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    warning: following has to do with a subculture not widely accepted, especially on here



    Ok so I have a secret to tell all of you. It has to deal with a part of my life I'm closing, but as I shut this chapter its like ending with crazy drama you wouldn't believe. And I need to get this out.

    When I was 19 I got with a pimp. Ok, now, not like a Don Juan Magic whatever, a lot of pimps don't look like that. The pimps I know are very clean cut, good looking, wear gucci shoes, etc. That's their tools to get girls but I don't want to get into that. He didn't put me on the streets, I worked clubs and calls and he taught me a good game.

    So, I was with this guy for 5 years on and off. I only gave him money the first few months, we fell in love, and I stopped giving him money. He had other girls come and go, breaking him off, but he played house with me. Yeah its disgusting and fucked up, but I was young and getting a lot of money so I was alone a lot and would have no one to turn to. No one understood me as well as he did.

    There was one girl who was with him, still with him, and she knew everything. The girl is very pretty, not dumb (just in denial i guess) and gets money. I actually had like a conversation with her on text this morning for the first time in years. It was weird. But what was it about.......

    Defending myself. These pimps hate on me SO BAD and it got to a point in my life where I couldn't even work at my home club. The club was a sancutary. I hated working in Tampa because it was almost like every girl in the club had a pimp, and my man knew them so I was watched like a hawk. I went to SC to get away.

    My ex became obsessed with me and one day we got in a agrument, I kicked him out, and he broke in an hid in my closet while I was tanning. It freaked me out. I got a warrant. This girl, who has no life except for working in the club and watching girls who used to be in the game i.e. me, would repeat everything I did in my home club to her man, who would then repeat it to my ex. It was fueling his obsession. I got drunk one night with a friend, went into the club and got in her face. TOTALLY NOT ME. Now I'm a tiny thing, but that bitch was scared cause thats my club and I have some girls in there that would seriously hurt the girl if she touched me, but I was so drunk I was begging her to cause I wanted her fired. She was fueling my ex's obsession and tricking in the club.

    So, I squashed it with her, it was so immature on my part but what can I say these people in this circle bring out the worst in me.

    I started to hate myself. I felt like they were dragging me down. I couldn't sleep in that town. When Masters came, I didn't even work because it was infested with pimps. (I always make atleast 5 gs in a weekend during that tournament). I would see them at the gas station, see them at the food lion.... it was a constant reminder of how horrible my life was with my ex. We had STUPID money we didnt know what to do with, but I was absolutely miserable. He was a twisted fuck and did horrible shit to me. I think I have like PTSD because when 'they' came into town it triggered something where I would have panic attacks constantly

    I started talking to one because I thought if I did my ex would never speak to me again. Thats a huge sign of disrespect and I figured he would find out and leave me alone. So, I'll call this dude Frankie. Frankie taught my ex everything he knows. He was his mentor. So I call up Frankie and we talked for three hours. We continued talking for weeks, he would give me good advice and I was giving him buisness ideas for him to put money into. Plus a friend and I are writing a book about 'the game' and I thought it would be good field work. Every pimp has different game. Anyway........ long story short, met up with him in NC, he got in my head and I was actually thinking about choosing up with him. He APPEARED to have his shit together, we got along great, I was extremely motivated to get some money... ok, stop before you preach: he has more shit going on than I do and I was going to get with him to elevate my status, not just give him money. I'm not dumb, just lazy. Ok....

    so, I drive all the way down there and turn around. Why? He was giving directions to me and fucking a girl at the same time when I got off the interstate. did I care about that.. not really.. did I care he lied about it, HELL YES.


    Frankie looked like a jackass. He freaked out when I told him I was turning around. To save face, he told all his homeboys and including my ex what was going on and then made up some bullshit about me. Nobody had any idea I was talking to him or anything. Soooooooooooo... I get an email from my ex, I forget to *67, call him and he was cool at first cause we haven't spoken in weeks... but now I'm getting phone calls again, harassing text messages, that girl and I got into it this morning... I know its so easy to just say 'dont text back'.. but my name is being dragged thru the dirt all based on lies. I was being very mature, but also sassy cause she was really trying to get at me. But we were on two huge different wave lengths, like, ok honey you want to tell me how you RESPECT this man so much who used to spend your hard earned cash on me? Yikes.

    And yes, these dudes really have time on their hands to talk like this because THEY DONT HAVE JOBS. They are worse than bitches when it comes to gossiping, I swear! Sewing Circle Central. Also, its like part of their m.o. to look for girls, and watch girls in the club, its like their job so ... whatever. Ugh... I asked the girl to delete my # from his phone. I hope she did. I don't want to change it for the umpteenth time.

    Ok. so I just had to get that out. If you read it, thanks.


    * side note: if you read my other post in the lounge about the lawsuit, yes, he was trying to 'sqaure up' and get rid of his girls so I loaned him the money. I didn't give it to him, I just wanted to make that clear cause I am real and I don't want ppl to get the wrong idea.

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    I don't even know what to say, or what I could say, or what you want people to say. Just...omg.


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    I know. I'm OMGing at the fact it happened to me, its unreal. I half posted it just to get off my chest, the other to expose that kind of lifestyle. would you buy a book about my life? cause that is like nothing compared to some drama that comes along with 'the game'.

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    This make me think of shenanigans people do in Jr. High -- without the actual pimping. But the way people are treating eachother sounds very young.

