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    Default I freaking lost it last night.

    I don't know what the hell happened last night. Yesterday was stupid club meeting day, where the GM acted like an idiot (standard stuff) and blew off our complaints. Afterwards, I knew I needed a break so I went out to lunch and had a nice window shopping afternoon w/ one of the other girls.

    When I came back though, it was just hell. Almost no custies for hours and the ones that finally came in were the sort that usually come in Friday-whoremongers and poor 'too cool for this shit' guys. ALL night. Add to that the GM joyfully cutting all non-standard locks (including mine), and I lost it at midnight. Few custies, a feature, no money, the appearance of some guy who used to harass me a few months ago. I did a turn of the floor and went up to some guy who was giving me the eye. AS SOON as I came up and said hi he did that rolling eye, looking away, I am too cool bs. I grabbed his face and said 'Don't look so fucking thrilled to be here' And then went to the back and cried. I really though I was going to slap that guy. I was FURIOUS. Almost uncontrollably.

    Needless to say the dancer manager came back, we talked and he let me go home. I don't know what he hell happened to me last night. I need to breathe or something.

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    *hug* I'm sorry. That sounds like an absolutely miserable night. Whatever happened to the other club you were thinking of checking out? Sounds like it's def time for a new club.

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    That's been going around lately. We're all frustrated and angry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    That's been going around lately. We're all frustrated and angry.
    Its not just happening in you guys SC industry either. Everyday at the factory I work at (where I am the only one in my department that actually trys to put forth an effort) am on the verge of slapping someone... I don't know if its gas prices, cicadas, or what but people are becoming increasingly shity, and all of the ones in management are just trying to cover there asses.

    It sucks that it seems to be moving all the way through to the SC >< I know you ladies have to put up with a lot as it is. I hope it blows over before I whip up the nerves to try out.

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    im sorry i had a terrible night and cried my eyes out too like a baby after losing a champagne room. *huugs*

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    Honey, I do not blame you. Hell, I don't think anyone does. And it's not just your club. All of them seem to be struggling. It is frustrating trying to keep a smile on your face every single second.



    We should go get a massage or something. Or maybe you could start a dressing room fund for a heavy weight punching bag? I know sometimes when I'm super stressed hitting something inanimate makes me feel better.

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    We all have those days...don't be too hard on yourself.

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    I'm sorry, Rose... what a miserable night. It seems like assholes always come in on the same day... can't they just take turns?

    I agree that this isn't just happening in the SC industry. My husband says he has had to deal with more assholes with bad attitudes lately than he ever has. It seems like road rage has gotten worse around here lately, too. Does the entire country just need to get laid or what?

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    Quote Originally Posted by SexyJess View Post
    Does the entire country just need to get laid or what?
    Money is tight, people get stressed and BOOM instant asshole!

    Just wait until gasoline goes up to $6 a gallon sometime this year.

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    I've seen this happen before the gas prices blew through the roof as well, but I think it might be happening more after.

    Sorry you had a tough night, last night was horrible for me so I can sympathize. I DO work in a good club, but the gas prices are hurting Key West (though I suspect it's still one of the better places to work in the country), and last night was one of those nights where everything that could possibly go wrong, did go wrong, lol. By the end of the night I was a basket case.

    The punching bag is a great idea, lol--I am always able to deal with nasty shit happening if I have had a good session before work.
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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseLeigh View Post
    AS SOON as I came up and said hi he did that rolling eye, looking away, I am too cool bs.
    GGGGGRRRRRR. These guys can add up quickly.

    I hope you're feeling better.
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    Thanks guys. I'm doing a lot better. Tonight was CRAP, but I got credit on my housefees, so eh. ALmost no custies all days, so a couple of the girls and I spent a bunch of time on the poles. And then four of us went on stage for one song and danced like idiots.

    Made almost nothing, but some monkeying around helped me feel a bit better. I think my arms will be very sore tomorrow. I only have on more week with out a car (oh-I got a car! Picking it up on Fri), so I can drive to new club ASAP!

    Temp-I am so down for a massage! Call me!

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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseLeigh View Post
    Thanks guys. I'm doing a lot better. Tonight was CRAP, but I got credit on my housefees, so eh. ALmost no custies all days, so a couple of the girls and I spent a bunch of time on the poles. And then four of us went on stage for one song and danced like idiots.

    Made almost nothing, but some monkeying around helped me feel a bit better. I think my arms will be very sore tomorrow. I only have on more week with out a car (oh-I got a car! Picking it up on Fri), so I can drive to new club ASAP!

    Temp-I am so down for a massage! Call me!
    Glad to hear you're feeling a little better. And yay for a car!!! That will make things soooo much easier, I'm sure.

    do you get texts? I suck at calling people. lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheTempest View Post
    Glad to hear you're feeling a little better. And yay for a car!!! That will make things soooo much easier, I'm sure.

    do you get texts? I suck at calling people. lol
    Text away! I'm a little bad at the phone until I know people really well. Then I talk their ear off.

    Yup, car = ability to find new apt and second club. Just have to wait till Friday. No patience!

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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseLeigh View Post
    Text away! I'm a little bad at the phone until I know people really well. Then I talk their ear off.
    I'll do that tomorrow.

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    wow.

    sorry for the bad night.

    i think the gas prices have a lot to do with things right now.
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    better to let it out than bottle it up.. you might make some enemies or piss people off but at least you are being yourself! lol

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    Cigarrette taxes went up here in ny. I bet alot of people will be acting fucked trying to quit. Oh joy!

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