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    one of the girls who started dancing a few days after me, was stabbed to death in her apartment. we all believe the man who killed her came into the club and was "stalking" her. i'm in loss for words right now. the f-er that killed her is in jail, he did admit to stabbing her to death.

    sorry. i just needed to vent this out. girls, please be careful when you leave work. have the bouncer walk you to your car or considering getting a taser or mase if you don't have one already.

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    that's horrible. i'm in pennsylvania...weird.

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    I;m definatley getting some mase...til then,I may carry around a miniature can of hairspray or deoderant...anything that hurts the eyes:-(

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    hi mercez i know this story you danced with my sister. She was also effected by the murder it was very tragic.

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    sorry...im at a loss for words. thats horrible!

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    Quote Originally Posted by mercedezbenz View Post
    one of the girls who started dancing a few days after me, was stabbed to death in her apartment. we all believe the man who killed her came into the club and was "stalking" her.
    Do you have a link to this story??

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    It happened a month or two ago in New York, too. It makes me really uncomfortable to know that stripper/stripclub-related crimes are so common. Sometimes i forget because it seems so safe where i work.

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    Maybe its the same one. I can't seem to find the story in Google.

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    I'm so sorry. This makes me so glad. Not to get off topic, but the fear of something like this happening to me is the main reason why I had to leave my highest spending, longest customer (2yr) alone..it's just not worth the risk.







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    Any links to any of the NY/PA stories would be appreciated.

    Anytime in any job where I've worked at night (e.g., a few of my retail jobs) or where I am left alone or almost alone in a building (e.g., teaching jobs), I think a lot about this when I'm driving home alone.

    As far as it pertains to my club, management and security do a great job of safety. We are escorted to our cars, but what bothers me is that anyone can clock a dancer and see her escorted out. While the bouncer stays until your car starts in the staff parking lot, it's still possible to be followed onto the street if the guy sees you heading out and can manage to catch up. That is what worries me, as it did in other jobs where I felt I could be targeted.

    My friend is a nurse who stays until closing in her outpatient unit and has the same fears since enough people would be able to know she's in there alone.
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    http://www.wpxi.com/news/16474820/detail.html

    that is the link from wpxi...krcha...yeah me and your sister were pretty upset..she hung out with her the night before or something. its just horrible that an innocent girl gets stabbed to death by some psycho. the club i work at has bouncers that walk us to our cars, but its still scary cause theres @$$holes that wait outside for rides or tricks...

    i also hate driving home alone at 4-5am...espicially if i have to stop and get gas or cigs..i think getting mase is a good idea too.

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    curiousseeker - i agree with you. thats another reason i get scared. i had a psycho the other night that wanted me to drop him off down the street. i knew him from high school, but no. no rides for customers. i get so paranoid that some stalker is gonna follow me to my house...

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    Quote Originally Posted by mercedezbenz View Post
    curiousseeker - i agree with you. thats another reason i get scared. i had a psycho the other night that wanted me to drop him off down the street. i knew him from high school, but no. no rides for customers. i get so paranoid that some stalker is gonna follow me to my house...
    I think that's healthy instincts, not paranoia.

    I get scared of even being pulled over by a cop at night when it's harder to see what's going on and when there's not as many people around. I think if a cop has his lights on, you can put your blinkers on and drive to the nearest station?

    As far as the link, I'm not getting that she was targeted as a stripper per se. It seems he developed his fixation on her as his neighbor, which also is what gave him access to her. From the discussion, I thought he was her reg at her club, which isn't the case apparently. None of these observations negates the kind of danger that any worker in any context faces if she can be more likely to be targeted and followed home easily.

    This story just scared me because I was/am dealing with a guy who lives here at my complex. He's not cognitively intact, and that is what has worked to my advantage so far because he blurted out to the maintenance staff here that he wanted to know my name and where I lived. The staff alerted me and I think also said something to him. You never know where you could pick up trouble.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mercedezbenz View Post
    http://www.wpxi.com/news/16474820/detail.html

    that is the link from wpxi...krcha...yeah me and your sister were pretty upset..she hung out with her the night before or something. its just horrible that an innocent girl gets stabbed to death by some psycho. the club i work at has bouncers that walk us to our cars, but its still scary cause theres @$$holes that wait outside for rides or tricks...

    i also hate driving home alone at 4-5am...espicially if i have to stop and get gas or cigs..i think getting mase is a good idea too.
    Thank you for the link. Especially since recently I was at the gym at my complex and the guy next to me on the treadmill was pretty stinky. I remember thinking, "someone should really let this guy know how bad he reeks!" I guess you never know who you're going to upset. I can't believe how many times the killer was institutionalized!

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    OMG. What's her stage name? What club did she work at?

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