View Poll Results: What do you do in VIP/Private dances? And are you honest to SW about it?

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  • I always have told the truth about my contact level.

    78 43.33%
  • I am not honest about my contact level for fear of witch hunt.

    25 13.89%
  • In VIP/Private room, I do f/s and oral.

    11 6.11%
  • " ", I give handjobs.

    12 6.67%
  • I rub a guys dick through his pants.

    45 25.00%
  • I let guys lick and suck my boobs/nipples

    40 22.22%
  • I don't do anything but light grinding...I keep it clean!

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    Default Extras/ Your level of contact

    I am very curious to see the results of this poll. Its completely anon, so please answer honestly.

    Giving extras/super high contact dances seems so commonplace in the clubs, yet every girl on her claims not to be doing them. I wonder just how many girls actually tell the truth about what they are doing in the clubs.

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    Default Re: Extras/ Your level of contact

    i used to do friction (what grinding is called in tampa) dances where you completely strattle the customer... and medium to heavy contact (which was allowed at my old club). guys could touch my breasts/ass. there were also "bed dances". that's when the guy lays down on the bed and you strattle him and dance that way.

    i never did any "extras" or let them touch my crotch with their hands.

    i -hated- it. i've said it before and i'll say it again:
    it's the only thing in my adult life i completely regret and wish i could take back. i went to a low contact club 2 years ago and i'm still there. you can sit on the guys leg/do lean backs/get your boobs really close to his face/etc but he can't touch you anywhere cept your arms/stomach/legs ... and that's only if -you- want him to. there is no grinding. i will sometimes -lightly- brush up, but that's about it. . i could never do high contact again.

    and for the record, i've always been honest about my level of contact on here.

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    Default Re: Extras/ Your level of contact

    I personally think that my contacct level is a little higher than most of the girls on here... I have like ZERO nip sensitivity so I basically just shove my tits in a guys face and rub them all over.

    My club does a lot of dick-to-ass grinding but I dont really do too much of that. I do rub their crotch with my knees and the front of my legs.

    I personally thought I'd be freaked out about this level of contact and feel like a total slut based on what I've read here, but I really have no problem with this at all. I guess I'm just a dirty dick rub-er (even if it's with my knee)

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    Default Re: Extras/ Your level of contact

    also: im not passing judgment on anyone who chooses high contact, as long as it's ALLOWED in their club and is legal. i wish girls providing extras would just become escorts and keep it out of the clubs. it's why strip clubs have become whore houses.

    i just personally can't do high contact anymore and wish i never had. it doesn't mean i think anyone who does it is a "bad person".

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    Default Re: Extras/ Your level of contact

    im interested to see the results too! i checked the first one and the contact with the guys crotch one. in vip i do a lot of grinding both backwards and forwards and a little knee to crotch and chest to crotch contact. ive never touched a guys crotch with my hands/face. < i think thats really gross when girls put there mouth right up there near the dudes crotch (with pants on) during a dance. i allow touching in vip but never my crotch area. and if tthe dude tries to turn the dance into a major grope fest ill either stop or give a shitty dance just to be a bitch muhaha! >. i dont like being torn to pieces like a slab of steak i also do not allow saliva on any part of my body. thats just ewww. i know what i do is really high contact for sw, but i work at a very high contact/ high mileage club and have actually been called prude, no fun, innocent , etc by customers on a reg. occassion. unfortunately non-extras giving dancers are in the minority where i work

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    Default Re: Extras/ Your level of contact

    Quote Originally Posted by Aubreyyy View Post
    I personally think that my contacct level is a little higher than most of the girls on here... I have like ZERO nip sensitivity so I basically just shove my tits in a guys face and rub them all over.

    My club does a lot of dick-to-ass grinding but I dont really do too much of that. I do rub their crotch with my knees and the front of my legs.

