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    Last night I was getting a dance from this beautful Purta Rican women. As she was dancing I was lightly running my fingers from her shoulder blades down to her lower back and up again. All of a sudden she said "you really know how to touch a women" this statement kind of threw me for a moment. I told her that her comment made me self cousions now, and she laughted. That was the second time a dancer has told me this. So I asked her how do most coustomers touch you and she said "most of them just paw at her". I've always felt that I want to be touched the same way, although I wouldn't say no to being womenhandled. I thought this was a weird comment and just wanted to share.

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    How is that a weird comment? Next time you go to the club, sit and watch how the customers touch (or try to) the girls.
    Yes, they do "paw at us". They grab, bite, lick and poke also. (and most of it is not wanted) OF COURSE it is much more welcome when you gently touch our backs and not grab our boobs!

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    she was probobly either

    a complimenting you
    b just trying to flatter you to get more money

    or more likely

    c both.

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    Quote Originally Posted by i.breathe.in View Post
    she was probobly either

    a complimenting you
    b just trying to flatter you to get more money

    or more likely

    c both.
    ^also what i was going to say

    answer "b" is probably the reason you "heard it before from another dancer".

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    Whether it is really enjoyment or part of the hustle, I frequently have dancers compliment me on my touch. A big part of my enjoyment is non-sexual touching of my dancer. My ATF really likes her hands massaged. I also work on her fore arms. Nearly anything else gets the bouncers nervous. I guess they feel her shoulder blades are too close to her g-string.

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    I don't see what's weird about it. She is comparing u to men who grope and grab at her and saying she prefers the way that you touch her.
    Personally I don't like customers to just assume they can touch me in any way. You should ask a person before just putting your hands on them in any way - CONSENT is under-rated.
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    Just read some of the comments. As far as a hustle that's always in my mind, but I spent the same amount of money that I was going to spend regardless of her comment. Either way I took it as a complement and still had a good time.

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    I am big on being touched, and if a guy runs his fingers lightly over my back, leg or arm I'm quick to tell him how good it feels.

    Ahhhh, reminds me of the AWESOME cr's when the guy just wants to give you a (clean) rubdown

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    I really like it a lot when men touch me that way. It's really rare and is actually a turn on. I tend to say the same thing because of it.


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    I don't think it's a weird statement. It was a compliment, just go with it

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    I really like it a lot when men touch me that way. It's really rare and is actually a turn on. I tend to say the same thing because of it.
    Same. I try to compliment, encourage them and/or reciprocate when they "brush" me with the tips of their fingers in the hopes that they'll continue to be all gentlemanly and tender with me - I am usually way more passionate and lovey when I believe/feel that he is trying to please me.

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    I always prefer that a customer doesn't touch me, unless I initiate. If he does though, what you described is the most tolerable.

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    she was trying to stroke your ego so that she could make more money.
    but to be honest... it is nice when a customer just wants to touch my back instead of trying to grab on my boobs or butt. the lap dance is much more comfortable for me and I do a better job when I'm comfortable. When Im dancing for a customer and all he wants to do is try to grab on my parts every 3 seconds I feel kind of tense and on edge so I'm not really doing my best.

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