Im finding it really hard to make money at the weekends. They are our busiest nights and other dancers are doing really well but the problem is my club is in a town that is one of the most popular places for stag do's and parties and im petrified of groups!
Its a problem thats definitely becoming worse as Im feeling so low on confidence at the moment. Its hard to explain because I know deep down Im one of the most attractive girls there but even when a group of guys are obviously interested, talking about me and trying to get eye contact I feel so embarrassed I look away and let another girl go to the table instead. Contrast this to the weeknights when we get a lot more lone guys in or pairs of businessmen etc, honestly im like a different person, like how I used to be all the time. Im confident, smiley, approach all the guys and generally strut about like Im the queen of the club!I do well and I have fun, it makes me remember why I started dancing.
The problem is the money is not good enough to only do weeknights, I have to work weekends whether I like it or not,but theres rarely any single guys or business types then, just a lot of rowdy parties. So i need to get over my fear but I dont know how. Its so bad that even when one of my girlfriends takes me to the table and does all the talking for us I feel so awkward that I often barely speak or scurry off straight away!
Clearly this is ridiculous and its so frustrating because I know inside I have good stripper qualities-attractive,intelligent and a good dancer but Im sorely lacking confidence which seems to be the most important aspect of our work. Sorry this has been so long, thanks for reading through it!xxx



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