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    i would probably feel a little funny about this. but i think its because that's kind of more intimate, in a way. like they have a "souvenir" of me or something. i think i'd do it though for the right amount of money. i've sold thongs before. different, obviously, but still personal.

    have you asked him what he wants it for? i'd ask, just out of curiousity.

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    Default Re: would u give your regular a pic of you?

    It depends on the regular.

    For one of them, yes definitely.

    For the others...not so sure.

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    I wouldn't personally. Something about it just creeps me out for some reason.

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    Sure would. Thats what my pics are for.
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    I don't think you'll be any worse off if someone has a picture and comes back to haunt you. It's not any more damning than just the fact you were a stripper, and they could still bring that up.

    as long as it's tasteful I don't see the problem.
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    hmmm.... if you *truly* do trust this guy and don't feel he's going to blackmail you/try to in the future, then you could actually play your cards right and stand to profit quite a bit...

    play up your picture insecurity (i.e. the reasons you don't pose/model/do porn/etc...), the fact you hide your dancing,your future career prospects, and your motto "no photographic evidence." Emphasize the exclusivity and trust of this deal... and take a non-revealing, non-stripperish pic for him.

    and CHARGE out the wazoo... obviously, this is a big deal & your trust better be adequately compensated.

    However, if he's a sociopath and becomes obsessive, or decides to bring you down as an aspiring lawyer sometime in the future, it doesn't matter if you pose in jeans, a t-shirt and flip-flops on a tire swing... he only need claim the NATUre of the relationship and use the picture as proof... and you can't deny it under oath. so that's something to consider as well. i'd go with your gut.

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    Quote Originally Posted by carmen_b View Post
    ^ I think it's a little creepy. You just never know what he would do with it ( as you know ). It depends on how accepting you are of your "Stripper self " in your everyday life. For example ... if everyone knows you dance and you don't need to hide it .... it might not be stressful to give him the pic. If you are hiding dancing from some ( or lots ) of your friends and family .... the stress might not be worth it .
    I agree. If you can take a pic of yourself as 'stripper you', and that looks completely different from what you look like in daytime hours, I don't see anything wrong with that.

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    i would give a headshot yes.

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    Default Re: would u give your regular a pic of you?

    In the last 12 years I've only seen 1 guy using a photo of someone on the net to try and track someone down. And it was creepy enough that even the all-guy readers on the site started telling him he should give it up and try harder to not stalk people.

    The point being that yeah it's a risk, but it's only slightly more likely than a shark attack.

    For legal purposes, it might be safer to just have some kind of nice headshot on a myspace for him to find rather than actually handing over a one-of-a-kind photo which he could then use to claim intimacy with you for his own reasons later on? Or a goof photo where you weren't really recognizable?

    The other side to this of course is maybe he knows there ain't gonna be nothin' between you and he just wants to be able to remember your face 10 years from now because you really have succeeded at doing what you do and have made that kind of impression. I know that of all the dancers I've spent money on, I've forgotten the faces of the ones I most wanted to remember. (Boo-hoo. Sob. Wahhhh!)

    So, like with investing, it's all about risk tolerance.
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    He already knows where I live and what car I drive LOL. I "broke up" the relationship with him recently coz I told him I didn't think it was good for him and that I was kind of using him in a way. But he begged me to keep letting him come in and I gave in.
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    that's not good. Do you really want to break it off?

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    Well I did but then he increased the money again.

    Plus he made me guilty because he said that I'm the only person who cheers him up and he is really depressed right now. I guess I couldn't say no coz I have battled depression for many years and its the worst.
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    Do you keep the money in that back account. I find it weird for someone to have the ability to do that. Can he take the money out if he wanted to?

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    He already knows where I live and what car I drive LOL. I "broke up" the relationship with him recently coz I told him I didn't think it was good for him and that I was kind of using him in a way. But he begged me to keep letting him come in and I gave in.
    So you see this is directly related to you being "creeped out"? You wanted to "break up" with him because he was too emotional toward you for your own comfort....and you're reluctant to give him a picture because he is too emotional toward you for your own comfort. Which is of course why he wants the pic...wants something tangible from the person he loves (or whatever).

    Only you can decide if the money is worth it.

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    I have pictures of me online that customers can find. I tell my real name to good money spending guys with potential. I wouldn't have a problem giving a guy a professional pic of me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    I guess I couldn't say no coz I have battled depression for many years . . .
    He seems to be picking up on your weakest spots and using them against you for leverage?
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    i would but theres already lots of pics of me floating on the internet so its not a big deal.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    Well I did but then he increased the money again.

    Plus he made me guilty because he said that I'm the only person who cheers him up and he is really depressed right now. I guess I couldn't say no coz I have battled depression for many years and its the worst.
    Kitten, you know perfectly well that if you are suffering from any psychological issue, strippers are not the answer. If you are really the only thing that cheers him up you are doing him more a disservice than a service by upping your involvement with him; more likely you are not, in fact, the only thing that cheers him up and he is saying that to get his way. I mean you know you are not going to help this guy deal with his depression.
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    ^^
    you're right. i've often had trouble saying no in my life and he got me with that. but in reality i cant possibly be helping. i mean i do often feel like a therapist to certain customers. this one in particular talks about his problems with dating women or in fact lackthereof dates. but yeh you're right.
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    Default Re: would u give your regular a pic of you?

    no way. that would creep me out.

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