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    I second Lysondra's OMG. Wow. Do you want out of the drama or to still be engaged with it? I don't know how dangerous your ex and his fellow pimps are, but can you move someplace where no one knows about all of this? I don't say this with any judgment, but is trying to "clear your name" in this circle of people futile? From your post, it seems that even attempting to do so escalates the drama. Whatever happens and such, I wish you luck and safety.

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    Oh its ridiculous. The women have stolkholm syndrome, and believe whatever their dude says. And the men have CRAZY money. I mean, houses, presidential rolexes, 100 thousand dollar cars. But when you talk to them, its like... super thug mentality. They have a code they live by, and very specific rules and then its like... nothing else. Like their matieral posessions are what makes them happy, not true friendship, definately not love lol... its sad.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissDewdrop View Post
    I second Lysondra's OMG. Wow. Do you want out of the drama or to still be engaged with it? I don't know how dangerous your ex and his fellow pimps are, but can you move someplace where no one knows about all of this? I don't say this with any judgment, but is trying to "clear your name" in this circle of people futile? From your post, it seems that even attempting to do so escalates the drama. Whatever happens and such, I wish you luck and safety.
    Oh I'm not scared of them, I'm more scared of their girls honestly. They do not intimidate me at all. They also aren't stupid, they would never hit me in public. Would their girl, probably. Do I want this drama? No maam. I learned this lesson:

    Trying to extinguish fire with gasoline is super stupid. But at the same time, this whole situation has motivated me to live even better than them. So, I'm excited to work, I haven't been excited for work in YEARS. Am I going to go clubs where the girls are? No. But these dudes travel. Vegas, MIA, whever there is $$ and ppl talk, so, I'm bound to run into somebody who knows somebody.

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    I'm so confused. ^^^ Do you mean you're excited to go back to work tricking or dancing?

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    honey!!! you must not have read everything. or know the termonlogy. I don't trick, no maam, unless you want to buy me a range rover. I have GAME, I'm not a loose ho by anymeans. But, no, I'm excited to go get some money! I hated dancing for the longest because I looked at money as evil. Now, I'm over that. I got something to prove.


    * side note: if you are referring to me doing calls, there is ahuge thread about that game i posted about how to be an escort without being a prostitute

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kalligirl View Post
    Oh its ridiculous. The women have stolkholm syndrome, and believe whatever their dude says. And the men have CRAZY money. I mean, houses, presidential rolexes, 100 thousand dollar cars. But when you talk to them, its like... super thug mentality. They have a code they live by, and very specific rules and then its like... nothing else. Like their matieral posessions are what makes them happy, not true friendship, definately not love lol... its sad.
    That's why i said it sounds so Jr. High. It is sad and they all (not you) sound like idiots.

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    Wow. Thanks for sharing!

    I would read your book... Hell, I'll help edit if you want!

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    I wouldn't read a book about that topic. No offense intended but prostitution is legal here in Australia and not that interesting IMO. Plus I would kind of find the topic depressing. I prefer true crime novels.
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    I think it's an interesting lifestyle and I'm sure plenty of bored housewives would want to read about it the same way they like to read about strippers. However, I'm sure it's also a very sad, lonely, and unfulfilling way to live, so I'm happy for you that you're moving on to better things. You sound really smart and articulate. I bet you could write a pretty good book. Take the time and effort to do it well. I can see you and the talk show circuit already.

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    I *think* it sounds interesting, but I'll need a subculture-to-nerd translation because I think I'm missing out on some subtle nuances.
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    ^^Yeah I didn't totally understand the post either, but I'm glad you're doing better, Kalligirl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    I wouldn't read a book about that topic. No offense intended but prostitution is legal here in Australia and not that interesting IMO. Plus I would kind of find the topic depressing. I prefer true crime novels.
    who said anything about prostution? see its a very wide known assumption you have a pimp you are a hooker but i was never on the streets or in anytype of gutter situation... these pimps are actually very selective (when they can be) on who 'choses' up with them.

    i know girls that have great families (like myself) in the game, girls who sisters turned them out, girls who have no families, girls that are poor, girls that are rich that are in the game...

    and i know the post is basically in pimpology terms, i would have to put a glossary in the back of the book. and in my own defense, the book would be more rather about teaching girls how to get money aka the game then the ongoing drama in the pimp world.

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    Again, I'm confused. What you did was prositution, no matter how glamorous of a call girl you were, or how rich and high profile your custies are. Why are you skirting the term and dancing around it?

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    If there isn't any prostitution involved, why would a girl need or want a pimp? What's getting pimped?

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    Wow! Sounds crazy and I probably Would buy your book. I don't think anyone smart, especially any SWers would want a pimp tho, and that's no offense to you. Still would be a juicy book!

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    i'm not judging or anything but i was under the impression you had sex for $ as well. so aubs wasn't alone in that.

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    well, prostitution or whatever it was, it sounds like a rough drama-filled life. Good for you for trying to get out of it!
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    I'm so confused. Like someone said, why would you need a pimp if they weren't pimping anything...

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    I just spent 10 minutes reading that post and I have no idea what is going on. Am I a total dumbass?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ahmeerah View Post
    If there isn't any prostitution involved, why would a girl need or want a pimp? What's getting pimped?
    I've known a number of dancers who have a pimp, actually.

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    Quote Originally Posted by loveandluxury View Post
    I just spent 10 minutes reading that post and I have no idea what is going on. Am I a total dumbass?
    Right there with you.

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