    I personally thought I'd be freaked out about this level of contact and feel like a total slut based on what I've read here, but I really have no problem with this at all. I guess I'm just a dirty dick rub-er (even if it's with my knee)

    Your level of contact seems pretty normal. Mine was similar. I *might* rub crotch with my knee (like, if they happened to be cute or if we had chemistry). I was totally flat when I was dancing so I had no titties to rub anywhere. lol If I had 'em I might've used them. As said before, I danced at Uptown Cabaret and what you said you did was common there. And they were pretty strict -- there were extras going on before club opened though and possibly other times that i didn't know about.

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    Default Re: Extras/ Your level of contact

    extras to me = dick coming out of pants or penetration.

    heavy contact is the norm @ my club. you don't sell dances here if a guy can't touch your boobs, and you won't even sell ONE dance if you don't grind. to stradle a guy is a normality. it doesn't bother me one bit. i guess it's because i'm a severely sexual person and it comes naturally.

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    Default Re: Extras/ Your level of contact

    i do light grinding light straddling and the knee rub to the crotch thing lightly. i do the boobs in the face. technically these are extras in our club but most of the girls do it, so its not really an issue.

    most of my dancing is compiled of close face to face contact with a lot of eye contact hair touching etc. i make my money off of being "connected" to the customer with eye contact and things like that..well that and boobie smackin in the face haha.

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    Default Re: Extras/ Your level of contact

    I'm not really a heavy grinder, I've found that the guys that are into that are the cheapest, ime. I will admit the more they are paying the more they are playing.
    I do the knee rub to the crotch too, along with a lot of contact. Nothing under my panties ever, but guys can touch my breasts as long as they are not nipple tweaking. No saliva swapping either.

    Of course if I was working one way contact or no contact, I wouldn't be doing these things. Depends on the club rules, then I take it as close to the line as I can.

    I hope we don't have witch hunts on here regarding contact. That would be ridiculous. I own what I do and I don't care what anyone thinks about it.

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    Default Re: Extras/ Your level of contact

    I've dry humped for $ (where it was allowed). I made sure to not break rules/laws though and my level of contact depended on how much I liked the customer.

    Fun, sweet, polite guys got way more action from me than grabby rude assholes.


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    Default Re: Extras/ Your level of contact

    My club is medium contact. No boob touching is allowed back, arms and legs are fine. Grinding is allowed, but I do it light. Really, really light since the couches have handle bars, I keep most of my weight off the customer. It's the lowest contact club in the state but there's no money there. It sucks because now I have to choose between staying there, making nada and being comfotable and going to high contact club. I'm not sure if I'll make much because I can't stand being touched.

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    Default Re: Extras/ Your level of contact

    I used to be a super heavy grinder. I stopped since I realized it's not really necessary and just do intermediate grinding.

    I really wouldn't feel comfortable with a guy touching me anywhere besides my hands/arms.
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    Default Re: Extras/ Your level of contact

    wow.. i don't think id like working in a place when i can't even put my boobs in thier face!!!! i really enjoy that part. especially when i'm on my period and my boobs are all swollen... so the smallest push on them feels sooooooo good!! even if it's the side of thier head... i know, i'm crazy...

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    I have always been honest about my contact on sw. I do grind, for a few seconds then switch it up. I do not allow any touching of my tits or crotch. I allow guys to grab my butt cheeks. I do not grab their dick through their pants.

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    Default Re: Extras/ Your level of contact

    I let guys touch anything except mouth or kitty (ass and boobs is fine). I do not grind because it's not allowed where I am.

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    Default Re: Extras/ Your level of contact

    oNly pink ribbons are allowed to vote on this right? I was thinking that some of the blues might vote for kicks??

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    Default Re: Extras/ Your level of contact

    Cant anyone check to see who voted? a mod or something?

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    Default Re: Extras/ Your level of contact

    Is grinding pretty normal in most cities these days? Where I work lap dancing is pretty much all grinding.


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    Default Re: Extras/ Your level of contact

    Quote Originally Posted by Bellona View Post
    Cant anyone check to see who voted? a mod or something?
    Wouldn't that defeat the original statement and violate people's privacy?
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    ^^^ But is there a way for polls to block the blues from voting? I'm just wondering.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ahmeerah View Post
    oNly pink ribbons are allowed to vote on this right? I was thinking that some of the blues might vote for kicks??
    I was thinking the same thing. Especially after I saw some of the replies.

