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    you know.. that little voice in your head thats like "I TOLD YOU TO TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS! GOSH!"

    yeah, its there.

    just a week ago (maybe not even that long) I posted about how I just can't handle the environment anymore, (ie. the cheap assholes that make our job hard) and I was quitting.. etc etc.

    I needed money to end it and transition out of this. I went in to work. CLUB WAS DEADDD. No tippers. I was defeated, about to walk into the dressing room and put my clothes on and leave before some guy was like "hey I want a $30 dance in VIP"

    GREAT!!!



    ... about 3.5 minutes later that guy threw me on the floor, was on top of me on the floor grabbing my thong off. the club was dead, the vip room was just me and him, and the music loud.

    before I could recover from him throwing me down he took off his pants and put his penis on my pussy, trying to force himself in me.. In complete anger I was able to muster up some serious adrenaline and was able to kick him and scratch him off, and ran to the dressing room.

    he ran off.


    I've cried. So much. It's so violating.


    I have to get tested. I have to shake this off. I'm not in a great mental state after this. But I have to go back to work. My bf is not feeling that at all. We just need money right now.

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    Oh fuck. I've dealt with this many times...its why I cant take it anymore. I'm so sorry honey..DO NOT GO BACK. Listen to me..I've BEEN there..it is NOT worth it. I dont know where you are..but there HAS to be something else.

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    Please don't go back, there are so many reasons not to.
    You need to heal. Talk about it as much as you feel like it, don't hold anything you want to say inside, even to a counselor at hospital/sexual abuse clinic if you feel that you need extra support. They should not cost anything. When you visit your GYN, he/she can refer you, or you can use the yellow pages. If you go back to the scene when you clearly don't want to, it could traumatize you further. Your inner and outer health is priority, not forcing yourself to continue to suffer. Money isn't worth the trouble that can cause. Can your bf take extra financial responsibility briefly, in the light of this, while you help yourself and look into other ways of making money?
    Also, god forbid this bastard is lurking around that place. He knows where he could possibly find you. He could come back to try and catch you on your way in/out.
    The idea of going back is too dangerous for your inner AND outer health.
    Please be safe.
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    I'm so, so sorry.
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    Oh god sweetie, I am soooooo sorry!

    *sends hugs your way*

    Call the police and file a report, and see if your club has any kind of surveillance. You NEED to get this on the record. Who knows how many times he's done this to others? He may have done this before (most likely) and police may already be looking at someone.

    Please please please, call the cops and then get yourself some too! Rape hotlines are usually listed in the phone book or the police should provide you with a number.

    DO NOT go back to the club. As someone said, he may be lurking, and it all honesty, you're going to be in no shape to work, needing money or not.

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    Oh God honey, I'm so sorry this happened. Don't go back, go to the police. Is there a chance he might have used his cred card while in the club so you could track his details? I can't believe the security in your club is so lax. You poor thing, don't ever ever go back there.

    Just out of interest, how did the club react when you told them what happened, didn't they call the cops?



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    That is horrific. What an evil thing that happened. I have been a victim of attempted sexual assault myself and it was terribly traumatic. What helped me get through it most was having friends to talk to and support me, and a spiritual healing (which I'm sure is not everybody's bag). Make sure you have a support network and you will get through this. Feel free to PM me if you need a sympathetic ear.

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    sorry to hear that. You need to go to the cops with this. You cannot let ANYONE get away with things like this. Doesn't the club have cameras? may be the door man remembers him when he checked his ID? someone must know who he is.

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    did you try to get him off??? in situations like that you can get superhuman strength and go batshit.

    i'm sorry it happenned to you.

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    Oh my God.

    I second what everyone else here said. Don't let that weak piece of shit get away with this. Tell the police, get the video surveillance, get credit card info, anything. Don't be afraid to do it. And please do not go back to work at that club.

    Seek counseling as well. This was not your fault, and you did not deserve it. At all.



    I'm thinking good thoughts for you. Know that we are here for you too.

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    that is horribel hun, where was your floor guy?

    i wish i could say something to make you feel better.

    its amazing to me how many girls have been posting about this behavior lately. makes me fucking sick. there is no excuse to act like that to anyone for any reason.

    men have some fucked up issues.

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    WTF is happening to our society?? I'm so sorry you went through that. Please don't go back, just take the time you need to heal. Your emotional health is worth way more than money.

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    That is so sick! Im sorry that happened to you hun, no one deserves that shit. I vote for mandatory castration for sick fucks like that.

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    So sorry to hear that this happened to you. I hope the cops were called and the situation treated seriously.

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    Much love and prayers to you, I'm soooo sorry this had to happen to you.

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    Please don't beat yourself up, this is not your fault. So sorry it happened.
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    Oh god sweetie, I am soooooo sorry!

    *sends hugs your way*

    Call the police and file a report, and see if your club has any kind of surveillance. You NEED to get this on the record. Who knows how many times he's done this to others? He may have done this before (most likely) and police may already be looking at someone.

    Please please please, call the cops and then get yourself some too! Rape hotlines are usually listed in the phone book or the police should provide you with a number.

    DO NOT go back to the club. As someone said, he may be lurking, and it all honesty, you're going to be in no shape to work, needing money or not.
    Exactly what she said!! I am so sorry this happened to you. PLEASE don't blame yourself whatever you do. Can you work at another club or something? It most likely will be really tough to go back and you might not even realize it for a little while. I would look into other options if you have them and stay away from there for awhile.

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    I'm so sorry sweetie. I wish there was something more I could do for you Hang in there, love.

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    They are right- unless the guy is caught, do not work there, you do not want him following you home. If you need to work, talk to a medical professional first- chances are you will experience some panic attacks and flashbacks, and they have medications that can help, my doctor has me on xanax. If they have cameras in the dance room, make the police aware of them. There is a thread on here with really good advice for victims of sexual attack- I've been attacked myself (though not at work) and the information I know will help. The only thing they don't tell you is the factor of working in our type of environment- it WILL fuck with your head. Just remind yourself- you did nothing to deserve this- all men know no means no no matter what!!!
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    Oh my god, that is AWFUL!! I agree with the others, don't go back! If they don't have the kind of bouncers and security in place to stop that happening before it can even begin, then its not a safe place to be. No amount of money is worth risking getting raped every time you go in to work.

    I know everyone handles things like this differently, but if it were me, I would definitely call the cops. Attempted rape is the same whether it was in the street or in the club, and there has got to be some way they can track the guy down. There is NO WAY you're the first girl he's done this too, and he's not going to stop off his own accord either.

    Focus on taking care of you right now *hug*. Make sure you get any help, counselling etc that you need. You had a traumatic thing happen to you and you need to heal, above everything else.


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    Wow, sorry you had to go through this. You definately should find a safer place.

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    I agree with what everybody else has said especially the part about not going back there. It's not worth it honey.

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    Oh. My. God.
    That is. . . Seriously, seriously scary.

    And, I'm very glad that you were able to kick your way out of that. You should be really proud of yourself for getting out that situation the best way you knew how.

    Be good to yourself, allow yourself time to get angry, to cry, to be afraid, to whatever you need to do.

    And remember to breathe and listen to yourself. Give yourself a hug, ok hun? You did okay, and you're alive, and you're safe.

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