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    I posted on another name recently, and whined a little about not getting hired. Well... I AM PROUD TO SAY THAT....

    I am an exotic dancer!

    I love it. Wonderful people, really friendly vibe, and grinding on a fifty year old with no teeth isn't all of that bad. They have a lot of girls that have never danced before, so its more relaxed. Not every girl is super friendly, but none of them have been rude. As for managers... they're mostly women, and I was seriously impressed. They aren't arrogant.. they're informative. They supported me flopping around on stage, and have yet to say anything about me dancing to 80s music. I love it.

    As for customers....
    I've only danced for people that have asked me to dance. I've gotten one VIP, like... one "private room"... and a few floor dances. I spend my time talking to customers about the weirdest things. One of the first men I approached... wound up talking about how his parent's passed ten years ago. I ask too many questions. I've had a few men actually bring up during conversation "So, how do dances work?" and I still dont have the balls to ask them if they want one. Instead, I ask them if they want a dance from any of the other girls ill let them know. Oh... man.... Have any of you ever been genuinely interested in some of the wisdom these sleazy perverts have to share? Oh... and im so comfy around the unattractive, old and smelly.... yet will only give a brief smile to the cute ones. BLAH. I'm having fun, and ive decided to write out some goals for myself (like, sell 20 dances today!) or something.

    Questions for you:
    I heard the other girl's complaining about a girl's rock music. If her music was bad, mine was the gateway to hell.... should I be concerned? I want to stay on good terms with the others, and they complain that it is hard to give a private dance to a song that they dont feel sexy to. I'm sure when Jethro Tull come on, they want to kill me.... Should I try to toss in a rap song every set? or.. should I start dancing to what they dance to? I like their music... just, can't sing to it yet.

    Are my managers concerned that I spend so much time talking to one customer, while not even trying to hustle them? I try to encourage them to go tip the girl on stage and stuff... and usually they'll come up when im on and toss me a few pity bucks... but ill spend a few hours and not do one dance. It's a small club, and on a positive note the men seem to enjoy idle chit-chat. There are a lot of regulars... or men that frequent it regularly. Other girls approach them when i leave to go on stage, or go to the bathroom and such....

    Have you found that many men appreciate sarcasm? I was surprised to see how many men actually enjoy obnoxious cunt... not that they'll pay for obnoxious cunt..

    Anyways. Sorry if this post is a little all over the place. Theres too much I can say, and im sort of out of it. I want to post a picture of my knees too, im so proud! WOO HOO!

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    I dunno... as I'm still trying to become a dancer... but you're my hero now... and you've given me a HUGE confidence boost...

    muchmuch love!!
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    First picture is the two pounds of make-up I wore my first night.

    Second picture are my knees. Hitting the dumpsters behind work is hard on your body.

    Third... is some slept-in makeup. Im vain, and had to show you all my knees... so enjoy!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nikkee View Post
    I dunno... as I'm still trying to become a dancer... but you're my hero now... and you've given me a HUGE confidence boost...

    muchmuch love!!
    (heres some of my advice... new girl-to going-to-be-the-newgirl) Read the rest of the site too. Information puts you at ease.....

    As a new girl.. I found that im actually more secure with my body than I was before stripping. Im the type of girl that wouldn't even wear a short sleeved shirt out. You look thin, but I want to assure you that when you're nude, and men are salivating... any body issues you have seem to drift away. Yeah, sure, you're going to look at other girls and be like god fucking damn! But, we are much harder on ourselves than the clients are.

    I packed a humongus stripper bag after reading a thread about what a good stripper bag should entail. The babywipes are for your coochie. (I didnt know that, and had to ask.... so just giving you some wisdom). Well organized makeup is nice. We do somewhat long sets, and I look like I just got out of the shower after being on stage so I have to run-in Blowdry my roots a little... and put some more lipstick on. My skin isn't bad, so I just use a kleenex to get the sweat off of it. Keeping your outfits organized is nice too, since you dont want to be fumbling through a bag looking.. it stresses you out.

    uhhhh uhm........ I couldn't sleep when I first started (and still have only been catching a few hours). If you aren't athletic, or not use to hours of exercise than you're probably going to be pretty sore. I bought some Tylenol PM, but have yet to use it. I like going to the gym after work... even if im in pain... because I need to blow off the steam somehow.

    The pain you experience is only when you aren't working. When you've got your shoes on, and are attempting to perform... your feet and knees wont hurt so bad. Mind over matter I guess.... I know after my first day I was soooo concerned that I wouldnt be able to work again. I was basically limping. No worries though.

    Well, I dunno, if you have any questions.. or anything you think I can help you with let me know! You should go in and do it. Its exhilarating!

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    Congratulations! You're gorgeous

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    You are DEF a gorgeous girl!!! And man what some bruises girl... so you're gunn ahave to 'splain why the dumpster behind work did that?! I'm confused. LOL.

    DarlingMinx...you're awesome sweetness... just awesome :-D

    Im going to go start a new thread about fitness, physique and dancing....

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    Congrats!

    Asking guys for dances will get easier. When a guy asks "how do dances work", that is the PERFECT time to ask him if he wants one. Just say something like "Are you ready for me to start dan cing on the next song?" If he's asking, he's interested. Why you'd offer to go get him another girl to dance for him in beyond me...

    Honestly, you should NOT be sitting and chatting with a guy for hours (or even more than 5-10 MINUTES) if he isn't spending money on you. It wastes your time and prevents other girls from making money off of him. That is way more likely to piss off the girls at your club than your music choice.

    The music you dance to is up to you! You don't need to throw in a rap song or do anything except keep dancing to what moves you


    Good luck!
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    what the fuck is up with your knees goddamn....please clarify. the dumpsters?

    otherwise you are hot!

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    Yeah, I know. I deserve to be slapped for being so silly. I'm going to approach this differently today (I had a day off, and time to think about things). The dumpster thing was just a joke. Like, giving head behind a dumpster? It didn't fly so well. Sometimes I really miss. Thank you guys!

    Im going to go spend time in the hustle section!

    My knees are just hurt from being on the floor. I didnt wear stockings the first night I worked, and that caused them to be pretty beat.

    Thanks again!

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    Congrats... I remember my first night, my legs hurt like hell... It's nice to hear that you went for the floorwork your first night, I was to nervous, and I know I looked like a dumb-ass without it.. It just feels so awkward! Your poor knees!!

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    I find that a lot of guys LOVE sarcasm(if they are smart enough to get it!LOL)

    And the managers might not get mad..but yeah,you shoudnt spend too much time with one custie without profiting!

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