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    Why would any1 honestly post this online if they did?? Hello why not just run to a cop and ask to be arrested (if yr not in Vegas or somewhere like that)or put it in writting you can't ever delete so years after the fact yr family , friends, future employers, emenies can read about it if they know how to look.

    I honestly don't , but I think it's a dumb question a smart girl would never post about--for that go do porn and have it legal on film so every1 knows.

    I'm just a dyke who doesn't do guys period soo there has been no nothing between me and a dick for 10+ yrs (except maybe another chick we shared) and any chick I ever did was for fun/my personal sexaul enjoyment even if they tipped me nicely after* which is silly cuz I never asked for it so I just consider it a bonus or a gift and ussually something that happened outside of the club if they asked me to take the day off 2 spend with them and know I lost money for doing so (so it's for my time as the sex was free). Now I have had fun w/my hot female coworkers off/on the clock, but no money involded between us soo that I just consider employee benefits.

    I don't judge those that do as maybe if I wasn't gay I would just have sex for money all day--as I'm pretty much like that with women minus the money part which I do like 2 sooo whatever best of everything who can say no 2 that, but lots of times the other girls wonder what i do in the rooms becuz they all know I'm gay and since i do alot of rooms they assume maybe I'm doing what some of the others do(which no customer can ever say so and managers know will never happen)--but no I pretty much just find guys that like to be teased or that I can play around with in other ways like sharing dirty stories or smacking them in the face and calling them my bitch. Whatever I'm a super sexual person(I'm comfrontible with contact depending on who where and when), but I definately have my limits which means they always keep thier dick away form me customer or not.

    Guys do ask for BJ and other extras alot (cuz it is common around many clubs here)--but I just go 1st "ILL!!" 2cd I'm just a stripper and a gay 1 at that and that's generally the end of that--some try to offer me more or promise I would like it, but I just raise the price to something they can't afford or wouldn't pay even though I once had a bet for 5000 upfront that I wouldn't like it and was actaully afraid he was going 2 pull it off his Amex Blackcard-thankgoodness I was 2 drunk and we were closing cuz he still wanted to have me meet him at the Bilmore cuz he was serious while I was only joking but fucking 5grand for 15mins of grossness and laughing in his face after I would almost coinsider if it just wasn't sooo nasty 2 me besides I had to have my friends drive me home cuz there was just noway.

    Usually I'm good at controling the situation and if they try me I'll move thier hand--once a guy bit me hard and I almost went for his eyes, but really I'm way more comfrontible with a guy trying 2 kiss me or put a hand on my boob then 1 that wants to message my back cuz 4whatever reason that really bugs the hell out of me--something about big rough man hands just seems to fuck up my back and gives me pains I just can't deal with.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ahmeerah View Post
    oNly pink ribbons are allowed to vote on this right? I was thinking that some of the blues might vote for kicks??
    there's no doubt in my mind that some blues will vote. that's part of the problem with anonymous polls like this.

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    oh and i forgot...

    sometimes in VIP if the guy is being really nice i'll let him get away with -some- amount of ass touching. not in between (obviously).

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    Quote Originally Posted by snow white View Post
    in vip i do a lot of grinding both backwards and forwards and a little knee to crotch and chest to crotch contact. ive never touched a guys crotch with my hands/face. < i think thats really gross when girls put there mouth right up there near the dudes crotch (with pants on) during a dance. i allow touching in vip but never my crotch area. and if tthe dude tries to turn the dance into a major grope fest ill either stop or give a shitty dance just to be a bitch muhaha! >. i dont like being torn to pieces like a slab of steak i also do not allow saliva on any part of my body. thats just ewww. i know what i do is really high contact for sw, but i work at a very high contact/ high mileage club and have actually been called prude, no fun, innocent , etc by customers on a reg. occassion. unfortunately non-extras giving dancers are in the minority where i work

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