...but I just haven't. I like men, in general. Sure, there are assholes. There are women who are seriously psycho bitches too. I danced continuously for 12+ years (on and off for the last two) and never developed a serious aversion or problem with men customers.

    I just wanted to state this for the record. Of course I reserve the right to change my mind, once I get back to a serious schedule. But I used to really enjoy my job. Honestly,I'm really ready to go back..but we'll see.
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    Default Re: Well, I don't hate customers. I kinda like them.

    This I like to hear. I am a customer. I know nothing so simple and basically innocent as a man watching a pretty girl dancing, preferably nude. Usually the talk is easy and relaxed even if there is an underlying sexual elememt - that's the fun and shpuld be for both parties. I expect the young lady to make money while I have a relaxed fun experience. If she also encjoys it it is more likely that i will and so will be happy to spend more to keepus both happy = does it need anything more?

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    Default Re: Well, I don't hate customers. I kinda like them.

    i agree, i never had the man hater drive in me becuase of dancing

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    Default Re: Well, I don't hate customers. I kinda like them.

    i don't hate men either. i hate some types of them for sure though.... and with passion.

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    Default Re: Well, I don't hate customers. I kinda like them.

    You know, it's easy to spot the man-haters; it takes anywhere from 5 seconds to 5 minutes. Those are some of the types I will avoid. They are no fun because nothing a customer can do for them, besides had over a lot of cash, can make them genuinely happy. And for me the dance thing should be a genuinely happy thing most of the time; somehow those are the most memorable dances and dancers.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    Default Re: Well, I don't hate customers. I kinda like them.

    There are a lot of customers that I love to talk to, dance with, etc. If anything - dancing has turned me off to the guys that I grew up with because they don't treat me with respect and I didn't really realize what that was until I started dancing. I've met so many gentlemen in the club - even hung out with a few outside of work and had a really awesome time.

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    Default Re: Well, I don't hate customers. I kinda like them.

    I like some customers and I really don't like others. I feel pretty much the same about men as I always have - love certain types, dislike others - dancing has not changed this, it has just given me the confidence to let them know in no uncertain terms.
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    Default Re: Well, I don't hate customers. I kinda like them.

    Most of us don't hate men or customers specifically. I think the guys who've been complaining about it here lately are really bitter or have a chip about something.

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    Default Re: Well, I don't hate customers. I kinda like them.

    I like the majority of my customers and people I meet inside strip clubs generally. Its rare that I meet someone I dont like - although it seems to be that all of the arseholes come out on the same night. I go for months without any problems then boom there will be a night full of them, lol.

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    Default Re: Well, I don't hate customers. I kinda like them.

    Quote Originally Posted by Dottie Rebel View Post
    Most of us don't hate men or customers specifically. I think the guys who've been complaining about it here lately are really bitter or have a chip about something.
    Thank you. I personally decline to justify myself because a minority of male posters here choose to be offended at stuff that is a) not of their concern and b) generally pretty innocuous.
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    Default Re: Well, I don't hate customers. I kinda like them.

    Quote Originally Posted by lildreamer316 View Post
    I dunno why I haven't turned into one of those ppl who really is turned off to men because of dancing...but I just haven't. I like men, in general. Sure, there are assholes. There are women who are seriously psycho bitches too. I danced continuously for 12+ years (on and off for the last two) and never developed a serious aversion or problem with men customers.

    I just wanted to state this for the record. Of course I reserve the right to change my mind, once I get back to a serious schedule. But I used to really enjoy my job. Honestly,I'm really ready to go back..but we'll see.
    I'm the same way! I've met assholes both inside and outside of clubs, but I've also met a hell of a lot of really nice/cool/interesting people inside and outside of clubs. Strip clubs can bring out the best and worst sides of people, but I would never generalize the assholish things some of them do to the entire population!

    I've met very few strippers who are anti-men.

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    Default Re: Well, I don't hate customers. I kinda like them.

    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    Thank you. I personally decline to justify myself because a minority of male posters here choose to be offended at stuff that is a) not of their concern and b) generally pretty innocuous.

    Yes we want to avoid a positive thread getting out of hand.

    Save that energy for the negative.
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    Default Re: Well, I don't hate customers. I kinda like them.

    I don't hate men. I don't hate customers. I don't hate anyone, actually. I AM severely annoyed with people who strikes me as jerks -- on here, in the club, or anywhere for that matter.

    I danced for a long time without developing bitterness, but finally did. So I've stopped, at least for a while. I don't wanna be that bitter dancer staring into space during every dance. It's not fun for me, and it's not fun for my customers, and I have this work ethic that says if I can't perform the job adequately (i.e. give decent customers the good time they are looking for) then I shouldn't be in the business.

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    Default Re: Well, I don't hate customers. I kinda like them.

    Quote Originally Posted by threlayer View Post
    I guarantee you that if I feel a dancer subtly 'hates' me as a customer, it is my concern and it may be hers in a few seconds when I politely reject her, which is not innocous. FFT.
    What you are talking about here has nothing to do with what I was talking about.

    In any case, even in the club, you are talking about customer service, not feelings.
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    Default Re: Well, I don't hate customers. I kinda like them.

    Well, since you are talking about customer service and not feelings, I'm not sure "deception" is a particularly accurate word.
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    This is good to hear.
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