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    Now, I know the dressing room is place where disturbing news and stories are thrown around rampantly, but this.. this just sickened me.

    I was in the dressing room, getting ready to go home & overheard one of the other girls telling another girl that "She would never be stupid enough to pay for childcare," "what does it matter if her baby is sleeping anyways?" "Nothing's gonna happen, i don't have no candles lit or nothin'." "He don't do nothin but lay there all day anyway." Basically telling the other girl that she leaves her baby ALONE while she works, and she does up to 10 hour shits sometimes. WTF?

    I have no idea how old her "baby" is & I honestly don't even really know the dancer, but egads, I am really disturbed & saddened. She does look a little "rough around the edges" & "cracked-out" but still? Leaving a baby, any child alone is outreagous!

    Should I do something? Can I do something? I've never really spoken to her as she's known for causing drama & uneeded ruckus, but wow, I feel obligated to do SOMETHING.

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    OMFG, I don't even know what to say. I guess "befriend" her enough to find out her name and address, and call CPS on her if it's really true.

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    I'd totally find out her real name and call child protection services.

    Love it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chrissy68 View Post
    I'd totally find out her real name and call child protection services.
    yes agree.. shes just asking for any one of you to go and do that by announcing her business to the entire dressing room....so she deserves a visit from the child protection authorities.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Havana View Post
    she does up to 10 hour shits sometimes.
    Damn, she must be really constipated! Seriously though, that makes my blood boil. She need CPS called on her ASAP.
    Last edited by virgoamm; 06-04-2008 at 01:34 PM.

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    ^ lol virgo.

    srsly though... that is horrible. call cps.

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    Holey Shit!!!! Offer to drive her home and then you need to tell someone. Kids can cry and choke. If they're old enough they can climb out of the crib and get into all sorts of no good. If they're older they can open doors and start fires. Holey fuck.
    If you don't have the heart to do that find her somewhere she can leave the kid for free. maybe where some other dancers kid goes and will just watch the kid if they know the circumstances. Until you can come up with a better idea.
    Sounds like this chick is on drugs.

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    Make sure you hear right, are you 100% sure she said she leaves the child alone? If your sure then call child services, if not get to know her a bit better first so you can make sure. if it turns out you were mistaken, calling child services will put her under investigation needlessly which is alot for a family to go through if its unfounded.



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    Is it possible to tell a manager and get her information that way? If this is a true story, then that child shouldn't be left alone any longer. That is absolutely ridiculous. How does the child eat?

    Even if you are mistake and PK said, it sucks that she'll have to go through an investigation but if she's not doing anything wrong then it shouldn't be that big of a deal.

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    Yeah I'd call the cops and Child services. If the club makes a copy of your ID..tehy can go to them for her name and address. This is NOT something to take lightly...she is seriously putting the child in danger.

    And you dont want her to come in one say saying her baby had died while she was at work knowing you didnt do anything to stop it..I dare say you couldnt live with that. So call NOW.

    Dont tell her,dont tell the club..just tell the cops.

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    Call the cops and CPS asap! Then get somebody to slap the shit outta her.

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    Definitely call the police. Like CKXXX said, you don't want to live with the guilt that you'll feel for the rest of your life if you do nothing and the baby dies while she's at work.

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    Yeah. Agreed with everyone here.

    Ways to get her information:

    Manager, if you trust them to take you seriously.
    License plate number, if she has a car. You can give the number to the police and they'll probably be able to track her down.
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    Personally I'd stay out of it.
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    Make an anonymous call to child protective services. That child deserves better.

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    Damn, I understand staying out of drama, but who would lie about leaving their baby alone? I don't know how someone could just stay out of it. That's like saying, I know Girl X is getting the shit beat out of her by her boyfriend, but because I don't know if it's 100 percent true I'm not going to do anything, and then OH it's too late....I don't get that attitude. The worst that could happen is CPS and the police go to her house, and everything is fine. If she reports anon, no one will be the wiser and if she's blabbing it in the dressing room, I bet she's blabbing it everywhere else too.

    I would definitely snatch a license plate number and call the cops, and anonomously tip them off. That's horrible.

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