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    My regular wants a pic of me. I don't think I should coz it creeps me out thinking about him having a pic of me.

    But he is willing to pay quite a lot for it.......

    Im conflicted.

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    Default Re: would u give your regular a pic of you?

    Sure. If it's a good regular. My wealthy regular has a picture of me, knows my real name and calls everyday. A good regular requires more honesty (not total, but more) than the rest.

    It doesn't have to be a nude picture does it? A picture in just a stripper dress and heels should be ok.

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    Default Re: would u give your regular a pic of you?

    ^^
    no he just wants a regular pic even just of my face.
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    Default Re: would u give your regular a pic of you?

    The first thing I thought of is that he would try some love spell or voodoo, but i'm just paranoid like that...I know that thought is out there but you never know...how about taking a cell phone pic of you two?

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    ^ I think it's a little creepy. You just never know what he would do with it ( as you know ). It depends on how accepting you are of your "Stripper self " in your everyday life. For example ... if everyone knows you dance and you don't need to hide it .... it might not be stressful to give him the pic. If you are hiding dancing from some ( or lots ) of your friends and family .... the stress might not be worth it .

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    Hmm.. this never occurs to me because my pic is all over the net or anyone to peruse for free...so I totally would. But if you arent comfortable with it,then go with your gut.

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    Default Re: would u give your regular a pic of you?

    I hide dancing from my family. Plus I would hate the thought of him showing people it and pretending I was his girlfriend or something - what if they recognised me?

    The cell phone pic is a good idea actually.
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    Default Re: would u give your regular a pic of you?

    If it creeps you out, no - go with your gut instinct.

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    Default Re: would u give your regular a pic of you?

    If you're worried about spells, there are ways to "scrub" your essence out of the picture, make it magically inert.

    I'd visualize or place a cord running from the picture to me, then snap/cut it, burn it if using a real cord, and cleanse the picture with sage smoke and/or rock salt. (Rock salt probably not so great for photo paper, but could probably still absorb the energies through a cheesecloth around the picture. Haven't experimented. This is just off the top of my head.)

    If you're worried about exposure... yeah, ask your instinct -- would he do something like that? If you have any doubts, perhaps best to avoid.
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    Quote Originally Posted by punkpixie001 View Post
    The first thing I thought of is that he would try some love spell or voodoo, but i'm just paranoid like that...I know that thought is out there but you never know...how about taking a cell phone pic of you two?

    As a witch, I can honestly say love spells performed UPON people do not work (esp. performed by those who are not well versed). Love spells performed upon yourself do, always. Plus there is the fact that he would require more than JUST your picture for it to have any remote possibility of working (such as hair, nail, saliva from you).


    If he is a good spending regular, give him a nice modeling shot sort of photo. Something you wouldn't be phased to give out to someone. However you also need to know.. why does he want a picture of you so badly? Will this make him a RIL now (which can be scary) ? If he is a RIL, no no no do not give him a picture as that will possibly turn him into a stalker (or perpetuate his fantasy whatever it is).


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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl View Post
    If he is a good spending regular, give him a nice modeling shot sort of photo.

    Good I idea, A professional head shot, that wouldn't necessarily say "stripper" on it.

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    The cell phone pic thing with the two of you... If you were together in the pic it would just be even easier for him to say you guys are dating. just fyi
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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    I hide dancing from my family. Plus I would hate the thought of him showing people it and pretending I was his girlfriend or something - what if they recognised me?

    The cell phone pic is a good idea actually.
    He doesn't know that you're hiding your dancing from your parents does he? If he has a pic in the club or of you in stripperwear he could use it against you if he wanted.

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    Nobody gets a photo of me. Think of the money he is paying you as compensation for all the ways that picture could bite you in the ass, then decide if it is worth it. Yes, it may not "prove" anything in a court of law, but someone peculiar enough to want a photo of you is peculiar enough to make issues for you later on.
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    I would go for a nice normal clothes (but maybe dressed up in a nice dress and heels) photo. Personally i don't like the cell phone idea as its so easy for it to get texted around.
    He probably just wants to masturbate over it

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    I've gone long lengths to make sure there are no photos of me in stripper gear or naked anywhere in the universe outside of the clubs CCTV system.

    But a head shot? Eh, he could have got it anywhere. A photo on his cell phone with you in normal clothes? You were drunk at a bar and you figured why not make some guys night by getting a photo with him.
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    It wouldn't be a big deal to me. Seriously, what do you think he'll do with it? Jerk off? Well, he probably does that while thinking of you, so how much worse is a clothed pic going to make it? If he's a good regular, it is worth it to do small things to make him happy. I've sent some of my regulars pics via email. But like others have said, I'm all over the internet so it's not a big deal to me.

    The vast majority of people don't believe in voo doo, so the idea that he wants it to put a "spell" on you is hilarious. Of all the things he could do, that'd be like #999999999999 on the list. Seriously.

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    I gave one of my regs a copy of a picture off of my myspace.. so if he does try to do anything with it, he's just some crazy loser who printed out a picture..

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    I've done calendar pics fr my club so it wouldn't bother me at all.

    A non dancer type photo wouldn't bother me at all. Now a days someone could get a pic of you just about anywhere, like the others said, off of myspace or while you're out.

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    As long as it's a photo you don't mind turning up anywhere, I say go for it. I'd do it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mollyzmoon View Post
    Does he know anything about your professional aspirations or your real life? What are the chances that he might blackmail you? Those are the only things I'd keep in mind. Law is a pretty conservative profession, isn't it?
    But if it's just a headshot, what can he really do with it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by mollyzmoon View Post
    Does he know anything about your professional aspirations or your real life? What are the chances that he might blackmail you? Those are the only things I'd keep in mind. Law is a pretty conservative profession, isn't it?
    Yes it is. I have been honest with him about my career goals. I don't know if he would do something like that. The only way I would give him a pic of me is if it was a pic of me not looking like a stripper. I have refused to do a calendar shoot for my work and refused to be in the TV commercial because of fear of my family finding out and also because of my future career. So it would def be a pic of me in normal clothes.
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    Default Re: would u give your regular a pic of you?

    yes I have. It makes them feel special and when they feel special they spend more money

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    Depends. If you'd like to get a shoot done for a portfolio, maybe he would be interested in bankrolling your (non-stripperific, just modellrific) session with the photographer of your choice, and then you could choose a couple 'glamour shot' types to give to him?

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    Hmm.. this never occurs to me because my pic is all over the net or anyone to peruse for free...so I totally would. But if you arent comfortable with it,then go with your gut.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    Yes it is. I have been honest with him about my career goals. I don't know if he would do something like that. The only way I would give him a pic of me is if it was a pic of me not looking like a stripper. I have refused to do a calendar shoot for my work and refused to be in the TV commercial because of fear of my family finding out and also because of my future career. So it would def be a pic of me in normal clothes.
    if it's just a picture of you would every single day if you weren't a stripper, i don't think there's a problem.

    unless he's married, then the drama could hit the fan.

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